M54
The word “fun”
January 13 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
To the point where when I see the word fun in a profile, it's almost a turnoff for me. To each their own, but someone who conveys what they're after in roundabout ways probably isn't for me, or the other way around. Happy Sunday, ML.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Raise you a discreet fun.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'd like to add Play which seems to be common vernacular on the site. 🍑
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MissRedFox
7 years ago
Yeah I think it means coffee. I just ask them to karaoke Cause that's fun
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'MissRedFox' Yeah I think it means coffee. I just ask them to karaoke Cause that's fun
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RHP User
7 years ago
We all know what it means. Whats the problem. Fun fun fun. Its an awesome word. Positive, happy, delightful, enjoyable. Love the word fun, should be more of it
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RHP User
7 years ago
Adventure? Makes me think of walking the Kokoda Trail or doing a cave dive somewhere tropical (no, not that diamond cave).
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RHP User
7 years ago
So be more honest - but not too honest. Got it. Reminds me of similar advice given in all the ''profile help'' threads; ''Your profile is too long - TLDR'' ''Your profile is way too short'' ''You talk way too much about sex in your profile, a womans mind needs seducing too you know'' ''You tell us all about yourself but you don't really talk about what you want'' "Dick pics are a real turn-off - ugh'' "I don't mind dick pics at all'' ''Don't just message people and hit them up'' ''Message ping pong is frustrating, too much and I lose interest'' Somewhere in the middle is... ummm… open to interpretation in my opinion. In my view, blame all this mealy-mouthed business on everyone that has posted so far, along with those that try to maintain that RHP is not primarily a hookup site, and anyone that is on here just for sex is some kind of creep.
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RHP User
7 years ago
So.... how do you feel about “pushing your boundaries”..... from the point of view that they assume their boundaries and experience surpass yours. 🤔
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RHP User
7 years ago
Urgh 🙄 the word “fun” has become a pet hated phrase of mine too. I agree, just say it, sex! It’s like nails down a chalkboard to me now and instantly turns me off. Especially if a profile is ladled with the common phrases like “fun” “NSA, discrete, like minded, open to experiences and broadening their horizons boring boring. Interesting that the phrase “play” doesn’t bother me though. 🤔
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MissRedFox
7 years ago
Okey dokey Yes there's a different range of responses there Maybe that's because all people are unique and go about approaching things differently I myself even as someone quite sexual grow tired of message after message of guys looking to meet their sexual needs and not consider me as a whole person because at the end of the day what will motivate me to shave my legs put my makeup on, rearrange my schedule and travel is connection. Men have the right to approach however they choose and I have the right to respond or not respond. Mostly I find the use of the word fun hilarious and I've never taken the bait when it's been used
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RHP User
7 years ago
RedFox, I get what you and every other woman on here posts in these forums - a barrage of messages and flirts, most of them probably lacking even a modicum of class or style. I still maintain though - go to RHPs home screen and it is all sex, sex, sex. We each sign in and step into this world. There are a lot of us that like a little more than just ""DTF?", but there are probably as many that are here to meet someone with whom they can have sex, either as a one-off or a fuck buddy. I would love to see some stats (of which there are probably none) from RHP, a survey of some sort, to gauge what percentages there are of people who are here for ''something more'' compared to those that are here just for what it says it does on the packet. Most forum posters here seem to be in the ''something more'' camp, but the odd ''just give me the goods'' poster pops their head in from time to time - male mostly but also female. I think we are in a bit of a bubble here in the forums, most other users are just putting it out there and seeing what they can get. I think there is a tendency here in the forums to think that we are the rule and not the exception. How do we know we're not the interlopers here? And yet we scowl at those that are aggressive (and yes, rude) in their approaches, and then - irony of ironies - laugh when they use more polite terminology like ''fun'' and ''play''.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' So.... how do you feel about “pushing your boundaries”..... from the point of view that they assume their boundaries and experience surpass yours. 🤔 Though after Mango's comment I had a look at their profile, and now must add "taking the next step" to my list.
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RHP User
7 years ago
While your comment is interesting.... I think you miss the general theme here. So many people say things which, in the minds of most people with at least a little bit of EQ.... are just unnecessary. Self sabbitshing even. Sure, people may well be lured here for reasons relating to sex BUT..... simply being here does not make sex an automatic process. The forces of natural selection drives evolutionary change. Input and output We all have our own input preferences which determine our output.... and not everyone knows how to appeal to that process ..... regardless of the website facilitating their approach The reactions above to the word ‘fun’ are an example
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Lionsdoll1' Urgh 🙄 the word “fun” has become a pet hated phrase of mine too. I agree, just say it, sex! It’s like nails down a chalkboard to me now and instantly turns me off. Especially if a profile is ladled with the common phrases like “fun” “NSA, discrete, like minded, open to experiences and broadening their horizons boring boring. Interesting that the phrase “play” doesn’t bother me though. 🤔 I wonder if it is that it is so prevalently used everyday. Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Fun fun fun. Again awesome word. Most of you sound so jaded and sad. Time for a break from here me thinks
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'PeachyPearL'Quoting 'Lionsdoll1'Urgh 🙄 the word “fun” has become a pet hated phrase of mine too. I agree, just say it, sex! It’s like nails down a chalkboard to me now and instantly turns me off. Especially if a profile is ladled with the common phrases like “fun” “NSA, discrete, like minded, open to experiences and broadening their horizons boring boring. Interesting that the phrase “play” doesn’t bother me though. 🤔 I wonder if it is that it is so prevalently used everyday. Peachy By everyone! Peachy
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nightingale8
7 years ago
It's funtastic. Fun fun fun.
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RHP User
7 years ago
lol @ mr mango Under your skin 😂
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
OCD affects many. You will come to terms with simply substituting sex with fun, fucking with play. Guess your undies are folded in order of color. Yes, one of my profiles has fun in it. Om just a child sy heart, running around in my tutu and magic wand. I'm up for fun. Anyone?
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RHP User
7 years ago
I tend to look more for the intent rather than a specific word...there's lots of throw-aways in most any monologue and let's face it, profiles here are at best infomercials. In messages that go back and forth, I am perhaps a bit more critical and can find words that just irritate. I'm still a card-carrying member of the grammar police who believes if that if you can't get that right what is the rest going to be like when we do get nekkers? Anybody having fun yet?
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RHP User
7 years ago
You lot don't like "fun", "play", "adventure", "pushing your boundaries" or "taking the next step". Well I guess it's pretty obvious why you live your lives on an internet forum then.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’m generalising of course, but usually it seems “fun” actually means “I’m gonna get my rocks off and by saying it’s just fun I’m negating any expectations you might have about me making sure you’re pleasured...but don’t worry, I’m still gonna talk up my game like a fool so at least it’ll be easy to ghost each other afterwards” 😂😂
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RHP User
7 years ago
Fun... Lighting bags of dog shit and dropping them on the doorstep of neighbours... :p Ps...disclaimer for the snowflakes...it was an activity from a movie that starred Adam Sandler...billy Madison I think lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
From RHP's home page. 🤔🙄🤐
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'deepestpurple' So, in summaryYou lot don't like "fun", "play", "adventure", "pushing your boundaries" or "taking the next step". Well I guess it's pretty obvious why you live your lives on an internet forum then. but so you haven't wasted your time living your life in the forum... LOL! Peachy
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Rubyt25
7 years ago
and raise you a .. discreet pleasurable fun Quoting 'MrMojoRisin' Raise you a discreet fun.
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Rubyt25
7 years ago
Meet fun and sexy people. Quoting 'MrMojoRisin' From RHP's home page. 🤔🙄🤐 People getting their happy pants in a twist over the word fun makes no sense to me. Just a thought maybe they don't have a pair of happy pants.
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Rubyt25
7 years ago
here's to your new pot and stirring spoon lol .. may it be used wisely in 2019 hahaha Quoting 'The_Antichrist' Fun... Lighting bags of dog shit and dropping them on the doorstep of neighbours... :p Ps...disclaimer for the snowflakes...it was an activity from a movie that starred Adam Sandler...billy Madison I think lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
First world problems.. Maybe people are new here... or old here and haven’t started to play yet... And maybe they are not sure how to word things... And maybe they like the word fun because they think sex is too presumptuous Why criticise someone’s comments when time after time OP you have told people to just be themselves??? Mrs LAL
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Rubyt25
7 years ago
people in this day and age have the right to just be themselves, how many times have there been articles both online and in the real world that encourage us to be authentic and true to ourselves. :-) Quoting 'Livingandloving2' First world problems.. Maybe people are new here... or old here and haven’t started to play yet... And maybe they are not sure how to word things... And maybe they like the word fun because they think sex is too presumptuous Why criticise someone’s comments when time after time OP you have told people to just be themselves??? Mrs LAL
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RHP User
7 years ago
Mojo's getting a raise 😈
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Rubyt25
7 years ago
I'll add on another fun :-) Quoting 'nightingale8' It's funtastic. Fun fun fun.
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teamaj2
7 years ago
Well it’s interesting to read what triggers others when reading profiles to think -that’s a definite no ! We all have certain likes and dislikes that trigger us to say , ‘no thanks ‘ to certain profiles , that list is endless . Luckily RHP has so many members and gives us all freedom of choice . I’d assume most people on RHP have normal lives apart from RHP. Those ‘normal lives ‘ include work , children , family , stress , bills etc . For us after another long long working week full of responsibilities, I think FUN sounds pretty damn good . That’s just us .
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Sure, people may well be lured here for reasons relating to sex BUT..... simply being here does not make sex an automatic process. Agreed, and I'm not saying that it is an automatic process by any stretch. I just think that people should stop being (acting?) so surprised about being approached purely for sex on a site that purely sells sex. We all have our own input preferences which determine our output.... and not everyone knows how to appeal to that process ..... regardless of the website facilitating their approach The reactions above to the word ‘fun’ are an example And I'll reiterate, this topic is basically moaning that men have no tact when they are forthright in their messaging - yet they are fools for using euphemisms. Basically, it says to me, ''we all know what you want when you say 'fun'', but we also hate if you use more direct terms.A few more comments this morning berating the more po-faced responses on here, so it would seem I'm not alone.
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RHP User
7 years ago
It’s an acronym... ...and “FUN” really stands for “Fucking Ugly Nuns”. When will all you peanuts realize too that “LOL” stands for “Little Old Lady”? Oh well... lots of luck. 😐
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madotara69
7 years ago
If we have some folk come visit and sex is on the cards ? first.. Tara thinks it's all fun, not only sex, the flirting, chatting, a few drinks, might play a game of darts, what about spin the bottle, of all she tells "I just love sucking cock, it's my favourite, so much fun if I have two cocks to suck, mmmm" Sometimes there may not be any sex happening amongst all the fun, certainly no obligations in any whatever thing to call it, cause 'party' is now skimmed over typically default with '420 friendly' DG, are you meaning you're feeling lazy or that everyone should be feeling lazy on Sunday mornings, or is there a problem with the boat, not having fun out wide ? 'a seaside cafe' lol, (never turn your back to one, a freak wave could come wash you away ;) Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Anybody having fun yet? Yeah it's starting to look like it.
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Happydaze61
7 years ago
Wow...should it all be this complicated...we all communicate in different ways and all interprate that differently...there is no one size fits all... if there was I'd like to know what that simple word is... if we all knew what we all thought was a turn on or turn off...life would be so simple and we could all have some FUCKING FUN SEX PLAY.....
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think the word Play doesn't bother many people as much as Fun does as it has roots in the BDSM & Kink communities.
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madotara69
7 years ago
DG is the OP, no good yelling at him,... he may have lashed the bollards a little short, if so and the tide dropped while 'not paying attention' then he may be in a bit of a dilemma, hung dry from the seaside wharf he enjoyed eating 'a' breakfast at. 'a' breakfast is indicative to instinctual habit, fight and flight eg, a nervousness or panic like anxiety, even nausea, hence 'a' shows not really so enjoyable, not fun at all, fuck fun and every fucker out there having some, If I can't..!!...fuck you then, fuck the launch 'boat', fuck the seaside, 'where he has his fun out wide in the chair strapped in with a winch and man v's a monster of the sea, a battle of strength, skill in turning such a powerful opponent in peak physical condition, adapt in it's environment, to be turned each run of spool, three times will tame the beast, landed or lashed to the gunnels with the bow pointed to landmarks, a slow and long time steady idle, reach land by 'sunset' if the sea remains calm. Gives himself away right there. 'morning' with further hints pointed out' the ropes are expensive, last thing certainly no fun at all cutting them to drop the launch crashing into the water below, it's just not the done thing. Next high tide hopefully with the King tides, he has another on the rise, not the fall, or he'll be there for a year at the most, then right again.
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Seachange73
7 years ago
Firstly, happy New year ML. Now on topic. Using the word 'fun' doesn't really bother me. I'm an adult and when used in context either in one's profile or message should be taken within context. It seems like a euphemism for sexual play for me and I'm okay with that as some people can be sensitive to certain words. 😎 Sure we know this is not your average online dating site and there is a strong if not blatant slant on sexual exploration/discovery on this site ranging from extra marital couplings, sex with people of different persuasions, open relationship or kinks. Whatever. One's definition or yardstick of fun varies and being in a supposedly open minded site, surely this is the least of our worries? All good and acceptable between consenting adults as long as nobody gets hurt, unless of course pain is their pleasure. I'm not that sensitive nor averse to its usage. Take it for what it is. I don't overthink it as someone said above, First World problems. Lol.😋 I'm here to have fun. Yes I said it. But I'm also here to have fun with people I connect with, not just randomly engage in sex. Just my preference as time is limited for me to have boring or bad experiences.😛 I haven't been Online that often lately, specially the forums, as I am having Fun in Real Life, with my family, friends and even my fwbs (time permitting). All different types of fun with different sets of people. So what's your poison? 😎
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RHP User
7 years ago
I also mention sex and kissing. I like a well written profile, seeing that someone that has taken the time to write something about themselves and what they want. I am not a fan of the use of NSA. I guess because to me that conjures up thoughts of one night stands and I am looking for more than that.
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RHP User
7 years ago
In the context MischeviousLad is talking about as a euphemism, and play that I added to the thread myself as a use for what we really mean is the point here. But the thread is a lot of fun... Nothing wrong with a bit of fun, and I do like to play... With my Grandchild, so ew to the need to avoid direct references to what we mean by using innocent words. 🍑
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RHP User
7 years ago
Keep talking like that a obie1pirate will crash the scene 😋
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RHP User
7 years ago
(Insert cute gif of Monty Python dead parrot skit) Like a simile for a metaphoric euphemism, I don't use the dreaded f-word. I prefer to ask whether anyone's up for a a genital legislative drafting or maybe a lip based synopsis of intended outcums. A royal commission into the major spanking industry? I'm wondering why someone who's in bucolic smugness with breakfast, boat and ensuing leisure is on their device getting snide and huffy over other (mostly supposedly insufferable male) profiles? (AGAIN! x 10) And whether that does or doesn't qualify you as an authority on good times. I remember, long ago, when the forums were fu.......fu...........nah
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RHP User
7 years ago
"friends and fun" yay! tea parties and roller coaster rides! blechh!😖😖😖
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RHP User
7 years ago
I needed this after work. Disclaimer: I've never turned anyone down merely for using the terms fun, play, or taking the next step. I'm so demanding I have at least a hundred other reasons for turning unsuspecting men down, come on now. And we all know I live my life here on the forums pretending something I'm not, while in real life I'm dried up, dateless, and desperate.(Plus currently covered in hives and turning 46 tomorrow, so still only going downhill from here). p.s. Kisses to deepestpurple, I know you fancy me regardless. Caught you checking me out again x
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Seachange73
7 years ago
Darn crowded peak hour Melbourne train on my way home. It's a sweltering summer's day.. 35C. The train air-conditioning is quickly dying. 😓😓😓😲 This Ain't fun!!!😜
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Seachange73
7 years ago
Hivey birthday? 😊
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theTroubador
7 years ago
What @Seachange said - we all know what it means. Netflix and chill? Seems to me like a way for people who aren't as comfortable talking about sex to be suggestive. They might have an element of sexual shame or are perhaps still in the mindset from less open-minded dating apps. It's probably frustrating to anyone with experience or who is up-front about their sexual desires. I don't use it on my profile, but would feel petty if I held it against someone who did. Bad grammar and spelling on the other hand... 🙅♂️😄
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joanne1991
7 years ago
If people interpret sex as fun what’s the problem, fun is what you make it and not all meets end in sex but the moment of the meet maybe fun and enjoyable. I’m looking for fun and if sex is it so be it but I’m not going to say sex in the event the connection for sex isn’t there.
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RHP User
7 years ago
ML's daddy took the T-Bird away.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Rapunzel82' I’m generalising of course, but usually it seems “fun” actually means “I’m gonna get my rocks off and by saying it’s just fun I’m negating any expectations you might have about me making sure you’re pleasured...but don’t worry, I’m still gonna talk up my game like a fool so at least it’ll be easy to ghost each other afterwards” 😂😂 So accurate Rapunzel.Couldn't have said it any better myself.
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RHP User
7 years ago
In dysfunctional 🤪
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RHP User
7 years ago
Fun was what i had as a kid sex is what i have as an adult i guess i dont want to get the giggles in bed and snort or fart by accident which you can do while having fun call it sex guys not fun
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RHP User
7 years ago
All good fun untill someone loses an eye or the tbird is gone
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RHP User
7 years ago
Either way the T-Bird's loss hurts, a lot. 😲
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RHP User
7 years ago
Fun Fun Fun. It puts a smile on my face. Need more fun in this world.
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
we like sex to be fun as soon as it’s not and it’s all too serious and no longer fun ,damn we are outa there mr b
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Rubyt25
7 years ago
Just realised I forgot to say, I might need to borrow your spoon sometime. I don't seem to have the right stirring spoon, but I've got plenty of pots to spare, so if you ever need one give us a hoy. Quoting 'Lily_Rose' here's to your new pot and stirring spoon lol .. may it be used wisely in 2019 hahaha Quoting 'The_Antichrist' Fun... Lighting bags of dog shit and dropping them on the doorstep of neighbours... :p Ps...disclaimer for the snowflakes...it was an activity from a movie that starred Adam Sandler...billy Madison I think lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
Lily.... Lol me?? Use something wisely?? Bahahaha That implies that I possess a level of wisdom....😂😂
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’m curious though how many say “sex should be fun” but have an egotistical response that suggests they take their sexuality more seriously than anything ...
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RHP User
7 years ago
There's a non-attributable quote that says Sex, is adult fun. While there are other fun activities like say, scrabble, no-one on this site has ever suggested it to me, nude or otherwise.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I dont use much any of the usual synonyms for the same outcome which in the most of cases can be , judged , makes people turn off etc . But If anyone come accross to me with proposals of “fun” ...... I just need to know is it Hairy Fun or vanilla coated torcher . As many of you know , i always vote for Hairy Fun ....but never reject brazilian vanilla toping
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RHP User
7 years ago
The Mushroom say to the Toadstool? Oooh you are a fun guy!!! Hugs Q
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RHP User
7 years ago
Mucho fun. Hello Madam,can I interest you in the humorous contemplation of orgasmic pleasure with just a little titillation along the way Hugs Q
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madotara69
7 years ago
Quoting 'MrMojoRisin' Keep talking like that a obie1pirate will crash the scene 😋 Obie1, I believe is held up, trapped in an outdoor cubby house, tree house even. A group of elderly insatiable women desperately, (I believe of recollection when he escaped once to announce his happenings, then returned happily ever after, some say all of us) desperately tend to his good health with home cooked foods, water and wines, until done with him having a educational time played by persuasions matured skilful and wise, haha.... a parliament of wise old owls. Cap'n NoBeard last known was setting the sails for strong winds ahead, seeking port in 'The Octapusses Garden' 'far far away', Pirate code banished 'fun' to all pirates, punishable by walking the plank, pirate code banished 'run' to the plank for similar reason, 'same same by the second or first', of the pirate code. No mistaken problems when calling out for the merry ole rum yar yar.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Wont put me off a well written profile. But Ive read a few "wot u looking 4, Im up for lots of yummy fun lol" type profile descriptions that make grown men sound like 12 year olds
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rupamohan
7 years ago
Well we all may different meaning to words like fun. I can share what I found it means when dealing with significant members of indian subcontinent origin Fun = None. they themselves have no idea what they mean with fun and eventually they realize they were never into anything except being here due to curiosity. Equally amusing is " like minded" and when you ask them to share what is in their mind to check it is like or not. You guessed right no clue again have no idea what they are up to. Never understood how can people waste own time here for just being curious tyre kickers.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I LIKE the word FUN! I use it because that's what the WHOLE TIME SPENT with a man means to me! Having FUN!! Lots of Laughs, good conversation, wine and dine, great passionate sex with a stayover at his! Cant beat a FUN time!
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callmeBonnie
7 years ago
Yes i hate it, it sounds creepy as, instant turn off
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TwoPlus
7 years ago
A mixed bag of comments. It is one of our turn offs when you recieve and message “I’m free tonight. Want to have some fun?” Bong bong Before the word “fun” slips into our dictionary there needs to be an introduction....this is me/us and this is what I/We are about and what I/we are looking for. Then the fun can begin if there is a mutual attraction 😉 Have a great week everyone x
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86Jasindy
7 years ago
Wow, I never realised everyone is so against it... our bio has fun in it, not changing it because it is an accurate way to describe us and also what we want out of this experience. If anyone out there avoids making a connection based on our use of one word, (which I wouldn't consider an offensive one) they are missing out on an opportunity, a fun one at that 😂
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Seachange73
7 years ago
Lol "Wow, I never realised everyone is so against it.." Not everyone. Lol. Obviously you skipped reading a lot of other people's posts in haste to post your opinion? 😎
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86Jasindy
7 years ago
Seachange I realised after I posted it there were 4 pages of comments. I had only read the first 😂 Please excuse my not understanding how this forum works, was my first comment ❤
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Seachange73
7 years ago
No worries. Welcome to the forum. I have been here long enough to say I do skip comments posted by certain individuals as their comments are quite predictable over the years and sometimes I don't want to deal with their behaviour or moods. 😎 That you will find after many years on here. Just sucks the fun out of the forums.😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
Slightly altered lyrics from the Sunrays... Baby, we all live for the fun Fun, fun, fun, fun, Ooooooooo, yeah!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Fun Fun It's a shame I couldn't get more replies on the meaning of fun to people on the thread I posted to accompany this one, some seem to have such skewed ideas of it. As someone with mental health issues, and very understandably so, mental health issues being something that is defended strongly in the forum. It never fails to surprise me when people seem to have no actual understanding of them. But I am coming to realise not everyone realises they have problems or the effect it has on their outlook and behaviour. Me, I keep struggling on, this year has been a balm so far. Finally, some peace of mind after questions, I have struggled to resolve for years under the dark cloud of depression accompanied by the electricity of anxiety that is an every day thing for me, have been resolved. Gaslighting is something I am getting a grip on and life couldn't be more 'fun' as other parts of my life come together on so many levels. Ask hubby... 'fun' is good for the soul. Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hehe I had no idea the word fun could be such a problem 😬 Apologies if I've ever sent you a message saying that you look like a lot of fun. What I mean when I'm saying this is that it looks like you have a sense of humor or that I can see some personality or that I think we'd make great friends. To me, fun is important. Aren't we all here for fun? Or is this serious business for some 🤷♀️?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Peachy...... if only you could #hashtag your other topics.... you’d be able to get them more of the attention you’re seeking 😁
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think you're assuming too much about my intentions, and you are way off. I'd be thinking a lot of myself if I thought my posts would garner any more responses on my threads if people aren't interested in the topic. Though I can totally see how you might think that was the case and it did cross my mind as I was posting but I have more depth than simply spruiking for replies. Cheers, Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
All these faux - pretentious replies over a simple word? Hilarious but not surprising. As someone said above, we’re all here to have fun, I would think. And not everyone wants to be crass about the intent (depending on the vibe - that is a serious turnoff in itself). Fun is an all encompassing term as someone said above.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Why do we "play"?
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RHP User
7 years ago
These words either as nouns, adjectives or verbs don't really phase us.They are tame words perhaps if a judgement were to be made.They certainly don't ruin the day.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I am a 'fun' user and won't be changing it. Sure its a less direct way of saying sex. But i also feel it takes the pressure off the expectation of sex and opens it up to other possibilities. Like sexy chat or going out just for drinks and perhaps either side doesn't want to take it to the next level. It's still fun right?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Guy: “hey, you up for some fun?” Me: “Thanks but I don’t do sex with random strangers.” Guy: “I didn’t ask for sex, don’t be so presumptuous” Me: “ok let’s talk then....” *2 bullshit messages later* Guy: “so what turns you on?” Me: “bye boy” I think it’s somewhat deceptive and I have no time for that.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I find the word "fun" too vague for my liking. I mean how am I to determine whether or not we're after the same thing if all you've said is you're after "fun" which could be rolling around in shit for all I know!!
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