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The pen pal

January 13 2013

Now I am pretty direct and I am here to actually meet people. A guy on Rhp in a recent post said, “the best game is the fast game.” I have to agree with that. This is why I do not do the email thing, the text build up nor the web cam or the internet chat. Though I do email once I have met the guy. He is right, anything over say two weeks and we have not meet then its a no from me. Or three with FIFO guys as that’s most men shift. I think its good filter system, to get a message ,then if they look yummy then say yes, come meet me. Then if the chemistry is there, sure go for it, if not then its a bit like an interview for both of you. Yes thanks for coming nice to meet you but, lets agree that were not going to do the wild thing, end of story. that’s half hour of my time and a bit longer for them as they have to drive down to see me. So if your really just after sex, then why would it take longer to get your bits together? No need for a pen pal is there on rhp? Unless your just platonic friends then that’s fine. But to me if a person does not ring up and talk to you, its a sure sign they are a fraud or just getting their rocks of with wankatext. Or show me your pussy on RHP so I can have a wank. I dont need a pen pal, unless you want to come down and tickle me with your quill

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RHP User

13 years ago

Hi lovely friend, you are right in what you say and not. I think again it differs, sometimes it takes longer. Med up with one from RHP and he chatted on RHP, then he wrote me and email…then nothing for a long time. Then a nice email again and phone call I liked his voice and then we arranged a maybe day….he was so keen he was waiting in the park close to my home even I told him it could be a No on the day because my son hasn’t left yet. He was lucky I rang him and said my son just left, when will you be there, in my mind it takes him 2 hours from Perth, he said 5 minutes. Trust me I was shocked. I looked like a wet mop hadn’t showered or tidied up my home after visitors, and he was sitting in the park. FUCK So I told him, still he was there. I let him in and he waited for me. It was a very, very nice session we had. So this one, was a long time process but worth the wait so to speak. I am a bit fed up with FIFO workers most of them only want to get off, they should talk to their women to get off or go on porn sites and not waste or time. Hey I am not saying all are like this but many, that’s my experience on RHP Bottom-line for me….. I like time getting to know someone for a bit and with some it takes longer and with others not…..I can’t say which on is better. TR we need to catch up again…sending you my love. Cheers

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RHP User

13 years ago

I think a lot of people on here like the idea of being a swinger but over think everything way too much ! If I see something yummy I don't want to wait , make yourself available and let's get on with it !! I hate all the endless chatter , and talking each scenario to death so that when you meet there is no suprise but more of a script to play out , what's the fun in that ! For me this isn't a dating site , I have a relationship , I want sex!!! Xxx mrs cock_suckers

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RHP User

13 years ago

Incessant sms drives me insane.....especially when sms stands for short messaging..and I get a novel thet would rival the Game of Thrones book And emailing ...seriously ? I have a bloke who emails me all the time.....lovely emails but so many promises of meeting but but but.......................nothing...........commit or retreat... We are half way thru summer....move it along....or vacation time will come to close and you wont have any great show and tell stories to share with your mates... when you get back from the summer hols Look you either want to meet or you dont..your in or your out....like most women Im poor time wise..I have things to do and places to go and people to meet, you want to bail...- Im fine with that...but you know ..we either meet and greet and decide to take it from there or within half a hour you say Sorry but its not gonna happen..thats fine..no issue with that..but dont waste my time !!! ...gggrrrr Oh and I am open to a hot dirty sms (lots of them actually) - love it....but please if your all talk and cant follow thru......................seeya !!!

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RHP User

13 years ago

Surely it's OK for people to want and prefer different things? Since when was there just one rule for how to behave on RHP? Surely respect and tolerance and acceptance of difference is a two-way street? Surely you, like me, have been a different person, needing or wanting different things, at different points in your life? Why judge?

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RHP User

13 years ago

This site is more then just sex, in my view.I do like to have pen friends, where there is no pretense of ever meeting but just to share and learn. Talking on the phone is great as well but there are many that don't like it, not sure why. You can tell their confidence from the moment they answer. If its just a lustful spur of the moment encounter "Lets fuck, here is my address" works for me as well.

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RHP User

13 years ago

I think many people have a roster,On Roster Emergencies only.This is how it works... flirt,text message,ya wanna,yadda,ya wanna yadda,then I say,''I dont want to endlessly message if you would like to meet here is my number''...then silence...months can go by and it starts again...no I do not want to be your OREO on a rotating roster just in case you need an emergency fuck .I no longer respond to the second time arounders ,it is such a boring waste of time.

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Cheekyarses

13 years ago

Wankertext - that is a classic!! I actually agree with blindman67

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jezebel_jj

13 years ago

JJ Speaking:If you want to have attention, be pen pals, get your rocks off, feel like the centre of the universe, chat endlessly etc etc - i can name 10-15 other places to do that. I "live" in cyberspace (i work in IT...and im a big ol' computer geek...) and for me personally, enough is enough. When the digital world is so pervasive in our lives (facebook, twitter, personal webpages, blogs, sms, emails, ecards and everything in between) which for many have become necessities to keep in contact with people you are friends with or work with. Why would you then add yourself to another site, draft up a profile saying that you want to meet people and never do? It makes no sense at all. Then to add to that, to make proper use of RHP you have to pay for it...unlike a lot of places where you can do a lot for free.These websites are a tool, not a life and people have to take a step back and get some perspective. There is a difference. We use RHP to meet people - friends or more. If you arent up for that why be on RHP to begin with. BTW...i think webcamming (nothing more) is about as boring as messaging endlessly.

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RHP User

13 years ago

on second thoughts,I just found out the ''other'' meaning of OREOS,not such a smart cookie me, but am HAPPY ta be one of those.....thanks TR,silly me.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Depends what you are looking for, NSA, fwb, partner - each of us is looking for something different. Obviously if you're just looking for NSA then endless messages back and forth isn't going to do it for you.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Unfortunately, I tend to send the short explicit message to the one that wants a novel, the novel to the one wanting a short message, the soft approach to the one that wants it full on and dirty, the dirty and full on message to the one wanting the soft approach, seems hard to get it right sometimes

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RHP User

13 years ago

I have travelled ($100 return cab fares) for a 3 hour meet with wine and great conversation to be told "your not my type" I've had sexting for days gulped lunch and had incredible sex on the first date because we wound each other up with the sms's. It goes all different ways for all different results. But no more long first meets for me, you usually know within a few minutes if it's on or not, so arrange a second meet and have the big conversation another time with someone you have a connection with, not just filling in someone's day. First meets now are to check each other out and test the chemistry. Not a hard and fast rule but a baseline. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

13 years ago

can be such a pain. I would love if I could get a response occaisionally to messages I send via RHP. I think I have sent quite few and while I know its a contact site I don't seem to be what women are looking for. Bugger. Mike

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RHP User

13 years ago

because, Tuscan....sex isnt just about 'need'............its about attraction, availability, circumstance and even arousal..... we receive many many messages..... and move forward only on very select few, and only after chats, exch of pics, meets for coffee...etc etc etc.... to us, if theres an effort involved, the payback wll always be that much sweeter...and hey. why would anyone 'give away' something thats so much more fun.....when earned?

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