The one night stand

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  In my 20’s and 30’s one nite stands were the perfect solution for my crazy student life…...in my 20’s whilst at Uni and studying my ass off.. they were quick, convenient, no hard feelings, no expectations, no commitments and usually quite satisfying… the itch was scratched…in my 30’s whilst chasing the career dream, they were mainly convenient for both parties. … Now I’m in my 40’s well I have to say, they don’t really hold much attraction for me anymore..…sure I’ve had a few …..some have been brilliant (hell I’ve even had two relationships come out of supposedly one nite stands) but most have been” Is that it ?, seriously ???” ..I had one a few weeks ago (against my better judgement and I’m truly kicking myself for not listening to my inner gut on this one..) and the foreplay was so ordinary, ( his tongue in my mouth managed to “caress” the top of my kidneys !!) that after a while, I got up and left without doing the nasty…. ….sad for us both, but I figured a guy in his 40’s would know what he was doing by now – he didn’t…nice guy but so needed some lessons and on that nite I wasn’t interested in playing student/teacher. Nowadays, I’d rather have a nite out with the girls, or attend to one of my interests in the evening…… or stay in with a good book or DVD, than put up with the endless crap that seems to come with a one nite stand…(you know they ring you 3 weeks later at 3.02am in the morning horny and pissed and asking “Hiya..want me to slide my big fat cock into ya ??” At 3.02am in the morning…after his been on the piss all nite...……………….Ah…pass

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  That needs scratching and am over doing it myself!   Last one was out with the girls from work. One in particulars bf and his apprentice turned up. I had an itch that was desperate to be scratched - lets be honest i was as horny as hell! The four of us ended up at the Ibis in Melbourne. My gf's bf fell asleep on the one an only bed so we took it to the bathroom!   Im not entirely sure how we did it but was told on Monday at work that we had smashed the toilet lid and seat and her bf was up for couple hundred bucks for the damages! I coughed up my half of course!   Never lived it down and still has me curious - way too much alcohol and horny hormones flying - fuck knows! But now that im much older and waaaaay more mature - i dont do that anymore!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  One night stands have their purpose, and when I was younger I had a real aversion to anyone seeing inside my heart or spirit, so they were perfect for me then. Now though, I have no interest at all.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I ended up marrying my first and only (back then) one-night stand - after we slept and lived together for a couple of years. He was the only person that I had ever had sex with (until this year) in the first decade we explored the 'Joy of Sex' and did our best work with the Kuma Sutra. The continuity provided an opportunity to develop techniques, add some variations and discover what was in the whole of the Contents of these books. Fast forward and Welcome to 2012: after a year of regaining my confidence and learning that there is "a life to be lived", I nervously accompanied some party-animal friends and went clubbing. Discovered that my new Ring of Confidence combined with lots of shaking my bootty on the dance floor attracted some attention and a foray into ONS-world. The variety of people with their own package of smells, sounds, bodies, appendages *... mmm .... daydreaming here ....* ahhhh!Most have been ONS although some have become a bit like the Magic Pudding - you think that you've had your unfair share and worn out all possibilities but they just keep popping back into your life - some welcomed, some not quite. I've found that it is the same with my RHP playmates: some have been for one time only (if we do decide to get hot'n'sweaty), or maybe they will look me up and flirt somewhere down the track ... ah! the mystery and joys of the unknown ... * so that means that a ONSer may not always retain that tag I've gotten used to not sweating on a follow-up phone call or a 'Wow, Thanks!' txt, although if the Planets Align and if there is an agreement that there is a bit more of the Menu of Delight that needs further exploration, well then ...Oh! a girl can get so busy .... making up for lost time! lol ... that she has to ask some eye-catching Flirters to be patient until her 'dance card' is not so full ...RoxMaking hay whilst the sun is shining

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  in my very early dirty 30's and coming out of a long term relationship i had a string of 1 night stands...going out picking up and no u cant have my number but thanx for a good night..... now a 1 night stand doesnt come from a drucken night out couldnt think of anything worse..but its from bad, average sex and its no thanx im not interested in seeing u again and like you Tuscan i wont call or text a guy after the first night of sex even if it was great...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  You Rock woman. I know exactly what you mean.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Never had a ONS. Perhaps that is my problem?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Agree and disagree with you all. Unfortunately most of my meets that I really like and enjoy, end up being this way. The ones I don't enjoy are always the ones who want to come back. I know I am overly fussy most of the time and therefore limit my experiences. wish I could be more like tuscanred and not tell the ones I liked I want to do it again. The part I don't like about one night stands is it takes me such a long time to finally decide on meeting someone (mostly, cos I have had the odd spontaneous get dressed and rush out late at night meet) is that I then have to vet so many more that might meet my criteria. Guess I am going to have to learn from all you lovely ladies to go more with the flow.

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