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The 'awkward' goodbye?

November 29 2015

We just had our first mw4mw experience (not from here... of course, I'm a gentleman so would not post here if they were on here). The goodbye was awkward. It's like... "We met. We drank. We fucked. We came. Weeeeeee.... gotta go." Are goodbye's awkward in your experience? Just a thought.

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  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    But presume a mw4mw is 2 couples together? But back on topic. Yes there can be awkward goodbyes in any situation. Pull the knickers up. That was great. Well do it again. I'll message you. But least the door closes and you can relax in the afterglow. What might be more awkward is a sleepover and having breakfast together.......

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    10 years ago

    Early on I found that they were awkward but I've learnt to just keep it as friendly as possible. I think how quickly you are exiting can sometimes make it awkward to. Like if you are literally taking off the condom with one hand and pulling your pants on with the other. me I like to take the time to cuddle after and chat a little more.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Well I'm guessing that the actual "engagement" was around the 2 hr mark (a lot of couples are like that), and if so then that's what you get. For us we wont accept anything other than a full night, which is 7pm ish to well after midnight. Occasionally we get treated to sleep overs which have lasted through to our 6 pm check out the next day. The goodbyes are always very friendly and wonderful, no awkwardness at all. The time spent = the reward. You will get a lot more out of it with the more time spent.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Nice one. It could have been that it was a matinee session, 2-4pm. Climax has been delivered... Movie is over. Credits come up. Then you realise it's still light outside? You're just not ready for the real world. It's an awkward time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Whateverway' What might be more awkward is a sleepover and having breakfast together....... Why is that awkward?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I dont want to rain on your parade but a load of couples opt for the 2 hr play. Very hard to find couples that want to play all night....all night. We find it weird. If you are ever up our way please message us..... When setting up a meet ask about times and how long they can play for.......in my opinion 2 hrs is a waste of time......best of luck

  • JohnAnn2227

    JohnAnn2227

    10 years ago

    We have had a couple of awkward goodbyes but never if there has been a "sleepover" Usually the sleepover involves morning sex as well so everyone is on a glow when the goodbyes are made. We usually swing with friends so that is never awkward.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If you leave with the other couples wife by mistake! Obi1

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Obi1Kenietzsche' If you leave with the other couples wife by mistake! Obi1 What a great idea!!!.........Now that would be a pretty fun day, there are a couple of hot wives id love to spend the day with lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    And as a bull , I find they're happy for a 2 - 3 hour session then return back to their normal lifestyle... It's always a happy thing and the good byes polite.. Probably a little different when it's couple on couple because the dynamics change...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    "Great job! *Hi-Five*" It is teamwork after all ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    People will deal with the experience in all sorts of ways. I've had everything from the hilarious high five that cravingtouch mentioned, "let's do that again", one person broke down in tears (that's super awkward), to cuddles, showers, spa's. Don't take it personally, some people need to process it all differently, that's all. Good luck for your next fun time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Every experience ends differently, doesn't change the experience itself!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'd go breakfast or forego breakfast for more fun any day. No awkwardness with me but sometimes feel it coming from them. I've had one or two stay over but up very early to go to work so no morning fun unfortunately, when i'm at my horniest dayam and op I understand what you mean. It seems so cold when you've just been so intimate. I'd prefer to hang for a bit, lay in the afterglow, not talking even, just laying and reflecting on what has just happened. Hate it when they reach for their pants seconds after orgasm, not cool - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I prefer a short goodbye,wanting more is always good for me 😘xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    As for couples spending the night, I wouldn't really know, although for play I have been twice hosted overnight with breakfast, by the same couple, but I had a seperate bed :) For two people, there is nothing like falling asleep naked together, before and/or after sex. But that's me, I like to touch this way while others need their intimate space. The topic called "avoiding the emotional" dealt with this. Certainly I agree with I_touch about morning play, providing there is no rush to get out of bed the next day. At the very least I prefer a decent cuddle and/or chat before leaving. When I've left a couple, it's been typically been hugs and sincere 'thank you's for their errm... hospitality. So far, I've never really had an "awkward" goodbye.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I don't worry about small talk when I meet them haha straight in. I guess it's not common for women, one guy was shocked and took a step back, said 'you are horny aren't you?' I said yeah god yeah, what did you think I was making it up, he quickly and wisely got with the program and came at me full on, picked me up and carried me off, threw me on the bed haha but after, with a guy I love laying and getting horny again, round 2 lol, a couple nah you can't talk about personal stuff too much with the partner there so I'd be happy to cut and run if it were a couple (not hooking up with couples to be clear but if I were). But with a guy, I love chatting a bit, then going back in slowly for more, yum mmm - Posted from rhpmobile