RHP

RHP User

F52

The Writing on the Wall...

March 31 2011

sex

Back again... Seems like I can't stay away from RHP for long. My problem is, that I'm technically in a relationship of some kind... you know the earlier stage relationship (4 weeks)... and no he doesn't know I"m on here ! Soooo why am I here I ask myself ? It concerns me that I've been drawn back here where there is fun, diversion from everyday life, hot, passionate sex and unpredictability. Funny thing is that I actually left here as I was looking for more! I actually want commitment, love and the whole package. My question: does the fact that I'm back signal the end of my relationship (or lack of desire to be with the guy I'm seeing) ? My instinct tells me that I'm playing with fire as I'm hoping to get burnt ! Should I just end it and return to my days of FBs and FWBs ? Cheers, Miss Saturn

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Miss Saturn - you are drawn to RHP because it is fun, a diversion from your life, hot, passionate and unpredictable. Sooooo does that mean your new man isn't fun, hot, passionate, and is too predictable? I mean no disrespect towards your new man however it sounds like that he may not be fulfilling all your needs. Is he not naughty enough for you? I know you left this site because you want commitment & love which is great, but this should include fun, spontaneity, passion, etc as far as I am concerned. Very interesting topic though. xx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    One of my biggest grinds with many people is thinking this is JUST a sex site - now I dont know if its just my screen but everytyime I go to the main page to log in I am sure it says adult dating AND SOCIAL NETWORKING site ... so maybe you are drawn back to the debates, heated discussions, the friends you have made and the general frivolity of the site , However you may also have a RHP addiction and if you find a program that works...please keep it to yourself...I am happy the way I am , Your relationship is only in the early stages so dont fret if he doesnt know you are here - many people freely admit that their closest family and friends dont know they are here...so to me its no big deal ,. Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I T.O.L.D. Y.O.U S.O. . It's fun here Miss S. It's the flirting, openess, the sexual innuendo and occassionally the sex. Maybe the prospect of painting picket fences bores you. Or you think many hands make light work...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    People are inexorably drawn to Jean's shiny butt/datsun avatar... there is no escaping... let's face it, you're like a bug to a lamp... and just because you're in a relationship, it doesn't mean you aren't going to seek out a community that has similar interests to you. So ... welcome!!HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    After dragging my arse out of Mr Ts place at 6.30am and back on her at 7.45am what does that say ? Not an addiction. Used to be... not anymore. That's under control. Focus you are probably right... it is the chit chat that I enjoy. And J.G and Stalky.... I am definitely doomed but I figure I will have lots of fun company in hell !!! Last night Mr T (definitely doesn't look like the "real" Mr T !) and I had a little "chat". It basically went something like, "I don't think you have the same passion for life that I do. I don't feel you enjoy spontaneity and getting outside the box or that you're really prepared to change. And seeing you only every Thursday night and one weekend a month, doesn't consititute commitment or a relationship in my books. I therefore feel we should just be Friends with Benefits. You can be my Thursday Man." Harsh ? Or was I just open and honest? He said "okay". Maybe that's exactly what he wanted... the opportunity of regular sex without commitment. I'm actually unsure if I made it clear enough. What I really meant was: "I'm going to fuck you once a week and get back in contact with my old FWBs and fuck them too so I don't get bored." It just didn't seem quite right to say it that bluntly. Do you think he got the message ? Hugs Miss Saturn (back on the FWB/FB market AGAIN !)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    JG has been beside himself with excitement waiting for your return just so he could say he told you so! Welcome home! If you really are like a moth to a flame, take comfort in the fact its nice and cozy by the fireside :-D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    lmfao... he's a man right? He's probably thinking right at the moment "Phew... for a minute there I thought she was going to dump me!"... and the idea of being a Thursday man is quite hot... I mean, it simply means he is guaranteed to get laid at least once a week which for some dudes, especially single dudes, it is a big deal....... But round about now he'll be thinking "wait a second.... I am thursday man... but does that mean that there's a Friday man?.. I mean, I like my footy but a weekend shag is a weekend shag"....But then I'm thinking.. what kind of a guy doesnt like a weekend shag? I'd say go for it Miss_Saturn.... the dude's not covering his arse and deserves to have someone sneak up behind him and put a few away.... hehe. With all this covert action... it's like watching Merecat Manner. :pHugsStalky Quoting 'Miss_Saturn' After dragging my arse out of Mr Ts place at 6.30am and back on her at 7.45am what does that say ? Not an addiction. Used to be... not anymore. That's under control. Focus you are probably right... it is the chit chat that I enjoy. And J.G and Stalky.... I am definitely doomed but I figure I will have lots of fun company in hell !!! Last night Mr T (definitely doesn't look like the "real" Mr T !) and I had a little "chat". It basically went something like, "I don't think you have the same passion for life that I do. I don't feel you enjoy spontaneity and getting outside the box or that you're really prepared to change. And seeing you only every Thursday night and one weekend a month, doesn't consititute commitment or a relationship in my books. I therefore feel we should just be Friends with Benefits. You can be my Thursday Man." Harsh ? Or was I just open and honest? He said "okay". Maybe that's exactly what he wanted... the opportunity of regular sex without commitment. I'm actually unsure if I made it clear enough. What I really meant was: "I'm going to fuck you once a week and get back in contact with my old FWBs and fuck them too so I don't get bored." It just didn't seem quite right to say it that bluntly. Do you think he got the message ? Hugs Miss Saturn (back on the FWB/FB market AGAIN !)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well , well well you already know what I think...lol..Glad to see you back here Miss Sat.. If he hasnt got the message this time just rephrase it next time when Mr Predictable comes over again..P.S You wernt harsh just honest..and you know what I think about that too.. ;) Madam Zelda

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You can check-out anytime you like, but you can never leave............heh heh heh heh heh!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hey Madam Zelda, You are ALWAYS right. And your breasts still send quivers down my spine :) .... Stalky Stalky Stalky.... I'm a big fan of Meerkat Manner. Those cute Meerkats remind me of hanging out in a Dogging spot. You poke your head up, look around, see if anyone takes your fancy, then duck down again and repeat. ... Mistress T.... Gotta LOVE that song ! Now I can't get it out of my head ! .... Love you all.... xxx... Saturn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Like chalk hearts melting on a wall, it reads: "This is who I am, what say you? I have to chance it, inevitable, undeniably and true to all, here I am" . Of course it could be abbreviated(such a long word!> or modified to your words of relevance.... But no matter whether you do declare or not, you gotta be you, and that should be enough for anyone. . Yes?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Yes Tony... you are correct ! I am a bitta this and a bitta that but I'm sure there's someone who wants a bitta me ! Hugs, Sat

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I was thinking "Do what you wanna do, be what you wanna be, yeeeeeeaaaaah...." Good on you, Miss_S! Mould your life and relationships around YOU rather than trying to mould yourself to fit into circumstances. You deserve to get it how YOU want it, as do we all! xx Sarah