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The Good Guys

October 17 2011

There are so many negative posts about men (and some about women). "He didnt treat me right" "S/He stood me up" "S/He lied" Heaps of them. Time for some positive stories. Time to reealise that they are not all bad, horrible, disrespectful people out there only after a quick fuck and nothing more. I will give you two as an example to begin....but I have actually met some wonderful, fantastic friends from this site. l I have a freind in Sydney. A CEO of a large corporation. He is single, intelligent and personable. I dont see him as often as I should but when we do get together, this man likes to wine and dine me. He likes to hold my hand while we stroll around in the evening and hold my hand over the dinner table. He calls me princess and treats me like one. We always have a fantastic night together and he takes me to breakfast the next day before going off to work. It will never be more than what it is but we both know that and accept it anyway. l Recently met a man for the first time. We had been chatting for a while. Had coffee, sat in the park on a beautiful sunday morning, talked, had a leisurely lunch. No expectations of sex, no pressure, just wonderful conversation, getting to know each other. The man is after a permanent relationship but wants to take things slowly. We will be seeing each other again. I dont think he is "the one" but I wont know until I spend more time with him. l They are both men I met on this very site. Sorry ladies...I wont be sharing thier names.

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RHP User

14 years ago

There are lots of amazing guys out there. Unfortunatly you have to wade through the others to get to them. Smart, chivalrous, kind, thoughful, tender, passionate, reliable, of good character and classy. Makes the world a better place. I think a lot of guys could put these same qualities on their list for their perfect woman.

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RHP User

14 years ago

I have met a few, men that are amazing people, beautiful both body and soul. They are more dear to me than I think they know, but my experience with men has taught me *not* to say "You are important to me" (I know, I'm stereotyping, but I did also state, MY experience )Then there are the ones I haven't met.... and they are the real killer.Exceptional, amazing people, in whom I invest a great deal of affection and time, even though there is a good chance that we may never meet. Some of the guys that I've come into contact here have become my most trusted confidantes, my soul friends, people I can tell the whole, ugly, nasty truth... and know we will still talk tomorrow...That is cool beyond words! And there is always that *ONE* that makes your entire day brighter just with "Hello"I have had infinitely more postive experiences here than negative.People are amazing! Perhaps, Fiona, some just need a reminder every now and then that RHP is full of people Not genitals-on-legs lol

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RHP User

14 years ago

I have met the most amazing real gentleman here on RHP about 3 yrs ago, he became my friend and lover, and what a lover he was, the most exciting lover i ever had, although i am married i trusted and confided in him more than my arrogant lawyer hubby, he knew how to respect and treat a lady, He took me to the most Exhilerating, Intense, multi orgasms with Squirting that i have ever known, or even knew existed. he knew how to get me flying high with him for hours, I lost cantact with him after my hubby found out about us and threatened him, and deleted all my phone contacts out of my phone. he is no longer on this site, Deliteme2

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RHP User

14 years ago

If any of you ladies met bolshoi1 and know his whereabouts, i would love to make contact with him again deliteme2

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RHP User

14 years ago

Wow, you're all getting *much* better service than me.Normally, The Good Guys give me about $50 off the price of a new television.I think I need to start shopping where you ladies shop...!Seriously love the fantastic things you've all written :) There are positive experiences out there in spades.

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RHP User

14 years ago

You gotta shop around to find the bargains and it is so true. There are wonderful men to be found...even here on RHP.

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RHP User

14 years ago

I have really enjoyed meeting the guys off here, they are generous with their time. They have given me good feedback on my art works. And some have inspired me to do better , to find myself and to get out there and not be so insular. The best is the respect, and also the way they see me in as a sexual creature something I did not see in myself. Nice to be appreciated as a woman. So I take my hat of to the men of RHP. The do not seem to go for the skin deep, to me they seem to want to get more from women, I guess that is why they are here. They could get women without the net but they want to find something a little more challenging and also versatile and exciting. All the men I met can find women they have what it take, so that has been a big suprise for me, had an image of some nerdy guy with penis in hand never leaving the bedroom of his folks home. Wrong on all counts.

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RHP User

14 years ago

saying what initially pressed your buttons and then what took you over the edge to want to be with them... ps Deliteme2 If your friend is the one in your pic from a few years ago no wonder you miss him. Makes you wonder when you have had a experience like that whether you will ever have a similar experience of the same quality again. Maybe no one else will take you to your dizzee heights? If you have the personality to match then would make some married women rush to get a divorce:)

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RHP User

14 years ago

I actually find it amusing when it cones to females talking about a nice guy and finding one. It irritates me so much when I know of someone that dates a guy cause he looks good, has money or a great car, has the gift of the gab but really is a total drop kick. Growing up I was more the find someone and grow old the whole love deal and yes I found that many times. Got chewed up spat out, done everything for them until I woke up realizing I was a sucker. Being single for almost 2 years I got to know some people in the retail industry and god what a eye opener for what females seek. I sometimes wonder if what some wemon seek is real, I see a woman I find so attractive to me and I know they deserve better yet I think the treat them mean keep them keen thing is true. I have had many female friends and have walked away due to I was only ever going to be a friend and someone that picked up the pieces time and time again. Sure not everyone is right for each other and some seek what they may never find but sometimes what you want may be right infront of you. Thing is if you keep finding jerks maybe it's you, don't complain about it or make a issue about it learn from it and maybe look for something different. You never know it may make you happy. There are alot of guys and girls out there that really need to pull their head in.

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RHP User

14 years ago

I know exactly what you mean old buddy. Difference is, I never got sucked into their bullshit. I'm actually enjoying treating them like bitches, because I find it makes no difference and I'm not going to kiss their perfectly heart-shaped asses, in fact I've told them all time and time again that if they don't stop their stupid bitching all its going to take is one quiet word to the area manager and I can have them fired, or give them a few reasons to quit. But I guess thats what comes from being in a position of power. Its much better to be feared and respected than loved and stepped on like a common cockroach and at least you're learning that now.

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RHP User

14 years ago

Yes I do agree that there are alot of males and females out there who SHOULD pull thier heads in. The sun does not rise and set on them no matter what they may think to the contrary. I do think that the girls in your age group tend to have a different set of criteria than say someone of my age group.( Not All ) I have done the good looking guys, good cars, great job and over the years have begun to look for someone that has more substance about thier character. I dont really give a flying f@*# about looks. Lets face it, when the lights go out you cannot see anyway and when you are both eighty, you will not be so hot then. I like personality and that is what pushes my buttons. Then again...I am not after a one night stand or a quick fuck. I like to sustain a friendship...with or without sex.

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RHP User

14 years ago

FACTS TIME You tell your story & it all sounds Good But why in my post ..... check it out ....It amazes me that some guys do not know how to wow a woman......guy that I met flopped out he Cock I say no thanks & leave as you seem to think its my fault What so you derserve Good and I dont Gotta Question your charactor very nastyYou met me Im an Attractive Woman, Im happy, confident, fun & friendlyYes we are very different 100% Thank God for that ............

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