The Elusive Love Shack

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  and always meet socially first before deciding if the person is going to come to my place. I always get to know someone a little online first then telephone conversations. Im not the easiest person to get to meet but it helps weed out the idiots.   I do however have wonderful neighbours who keep an eye for me and one of them always gets told whats going on incase I need a rescue.   I know for many they dont want strange people to come to their home (and I can fully understand) but personally I feel safer with them coming to me than me going to them (this is intially and unless I get to know them a lot better). This is because I do have these safey procedures in place where as if I go to theirs well who knows what could happen.   Kisses Focus

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  For me i tend to agree with Lost_focus in that i will meet socially or in a public setting to begin, just because past experiences in each others homes have not gone so well. If i am comfortable around the other person/people then i am happy to look at them coming back to mine and again with focus, i have great neighbours living in a townhouse environment who if they heard or saw anything out of the ordinary would check up :) I used to do hotel meets in the city or wherever i found myself but yes the costs can rise very quickly if your meeting up each weekend or two nights a week.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  It's important to nit sacrifice your own safety for the sake of meeting someone. I usually prefer to meet in a public setting for a coffee or drink before going further. Oh, and being close to the beach is an excellent first meeting spot and a wonderful icebreaker... I live alone for 8 days a fortnight, the other 6 with two cute blondes, so safety is always paramount for me. A

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