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Talking Dirty

December 11 2007

sex

In my experience of Red Hot Pie over the last month or so, I’ve had some pretty wild encounters. It’s all been fun & worth the investment. One thing (of many things) I don’t understand about girls is they love it when I talk dirty. Pretty, hot, sexy girls wanting me to tell them dirty things in voice messages, phone sex, and even during sex. Being the kind sensitive bloke I am, I’m not use to doing this. I treat women well, and even though I’m not ashamed, I want to improve my performance in the bed room. So I put this question to the girls. What is ‘talk dirty’? What is he to say or talk about? Can a guy get too dirty? How far is too far? To be honest I have no idea and don’t really enjoy just stabbing in the dark with this. The last thing I want is to offend someone, or even worse have the cops arrest me for sexual harassment. Am looking forward to the responses given. Josh

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    Hey cocky, All i can say mate is everyone is different. The girls i have been with (Many years ago b4 marriage) all wanted different things, but nearly ALL wanted you to talk dirty to them. The fun part is trying to figure out what each wants. Generaly, most women are submissive by nature (there are exceptions), so you need to take charge. Start off talking about how f______ing hot she is and how hard she makes you. Ask how she likes a nice hard c__ck in her etc etc this is fairly tame and won't get your balls crushed. Always guage the response. If she moans then you mey be able to push it a bit further. Call her you porn queen or something along those lines. Refrain from the derogatory words. C__t, whore, slut etc can be used however you need to develop a level of trust b4 you go that far, definately not recomended in new relationships. My wife loves it but then i've put the yards in and she knows that i cherish her very being. Your best bet would be to sit down with a cold beer and jot down different phrase that you could use. hope this helps somewhat as when you get it right, it can be sooooo rewarding good luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    I'm another one who gets off on a guy calling me dirty names as I cum. Any other time & it's no fun at all, but as he's slamming it into me & my orgasm takes over, I actually like being called a dirty slut or a horny cunt, a filthy cocklover or a cum loving whore. Weird isn't it?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    I love filth talk before and during intercourse i just love it !!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    So agree, love some dirty talk at the time....most names are fine to be called as your cumming etc but it is a judgement call on the person your with, take things slow, best of all ask her what she is...ie what are you tell me...and she may reply dirty lil slut, then you knda know how far to take things.... Mrs WeLuvBoobs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    I also like my guy talking rough to me as we approach orgasm...it somehow makes me cum harder being called filthy things.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    Josh you big sweety :) It can be a bit hard to just come out and stay stuff when asked to, especially if you are not used to doing it, and you might feel like a bit of a twat in the beginning, but after you get used to it a bit, and allow your dirty mind to be expressed (because you DO have one hehehe), your girls are gonna love you for it. I LOVE my lovers to build me up wayyyy before sex.. via texts, msn, whatever, tell me all the dirty things they plan on doing to me like how he is gonna cuff me to the shower and bang me til we're knockin tiles off the walls, or how he is gonna put all his fingers inside me and wear me like a glove. It doesn't necessarily have to be slut, cunt, etc etc, personally I like fuckdoll LOL, but there you go. :D Imagination is the best. xxSoubiii

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    For some reason i mention wheat I'm about to do to certain body parts, in detail. with a bit of profanity thrown in, Its about variety and spontaneity watch her reaction, getting to enjoy the vocal feedback, moans, lip bitting looks.