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Swinging while Pregnant

January 22 2011

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Hi AllI (like a good percentage of women) have had my libido go through the roof since I have been pregnant.As I am normally horny .. this has led sex on the mind 24/7. I am very interested to know everyones thoughts on swinging while pregnant ?It was very easy in the early months but now being 7.5 months getting a little harder but libido is not making it very easy.Horny! ... want more! ... but don't want to turn someone off by swinging while pregnant !Mrs fishingforfun

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I think the pregnant female form is very sexy and even more so with the sky rocketing of libido which often accompanies it. I think that if you still have the energy and desire to swing @ 7.5 months then you should. I certainly wouldnt be put off by your being pregnant (and i think this would go for a lot of others). Good luck and enjoy it while you can because once the baby is here, there wont be much time for it... lol 2b :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i remember that phase well, it was awesome! I was all married and monogamous back then tho, damn what a waste! :p if you're worried about turning people off - and let's face it, it's not for everyone and nobody wants their wildly unpredictable, hormonally-charged feelings hurt by tactless people in that stage of the game - perhaps put up a separate profile dedicated to finding people who are specifically looking for that kind of thing and/or keep it to small intimate gatherings rather than bigger parties? BTW congrats and best wishes for a happy healthy baby!! :)

  • nobatteriesrequi

    nobatteriesrequi

    15 years ago

    Hi, For me, when my ex was pregnant it was a wonderful time - no worries about unplanned pregnancies (!!) and she too was always horny. Unfortunately it was only the twice, and I have since had this thing for pregnant women and also watching while breast feeding. You may be lucky to find the right person to swing with you, who will take the time and care needed, but I would say enjoy the time, but play safe as the sperm can bring on contractions - my ex worked in a maternity unit and that was advice readily given if the baby was running late. Enjoy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Ok... I have to admit it feels kind of silky rooting a pregnant woman.. something to do with vaginal mucous... in any event... it's a totally hawt experience... and there's something about the inevitable that makes expecting mums really really sexy. I know there is very little risk to you or baby... especially in certain positions... however unless the child is mine, I just can't go there. That's because something plays on my mind all the time. "What if something goes wrong? Will she blame me?".... It puts me off my game. That's just me though. I'm sure other less sensitive guys would jump right in! Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Absolutely love a pregnant woman, sexy as all hell, and would definitely go there.......if i was the father!Like Stalky i would be worried about something happening, and although the likelihood is minimal, if something DID go wrong at some stage of the pregnancy, you would ALWAYS be wondering if it had something to do with the time/s you were swinging.Good luck with the pregnancy too!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    just be upfront from the outset and then if people agree to meet, then you know they are already the type who find it totally fucking hot to get to have sex with a pregnant women (oh yes....that 's me, too....lol) Ignore any of the idiot comments you get from those that disagree - it's your body and your hormones and you should be able to do as much (or as little!) as you want! Mr O

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    we were still playing when i was 36 weeks pregnant. you just have to find the rt ppl to play with. pregnant women are just as attractive as non pregnant women. well we think so anywayMrs B

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Not a chance in Hell I would! while pregnant! its one thing to put yourself at risk! but your Baby! Thats totally Insane! Having sex with Your partner! different story! I sit here & I think! Baby is in there! Hearing & knowing lots of different Men! An unborn child hears from the womb! Im sorry but I will be very surpised if u get any positive comments on here from woman who are mothers! When u fall pregnant! U should put your baby! FIRST! Im not say dont have sex! Just consider your Child & the risks! I read your post & I felt compelled to give u my honest thoughts! Even though u may not like my opinion! I wish u the best of luck! Please be safe! xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    good point. best you make your guys double bag it and put earphones on your tummy of the baby's daddy screaming "OH FUCK YES!" instead of your swinging partner.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' good point. best you make your guys double bag it and put earphones on your tummy of the baby's daddy screaming "OH FUCK YES!" instead of your swinging partner. Oh that's clever. I like that. But personally I'd rather that daddy was also involved in this little party... and still screaming "oh fuck yes".. but then... I have particular tastes... hehe.HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Have you talked to your local sex clinic ? There is no such thing as absolutely safe sex, are any of the 10 plus STD STI transmittable to your unborn child? This question has came up before on these threads and we have said no, where the majority have been saying yes similiar to this thread with the exception of Jensta.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We are in the middle of having babies and just started swinging. So we naturally talked about what we would do when we decided to fall pregnant. We did our research and to be honest it was a little scary the STDs that sneak through and alot of them affect babies. . In the end we decided that we would play until ready to try, then get tested & get the all clear before even trying. So many of those diseases cause harm to fetuses. And if you are having oral, kissing or fingering then you can still get them. . . There is a small possiblity now that if we had one couple that we liked & trusted we would continue to swing, but keep it to just plain swaps, no oral. . . But I think it wasnt worth the risk to an unborn child. I mean most of the STDs are no biggie & clear up with medicine...unless you are pregnant in which case its a huge problem... Are you willing to risk your child for a 1 hour thrill? . . Alternatives: Watching. Instructing. ( telling hubby & play partners what to do and where to put it, while using your own safe vibrator). A bit of light bondage & spanking. Toys. Non sexual but FULLY SENSUAL massage. Sexy photos or Cam stuff. Im sure there are more. . . This has come up before and the general conscensous was that you shouldnt play in a club...no reason you cant go & watch though & only play with hubby! Remember he needs to be careful beyond the normal stuff too...No oral, fingers or kissing. Hope this helps & sorry to dissapoint you...I know exactly how you feel! Im not pregnant now but I think we are gonna put off trying just because we havnt experienced what we wanted to by now! lol. Hows that...Family Planning around your swinging life...tasteful huh! lol xx Mrs H

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Like Small-Goods, Ammonia and Irradiating Apparatus, it should probably be avoided while peregnant. If by some bad luck you should contract genital warts then guess what the baby may come out like? I remember a kid at school who was covered with them, on his eyelids giving him an overall cauliflour appearance. Use your head.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I actually hated sex when pregnant and the further into the preganacy I got, the more I hated it. Towards the end it was extremely difficult......and painful to orgasm. I would also be in the same camp as Jenstar. I dont find a woman heavy with child to be a sex object and would consider it just a little "off" for want of a better word to be indulging in a swinging lifestyle while in the latter stages of pregancy. Babies can hear in the womb, they can feel and pick up on emotions of the mother, further more, they have memories of things from the womb.