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Success stories
March 27 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
Great post, I'm looking forward to hearing what others have to say about this one...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Who, when things started to go quiet, would tell me he was falling in love with me all over again. Worked every time.
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DynamicCouple36
12 years ago
We have been married for more than 15 years now, in which time we have had kids, moved countries and changed lives. One can become stuck in a rut sexually, as life gets in the way and the excitement and fantasy wanes. 18 months ago we turned it all around. We started by losing weight ( more than 20 kg each) , changing our diet and getting more exercise. This made us feel healthier, and look sexier, the result of which is that our sex life was reborn. It also resulted in our attending swingers heaven on NYE 2012/13 and from there having a little fun with regards swinging. The whole experience has certainly strengthened our marriage and sex life. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hmmm . Seems like no-one has any Success Stories . I guess that answers your question . GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just cant kick a dead horse
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RHP User
12 years ago
Im in that situation myself so look forward to reading how people have faired. Tried the usual counselling, talking etc but life just gets in the way and when we do get the chance to fuck well its just fucked!
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I was having lunch yesterday with my boss who's gay and he asked the same question! I believe sometimes while we are in relationships it cycles.. Things go out of wack due to busy lives etc etc..when it's dead it's dead and sometimes things just don't light as in all passion goes..I tried in my marriage for many years..after a while I just gave up because it was not returned..well anyways back to my boss, off we went shopping for "horny goat weed"..sometimes I believe one has to keep trying and not give up all hope. I call it unconditional cause I believe relationships are unconditional and equal. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Attitude, and effort to look and feel good , add a lil outside play.. and it keeps the doctor away....
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RHP User
12 years ago
When the light goes out, what's left? I met my partner when we were 14, loved each other and married, kids, the whole thing, successful career.. Then wham.. Thank you god.. Seems I wasn't made as I should have been. Loss of friends, career, dignity and yes, sex in a marriage, rebuild a life but as much as I love my partner and she loves me, the sex between us is over, not something I wanted but something she could not engage in with another woman. What's left? Heaps of love between us, shared lives, but no sex. It's cripplingly sad, but moving on to another bed negates what you have. The trade off is huge, and I used to think it was what I had to live with..then I met this group of wonderful women who reminded me who I am, gave me a little hope and rekindled my fire... Queenslanders, you have to love them...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I tried for 5 years to get our relationship back on track. Sex became less infrequent every year, and eventually there was zero communication between my ex husband and I. Eventually I woke up after 16 years of marriage and thought "I deserve more, and I deserve to be happy". Now when I see him I feel nothing, not even sadness. I'm happy that I gave up trying, and I don't ever want to try rekindle it with him.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have used this line from T.S.Eliot's The Hollow Men,but it so applies to my marriage.....here we go around the prickly pear,the prickly pear,here we go around the prickly pear at two o'clock. In the morning......this is the way the world ends ,the world ends,the world ends,this is the way the world ends....not with a bang,but a whimper :-) xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'looking4quality' I tried for 5 years to get our relationship back on track. Sex became less infrequent every year, and eventually there was zero communication between my ex husband and I. Eventually I woke up after 16 years of marriage and thought "I deserve more, and I deserve to be happy". Now when I see him I feel nothing, not even sadness. Eight years, not sixteen, but the same happened to me. I'm happy knowing I really tried and didn't just give up.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'LaVelvetRouge' Who, when things started to go quiet, would tell me he was falling in love with me all over again. Worked every time. that's gorgeous, can see how that would work.
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RHP User
12 years ago
when my level of respect died for my husband. He threatened to kill me in a drunken moment and I lost all respect for him. Tried for years after to keep it together but I didn't want to please him any more. We still had frequent sex and for the most part it was good but my passion that I once had completely waned so it was sex for the sake of sex. He started dropping off the frequency and started sticking the pages together in a magazine rather than fuck his wife.
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