RHP

RHP User

M33 F32

Starting with success?

January 04 2019

Ok, so here it goes As a man it is always expected to take a first approach into things like this (swinging), and I find it a bit hard, me and my partner have been together for over 8 years and recently got married. Everything works great but we decided to take this step, she is a bit shy so we decided I'm the one to start texting and starting to approach other couple. But what's the best way to do it without looking like a freak or making people look at you weird? Any advice people ? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • FredAndGinger2

    FredAndGinger2

    7 years ago

    Here's a hard reality you need to understand: You have an empty guest unverified profile so nobody will take you seriously. You seem like a typical fake profile. Some couples are very happy to chat to help you both discover the awesome lifestyle of swinging, so long as you are both showing interest. This is normally in a 4-way conversation over a chat app or phone call. Good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Well if you just got married, why is she listed as divorced? I think you are a fake profile too. Pusscat

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    Maybe she's divorced him, after finding out he has set up a couples profile on here, without her permission. 👌😜 Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I got a message from another couples profile, this one with only pics of the man. He wrote he was interested and he and I had a lot in common! No sign of any Mrs, apart from the written part of the profile. I'm no idiot. Moral of the story: Get verified, have pics of you together, and send messages from you both. I doubt you'll get taken seriously otherwise. Not be me, I'm afraid.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I look a lot for my wife, I know what she likes and so far have done a good job. We like straight mmf threesomes. I get a lot of pleasure from her pleasure. She also browses and chats a lot but is sometimes too nice (if ya know what I mean) It was very awkward to begin with, chatting to guys about sharing my girl. My phone full of pics of guys and dicks I had saved for the wife, had me feeling a bit homophobic at one point 😳. It gets easier to filter what you are looking for and most guys are very respectful of me checking them out. After all your number one priority is to make sure your wife is safe and happy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Damn, does being on here make you jaded? Cos that’s the vibe could easily newbies could easily get here. Maybe try being a little more gentle with your advice, if they’re not a fake profile I can see how this negativity would scare them off pursuing their interests.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Rapunzel.... I don’t know so much about jaded....cynical yeah... That said there’s nothing in their profile....I didn’t check the married status but the op says they don’t really know how to approach people...there are 2 friends on their profile...which indicates he’s not as shy or unknowledged as he/she/they claim... And really once you ask one question about their genuineness I think it just snowballs into lots...