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Softcore Orgy

September 02 2017

Hi all, So I've recently become seriously curious about playing in groups (my main motivation for joining RHP recently)... When I think about what I really want to explore in groups though - it mostly falls on the very "softcore" and low-key end of the scale. As in, a group of people lying together naked with lots of sensual touch, caressing, erotic massage, and making out being shared all around. I've been in small private "cuddle party" type situations in the past - and what appeals to me now is just an erotic extension of that basically. Maybe getting each other off with some mutual masturbation/genital massage or the like at the end, but otherwise, mostly just exploring sensuality and erotic touch in a group setting. I think a big part of what appeals to me is the simplicity of it. If the limits of what's on the cards are set quite low, it's easier to get into it and feel safe. There's also something to be said for just being able to go with the flow of enjoying basic sensuality and touch, without a distracting focus on some hardcore "endpoint". I also like the idea of not having to worry tooooooooo much about sexual health risks - although this is mostly just a nice bonus. So here are my basic questions: is this a thing at all? Are there any parties or events which specifically cater to these kinds of limits? Or else, do people ever group off and negotiate these kinds of things at the more "mainstream" events? Or is my desired level of participation just wayyyy too tame here?? :D (BTW, if it's not obvious, I'm bicurious and open to any combination of genders for this sort of thing)

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RHP User

8 years ago

Hi Katurdai. I saw this at my first swingers party earlier this year (Adelaide Hills). There would have been six or seven people naked on a bed playing with each other. Very relaxed and low key. I was invited to join but was happy just to watch. I was told that bicurious men weren't always welcome in this environment (house swingers parties) but not sure if this is always the case.

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RHP User

8 years ago

And its not really my thing but the way you describe the scenario makes it sound a lot more sensual than my original thoughts about such a scene. However.....mutual masturbation is going to include bodily fluids being produced, and there has been a big increase in STIs in the last few years. Being in the middle of a few wet bodies would require some protection, would it not? The phrase that I read was "condom fatigue" where people are getting fed up wearing protection and throwing caution to the wind. In saying that, there are probably people who wont use protection, plenty of profiles here ticking the "safe sex if required" box, but its not worth jeopardising your sexual health for....I dont reckon so anyway.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Quoting 'PerthSocialites' And its not really my thing but the way you describe the scenario makes it sound a lot more sensual than my original thoughts about such a scene. However.....mutual masturbation is going to include bodily fluids being produced, and there has been a big increase in STIs in the last few years. Being in the middle of a few wet bodies would require some protection, would it not? The phrase that I read was "condom fatigue" where people are getting fed up wearing protection and throwing caution to the wind. In saying that, there are probably people who wont use protection, plenty of profiles here ticking the "safe sex if required" box, but its not worth jeopardising your sexual health for....I dont reckon so anyway. Yeah, that's a good point re: fluids. I'd have no problem with the idea of keeping things totally "contained" in that sense. :)

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RHP User

8 years ago

So no touching of the genitals then Katurdai?

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RHP User

8 years ago

You may be interested in Curious Creatures - have a look at their website. There are also links to their upcoming workshops under the "Events" tab here on RHP.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Quoting 'CandyDelicious' So no touching of the genitals then Katurdai? I'd be fine with that boundary. Or only going there with protection.

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EarthQueen

8 years ago

Thanks Interesting! The Forest Ritual. Wow.

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