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Slip out the back Jack

February 25 2012

How long do you take when you meet for a tryst? Now I am not adverse to pay for a hotel room , though hey if he pays that’s a bonus. What are the rules of engagement then as far as how long the person stays. I do not expect an over night, cuddle me stuff as I tend to want to roll over and go to sleep. though if we feel its going to work out well for some room service in the mornings thats fine. But to come to a hotel and spend one hour and then go right after you have had your own pleasure is a bit odd to me. I would think men feel the same way as in at least get in a couple of rounds of bed hockey before you go. As most men pay for the hotels I would think they would feel a bit let down if women bonked and ran. What is the shortest time a person stayed with you for sex? What about the guys that say how about the back seat of my car? Horses for courses, I am a bit of a nice hotel kinda girl, mainly as my back would not take the car and I am not into getting caught in public with my knickers around one ankle hanging out the car door. Do you have any rules of engagement or expectations re time a person should at least spend with you when having sex? My rules are kiss my lips first. Kiss my other bits as well Kiss me after sex just to say good bye,parting is such sweet sorrow( and shit is that the time my wife will wonder where I am, as I just told her I was going for lawn mower fuel) I would hope for at least two hours of your timeto warm me up. so tell us how you felt when you got left high and dry with a tryst

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RHP User

14 years ago

Well my profile does say NSA and I'm not against the idea of a once only get together, but fellas please, the idea of fitting me in the 45 minute gap between footy training and going fishing with the boys does not constitute my idea of a "meet". and to coin the phrase "it's the quality not quantity that counts" does not cut it for me either

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14 years ago

A tryst, a tryst....????...oh yeah I vaguely remember !!! Ok well like you TR Im a nice hotel kinda gal as well.....my days in the back of the car are over...unless for some reason the scenorio being played out is REALLY HOT and we dont make it past the car..thats rare nowdays (too old..lol) ...and Im not adverse to paying for a nice hotel....Ive paid off my Uni debt which was the eqivalent of the national debt of a third world country so yeah I like the finer things in life now....8 years of University cured me of wanting to be poor and starving in my 40's !!! So in answer to your question...depends on my partner...if its awesome sex and it looks like we are gonna go a couple of rounds... I stay...and hope he does too..I have found (my experience) that if you are in a nice hotel...guys do kinda stay over...something to do with awesome overpriced room service, Foxtel and those cute little bath accessories bottles....however I will be honest and state that I have done the bonk and bolt...and yes I used my profession of being "on call" or "damn theres a emergency" as a excuse....petty I know but has been bloody covenient at times...luckily not too often.... max time I have stayed in those cases has been about an hour..dont think Ive stayed under less......and partner wise..I think the minimum a guy has stayed with me...has been like 2 hours...perhaps...I wasnt counting...I guess it comes down to careful screening before hand and yeah chemistry...Ive met some great guys in my time...so I havent had too many awful experiences. I have at times gotten up to leave and my partner has asked me to stay...and Ive stayed..and its been very nice...but I never expect an invite...never....it is what it is..... I dont have any rules or expectations....just common courtesy ( a kiss goodbye etc..but please dont say "Ill call you" when you dont mean it..I do find that insulting) call spade a spade Im a big girl and can take it.. What I do insist on before I leave, I always shower...it only has to be a quick one....but I do have one, no matter what.....I have visions of being hit by car once Ive left, dying...after a quick lunch time tryst ...and my colleagues do a PM on me and find that I was a floosie during my lunch break, them all examining the semen swilling around in my nether regions....oh the shame...

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RHP User

14 years ago

hey there Tuscan red, yes i have been in a nice hotel wiht asmall group of aobut 3 other coupels and 2-3 singles.... atl eas i have offered to pay, and have paid 40-5o, to the couple who i know paid for th ehotel, and htis i sin appreciatin for having org, and taken the risk of the whole thing, one other tine I took some beers and three bottles of winr to contfibute...its common dercency and respect for others i think.... cheers Decy, allgood 40..:)

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RHP User

14 years ago

hey guys it s only common decency to give the neccesary time and fun to the group or couple I think bit of common decency and respect....on at least a couple of times i have given $40-50 towards the cost of a room in a nice hotel to the couple who paid for the room.... on annother occasion i supplied some drinks..... why wouldn't you?? just lacks somthing if you just go in and use the room and group for nothing at someone elses cost....however i have stayed the night once...as really it is the originators room...and they actually want it back as much as you prob want to go home eventually.... its only fair to contribute and at least demosntrate that you enjoyed and liked the people who were there...whether or not you choose to contact them again... allgood 40 decy x :)

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14 years ago

mmm a tryst, i have a had a wonderfull exp on 3 occassions in a hotle wiht a small group and a couple, I offered once , an don another occassion i supplied some wine/beer, and anothere occasion i paid 440..stayed about 3hrs and left...but all wonderful nights and have been back too. I dont know what it is about some peope out ther who feel a need to cut and run...??? all about repsect of each other and for the fact that someone has paid for the room...:) xx

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14 years ago

I am a nice hotel kinda girl too, however it does depend on the guy, some just want a bonk and their gone. Next, some get to know you and expect and want you to stay for the night (mm morning glories) just love em. I did have a meet with one gentleman and after several hours, I was getting beard rash so I excused myself and left with my chin in tact. It really does depend on the bonker and the bonkee.

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14 years ago

I've been in some hotels with lovely ladies and my experiences, as a guy, were always about 5 hours with going a few rounds and having a few drinks as well. I'm not into quickies so maybe I'm an exception but I think the longer the better.

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14 years ago

I have NEVER let a guy pay for a hotel room. Luckily, I normally have one for work, but there is something I like about being in control of the bedroom:P Although allgood40 I like the sound of your room;) As for time? Horses for courses- if 45 min is all we have so be it and yet sometimes I've still wanted more after he's rolled over to sleep after a couple of hours...and hell yes, I've woken him up! Minxy

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14 years ago

My first foray on my own (as in without hubby) was with an old highschool friend who I caught up with online. He flirted with me while chatting. The flirts became more serious and suggestive and I asked hubby if I should do anything about it. Long story short, when he came to Sydney on business, we met and went to a motel. He had his pleasure with me then claimed to have a headache and excused himself. It was a bitter hit to my ego and confidence. I got over it though. All my other playmates have been very complimentary towards me. Watching my school mate's facebook posts since then, I realise that he is very self centered and self indulgent. As hubby always says, 'Ce la vie'.

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14 years ago

....are meant to be broken if they're worth having at all. Why go in with a game plan (unless it is a role play...then go for the gold) unless you already know in advance what's going to happen once it does? I went on a trip that was supposed to last for 2 weeks and came home six months later...and I have ordered coffee in a take-away cup after saying hello. Rules of engagement sounds more like you are about to lock into mortal combat and trying to interpret the accords of the Geneva convention before attacking. | Bugger decorum...just go with the flow. || Tailor the rules to fit...just like an Armani suit.

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14 years ago

Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' ....are meant to be broken if they're worth having at all. Why go in with a game plan (unless it is a role play...then go for the gold) unless you already know in advance what's going to happen once it does? I went on a trip that was supposed to last for 2 weeks and came home six months later...and I have ordered coffee in a take-away cup after saying hello. Rules of engagement sounds more like you are about to lock into mortal combat and trying to interpret the accords of the Geneva convention before attacking. | Bugger decorum...just go with the flow. Tailor the rules to fit...just like an Armani suit. Good advise , but I am talking about spending time with a personSure I will go with the flow even if its a thimble full that’s sprayed on my skirt while I am saying hi how are ya. Maybe I am just a tea in a china cup kinda girl, as opposed to the take away coffee guy. I try to have a game plan, especially an exit plan as going with the flow might mean the flow goes one way. Decorum? gee have not heard that since my mother told me to sit like a lady, with my knees together An Armani suit can look like shit on a guy with no class. It may fit the man but the man may not fit the suit. I would do the small print thing in here, so I can look like part of the in crowd but alas I am so blind I might type something that I just cant read. I could do it in brail if that helps.

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14 years ago

different every time..........and thats how it should be...

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