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Single males vs couples
February 08 2015
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RHP User
11 years ago
Puts hand up. Has happened. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Im the female and do invite them :) Their role? To pamper me :p
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RHP User
11 years ago
If they say no single males I am sure 90% of the time it means.. No single males. Seriously what is wrong with some Of you blokes??? When someon say no, it doesn't mean maybe.
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totallygenuine
11 years ago
From over the years I have had couples msg'n me wanting to add an extra straight male to their MFM play (with NO singles M's on their profile). I guess I was fortunate enough to make a solid bond with most couples from over the years:) also being invited as a single M to couples most parties. My role clearly making the female of the couple centre of attention. 😃 TG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Also the female here, haven't stated 'no single males' in fact that's what I look for....pleasure hog here :))
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RHP User
11 years ago
We state No Single Males & I'm the female & I don't invite single males - it's just not what we're looking for... - Posted from rhpmobile
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QLDtwo4fun
11 years ago
We say no single males on our profile, and we mean it. In the real world of clubs and parties where you can assess the pool of single males we are more open to approaches. There are reasons for this methodology. The guys at clubs and parties on Saturday night are likely to really be single, you know they will turn up, and you can assess their personal presentation and hygiene. Plus if the fuck up at a club or party they are likely to be un-invited to future functions.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have read profiles that scream "No Single Males - you will be blocked" but then say "If we want you we will find you". I assumed that that was what the OP was talking about. How many single men have been found? But maybe I got that wrong. 😳 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' If they say no single males I am sure 90% of the time it means.. No single males. Seriously what is wrong with some Of you blokes??? When someon say no, it doesn't mean maybe. No means....A definite maybeNo means...she will change her mind if I whine like a kid for an ice cream on a hot dayNo means...she wants me badNo means.. i can text her and send a cock picture on her phone at two in the morning No means..yea go ahead and forget the condom No means....she has a girlfriend she will bring along No means...I can fuck her as soon as she falls asleep after drinking this perfectly mixed coctail see Meeks ya just have to learn the language of luuuuuuuuv
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madotara69
11 years ago
if the single blokes send the same calibre messages to couples as to women ? I'd say 90% of messages we receive from men start of with the likes of Hi SnazzyDickSooperLicker1 Man 33ishyrs 09 Furb 2015 like your profile i think we would click, can meet for drinks and see if we click, hope to hear from you soon ? check out my profile pic and see if we click message me if you want to meet slicker xxx . . Mado Tara xx
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
We only turn on 'looking for' when we actually are, because our views skyrocket when we do and it's a bit much. But guys who like a good read, are genuinely attracted by the profile and who get to the end, will see they're welcome to reach out. They're just likely to end up on my waiting list... because we only get to play a few times a year... When we are looking for an mfm, I will reach out...
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RHP User
11 years ago
And its exactly what it means lol. Mrs3 isnt really interested that much and if she feels like going down that path, sorry but its pretty easy to find someone willing to lend a hand. We have ventured down the path before and find if you just go into the chat room you can find many a willing helping hand in realtime.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe they just like .....clicking
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RHP User
11 years ago
As someone that always reads a profile all the way through I would never write to someone where I didn't match on every attribute they stated.. so definitely not if they wrote "NSM"....however that said, I 'might' if I see they just viewed my page or (somewhat confusingly) do as ParadisePair does by at times including 'male' in what they were looking for. From that careful hello (and obviously telling them more about myself), I've never received a tasty or negative reply and I have even been fortunate to have formed some great ongoing, intimate relationships from taking that chance.. I've never written anything like what Madotara69 stated.. PS: I like ParadisePair's method of changing their profile when they are looking.. (it's appreciated).. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
This wasn't going to go any other way was it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' If they say no single males I am sure 90% of the time it means.. No single males. Seriously what is wrong with some Of you blokes??? When someon say no, it doesn't mean maybe. Couples and women here have testified plenty that they turn off looking to cut down the mail, when in actual fact they are interested but just prefer to look on their own terms rather than be propositioned.And I don't have a problem with that.
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
Despite clearly stating, within our profile wording, that we are NOT interested in single males [both genuinely single and those playing around behind their partners back] , we still get dozens of winks, flirts, whispers and messages [both on this site and another] from single males trying their luck, with the hopes that we will change our minds and give in to their nagging and attempts to convince us that they have more to offer and that we really should give them a try. Clearly these guys wont take NO for an answer nor do they respect OUR wishes. If they respected our wishes and our choice, they would not attempt to make us change our minds. We have made it very clear that we are not interested in single males and their pushing to change this, is an indication that they dont respect our wishes and instead are only concerned about getting a quick shagg, to the point that their desperation really starts to show. Guys, you really need to learn to READ fully through peoples profiles and to take note of what they are actually looking for, and then be respectful enough to not then contact them and try to persuade them otherwise. NO always means NO and you need to accept that - not only on here - but also at swingers clubs / parties. Wait until you are invited, dont push in on the action and start groping as that will get you booted and or blocked.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was contacted a couple! But only so they can bludge votes for their stupid pictures... 😢 FML - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
11 years ago
I read it differently. From what I read from the OP, the initiative was taken by the couple to 'invite' the single guy into the mix, therefore he did not pursue it. OP, Not being part of a couple, I wouldn't know why they would invite you when they have stated in their profile 'No single male'. Maybe they are experimenting. If you like them and after a few messages you click, there should be no issues right? I have couples and single women contacting me all the time regardless whether I have my preference as seeking for Man only. I reiterated that on my profile. but hey, they are free to contact me but I politely decline the offer. Goodluck. x
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RHP User
11 years ago
Finding them is easy. Finding one who actually turns up is a different story. No wonder they get a bad wrap.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
everyone should be considered. We've had better experiences with just single males joining us. Maybe that's because me (Mrs B) is the centre of attention ;P It just seems harder to find another couple where all 4 parties to click with and I'd love a single female to join in and take good care of Mr B. They are much harder to find.
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