RHP

RHP User

M63 F57

Sexual Performance

June 24 2008

sex

just wondering...if the male of a couple, with whom you play with, is consistently not performing sexually but whose female partner is performing and is very keen to keep playing...and even though you have spoken to them about it..what do you recommend?..just be friends and forget the sex?...play seperately?..or dump them?

Comments

  • Ohtilts

    Ohtilts

    18 years ago

    cant be friends you crossed the border ...hmmm play seperately..wouldnt happen dump them....just make sure you are gentle mr.....lol....hahah....sorry i cant help...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    17 years ago

    Yes definitely go the dump option. It may seem like an endless search to find compatible and capable couples out there..but they do exist. Our first forays into sex with others were disasters because of male inadequacies, and as the male of this couple, that made me very protective. (i might add none of these couples are on our friends list lol) As for how it makes you feel when a guy can’t perform....omg why put yourself through it, especially when it sounds like he does nothing else to make up for it. Geeze if he couldn’t get it up what are his hands and tongue....broken as well. Maybe dump Steven Hawking and see who else is out there lol, good luck.

  • bondage_reality

    bondage_reality

    17 years ago

    My guess is she really wants to play and he doesnt but goes along with it because she does and it keeps her happy Try playing with her alone or another thought try playing with him alone he may have stage fright

  • RHP

    RHP User

    17 years ago

    If she is great with both of you, and he is not what you normally would prefer see it as simply that! Some cpls are great for both partners but I would say more likely it is the female that performs better. For this reason we have a select number of single guys that I see as a 3some where I choose my type of guy, so happy to be a lttle understanding when it isn't going in my favour. Hope this helps!