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M56

Sexless Relationships ?

March 15 2007

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Ok the question I have is what to do in a sexless relationship? I know of about 10 ppl male and female that have been married for 10yrs or more and the sex has disappeared from the relationship.. They still love each other and have sex but the meeting for sex is reduced to 3 or 4 times per year... In my case my wife knows I am out looking as she doesnt want sex after an accident in the vaginal area.... But for the others I know its more the spark is gone and they just live together because of children or loan commitments... What are the RHP Guys and Girls thoughts on this topic....

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    good question mrcuffs as freinds now warn me I have opened pandoras box and can’t shut the lid against what I dont like that eventuates in my life. now my answer is after 27 years of living with the same partner sex dwindles to zilt and you even get ask do you want to sleep in seperate rooms that its past seeking sex counciling and yes caring and finance were still ok between us so we opted to stay together and seek sex from elseware now I agree that sex and emotions are a dangerous cocktail that became apparent on my first red hot pie encounter at 2am in the morning my phone rang and an ocker voice said am I bloodywell going to drive arround richmond all night or you going to give me your address now I dont know wether it was the affection or just being held in some ones arms but for days I craved his company and I realized how vunerable I had become and I changed my profiles listing of the type male I was looking for or otherwise I would be in a new relationship so today its happly married family men who are looking for casual sex this way I am only having a loan and giving them back with no chance of involvement but I have to admit with pandoras box opened I can expect the unexpected. cheers gayman4man469