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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  i am wondering the same thing FFi enjoy it so much with most women and i wonder why people don't enjoy it... i think they have a problem...

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Your mind is generally occupied with many other things and has not relaxed enough to enjoy the moment. This can often happen when a woman has young children....especially if she works as well. Her mind is spinning at warp speed to keep abreast of the day to day things and sex is just somethng else that need to be scheduled in. Usually given the time and circumstances, most will still enjoy sex once it starts and they do relax into the moment enough. l Menopuase is another time. This is then caused by hormonal imbalances. It can and does take much longer at this age to get into the mood and enjoy it. Often not achievng orgasm at all. l Then there is the cases of medical reasons. Things like presciption drugs interfer with the libido. Depression can also cause loss of libido. I have met the occassional person that has become so damaged by what has happened in thier lives that sex is just a chore. Something that thier partner expects so they go through with the motions. In this case the orgasm is just an automatic release. Something to help you sleep better although alcohol seems to wrok just as well. Others simply have a very low libido and sex is something they just dont thnk about. l Not everybody is healthy and well in mind and body. We should count ourselves lucky that sex is still soooooo much fun for us. Not all are as fortunate.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  To be completely honest, I hated sex - for a long time - before meeting (MR) Foreverlove. It just wasn't satisfying (or even enjoyable!), even if I DID orgasm... and I was quiet happy to shut up shop forever. Thankfully, (MR) awoke the sex maniac within, and today, I enjoy a fantastic, satisfying and extremely enjoyable sex life! I do think that it could have been that I was with the wrong people... but other than that, I can't give you any explanation as to why it was that way. Sorry! (MRS)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  if its the ' topic of most of your conservation, jokes and exercise..'..........then its obvious that you need to get out more, and experience all the other things in life that are worth conversation, joke and exercise...... theres so many aspects of being both 'adult' and 'individual' that you can occupy yourself with.... sex is not the only thing....women (or men) can be so consumed by 'life' in general, that sex is the last thing on their minds.....i would also suggest that perhaps those who find sex to be a 'chore' may even have someone in their life whose whole day is consumed by sex............ thoughts, conversation and humor....it would certainly erase any appeal.............and sex is most definitely not just about the 'destination' (orgasm)...its about the whole journey.....how satisfying is orgasm at the end, if getting there was a chore? .......personally i'd rather go without than feel i or my partner wasnt enjoying any or all of it..........sex isnt just about personal gratification......its about giving of ones self as well.........see how much is left for a woman to give, at the end of a busy and full day of work, children, housekeeping and fussing over her man (child).......i guarantee there wont be much if anything left at all............

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I dont get it either. But some people just not into sex as much as guys like us are.There's "assexuals"... and thier's starfish... I don't like fucking starfish... I'd rather have a wank. :)HugsStalky

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Enjoying having sex with a particular person and enjoying an orgasm are two very different things. There are women from my past that I certainly wouldn't enjoy sex with - if I wanted to enjoy an orgasm, I'd choose a wank by myself over sex with them. Women are more than just a pussy, and you have sex with the whole package. I suspect that if they weren't treated that way then yes, many may believe that they're fucking the wrong person...

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  What is the line between being a starfish & a woman who is a little reticent or shy? How exactly does a Starfish act? Well, apart from the obvious lying back and thinking of England. Or do you say a woman is a starfish because she isn't vocal enough? xxMeeka

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  but that doesnt mean its all i think about 24/7.. I run a business, i have a young baby.. with another on the way.. i have friends, family, work, life.. my husband feels that sex is a chore.. but he has his own issues.. me.. love it.. would be happy if i was getting it once a week instead of the once a month im lucky to get ! But agree with PP who said there are SO many reasons why people are not into sex - included may i add, previous bad experience/history, rape, assault, body image issues and low self esteem.. to simply judge someone as "being odd for not liking sex" is quite discriminating. In saying that, i probably think about sex a couple of times a day easy.. wondering if tonight is the lucky night.. LOL Xx J

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Yeah after reading everybodies point of view (thank U) I am of 2 opinions.. 1. they have got bored of the chemistry or dont have the chemistry anymore 2. and time with life is a killer of chemistry And i am gonna make a conscious effort to make sure that the chemisrty never dies within because i dont want to lose something that is so enjoyable.

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