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Sex at your age ????
December 21 2008
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RHP User
17 years ago
PD, Im in my menopausal years and lots of friends have told me that the libido does start to fade after menopause. I figure I have had nowhere near enough sex yet. I may not be swinging from the chandaliers (being a BBW I'd rather leave the chandalier swinging to the more trim, taught and terrific ppl) but I'd like to think I will be shagging until I'm dead. Isn't there something about endorphins and keeping young? Why retire at all? That's my question. Wildly hoping
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RHP User
17 years ago
Until I'm dead...Mmmmmm xxx
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RHP User
17 years ago
I think sex gets better as you get older...... Im not stopping just coz some yunggun reckons Oldies shouldnt do it...... My experience is: As I grow older in years (not in heart or mind) Im more: Adventurous,Bold,Comfortable (with myself)Daring,Erotic,Flirty,Generous,Horny,Interested,Just,Knowledgable,Liberated, Mmmmm,Naughty,Open,Passionate,Questioning,Respectful,Sexy,Tantalising, Uninhibated,Versatile,Willing (to learn),XXXX Kissable,Young, Zzzzz(sleep better than ever before) No Im not giving up sex because of my age.... Dazi
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RHP User
17 years ago
I gotta get to grips with my proof reading lol. PD
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RHP User
17 years ago
Tassie the good thing about getting older is a lot less peer preasure and you girls will be easier to catch, I hate running lol Busso I'm thinking that walking frames have another use, (the hidden world of the elderly) lol just dont get one with wheels. PD
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RHP User
17 years ago
Heck, Mr going to be 51 in about 3 weeks an the ole fulla can still stand at attention, still no trouble to syphon the pyphon so to speak . . . so don't let age be a barrier.
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RHP User
17 years ago
2 years back i was walking back to my car after a seeing a great gig in northbridge. a very shapely blond carrying her shoes walked past the other way. and i had a double take, as you do. 20 meters behind her was a pissed off boyfriend, post argument i'm guessing. i never made any connection between the two till he came up and hassled me for looking at her. he threaten to punch me. so i said fine hurry up so i can get on my way. he shook hi fists in my face in an effort to get me to start something, but i did my best to look bored. when he realized i flatly refused to fight him, he walked off. after about 5 meters he turned and said "how old are you anyway? 40? 45? ya fucken pedophile!!" um??.. this woman would have been in her mid 20s if anything.. so where does the pedophile thing come from??.. but i think it does illustrate how some younger folk look at us oldies.. LRE (the pacifist who is not a cupboard to keep shoes in order)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Sex as a teen (yes, I was a young starter) was fun because I wasn't supposed to be doing it. I wouldn't of ever called it satisfying or in truth even good. Sex in my twenties was good. Not very adventurous most of the time but it satisfied my needs and kept my marriage going probably longer than it should have. My thirties are proving fantastic. I'm finally with a man who not only keeps me satisfied but keeps me screaming and running back for more. I have confidence in myself and my "talents", I look forward to trying new things and I'm not afraid anymore to say what I like and want. So given this trend I am looking forward to each passing year and having sex till I'm dead. Like fine wine, it can only improve with age!!!
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RHP User
17 years ago
PD... I intend to go with a fight, glass of champagne in one hand, hopefully toy boy standing by and slide into my grave screaming 'woo hoo what a ride'!!!! lol
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RHP User
17 years ago
I say if you still feel like it go for it. I find at my age (in 40's now) that i'm more adventurous than before and don't care about taboo's. Anyone want to join me? That last comment reminds me of the movie Private Benjamin, where Goldie Hawns husband dies on their marital bed of a heart attack. The relos ask her did he have any last words and she says "I'm cumming..." LOL
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RHP User
17 years ago
Dazi you surprise me everyday, well no you dont actually, only when I'm not expecting it lol, I wish more people knew the real you. xox Tigress I haven't met you but somehow I think thats exactly how you would go lol PD
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RHP User
17 years ago
To DrinAli, You summed it up pretty well there. Have to agree with you. Well as were new to swinging, i hope those chandaliers are attached to the roof well. More so, hope i can hang on, lol. Leelee xxx
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RHP User
17 years ago
It puts a whole new light on being called an "old fucker" now, lol PD
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RHP User
17 years ago
The trouble is, most 20 year olds don't realise how quickly they're going to turn into 50 year olds. There's something hard-wired into our brains that stops up admitting to ourselves that we're going to get older. I can remember when I was 20. I was never going to get old. I was so wrong. It's all been said by Dazichane above. The difference between 20 and 50 is 30 years of experience, skill, knowledge, adventurousness, patience and sensitivity.
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RHP User
17 years ago
yea an it wasn't that long back where I thought "Do they still have sex" when seeing those "oldies" guess a lot of us know the answer now, now that we are in the shoes of those oldies
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RHP User
17 years ago
If you guys mean sex with your partner at 50,s and onwoods yes thats fine,But to go swinging at 50,s ?Dont think so.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Well I'm 47 and I reckon my skills base is improving so I've no concept of ever giving the game away at the moment. Hell, they even have drugs for it now so imagine what the chemicals will be capable of when I am in my 80's! Look out nanna.
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RHP User
17 years ago
So what on earth makes you think that people in their 50's or above cant be swingers? there are quite a lot of regulars to our parties that would disagree,and a lot of under 50's also that attend and would agree that 50 + is certainly not past it lol. bothtogether6
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RHP User
17 years ago
Have a look at some of the young bucks at the clubs and see how they perform, got to have a few bottles under the belt first to kick start the ego, then when its time , the lil fella shy's away
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RHP User
17 years ago
I will let you know in a few weeks :)
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RHP User
17 years ago
toto or rosanna , or both ? Im relieved you find it "OK" , for people to be having sex with each other over the age of "50" ,, god forbid if we venture outside of your moral boundaries ? But if people choose to swing over the said age bracket ? Then obviously there play friends are comfortable with the fact , and it would be none of your sanctimonious business !!..."DIG",,!!! In fact , as sure as my asshole points to the ground , you can always be relied upon to make some sort of judgmental , hypocritical and down right " look down ya nose " type comment . Ive been biting my tongue with you for a while now ,, " BUT" suffice to say you are really starting to "SHIT ME " !!! Please try not to appear to be such ...."assholes" !!! ~~~Horrible~~~ * peace , love and lentil burgers !!
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RHP User
17 years ago
I'm near fifty, and overweight, and ordinary looking, and I still get hot looking young blokes ringing and texting, my sex life is great and getting better all the time, I don't have the hang ups I had in my twenties, I'm not focussed on a guys looks, nor the size of his shorter member. I'm all for seeing past the outside and to the inner person. I know that despite theories to the contrary, I'll be fucking til I'm in the pine box. I know that I'll be putting the word on the sexy young male nurses when I'm in the nursing home, and if my recent luck is anything to go by, I won't be dissappointed there very often. You're only as old as you want to feel, and age is no barrier, your attitude to your age is the only barrier you really have to contend with.
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RHP User
17 years ago
After a few experiences with younger men, give me the more mature man any day. mmmmmm. they say life begins at 40, and it sure did with me, so I won't be going into retirement for a long time... The kids go "eewwwww: every time we talk about us having sex, but in reality, they do not have the sex market cornered, they should leave it to the more experienced ones...;) As for swinging from the chandeliers, that I will leave to the fitter braver ppl, I would probably dangle and hang on for dear life...lol
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hey Damo you got nuffin to worry bout it works just as good IF NOT BETTER once ya get past the 'alf century so just keep him primed and its like an old car if ya keep it serviced well keep it well lubedan regularly take it for a spin ya should get another fifty years out of it
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RHP User
17 years ago
hell i should have stopped swinging 3 years ago!!!!!!!!!! But on the other hand i do have a face and body of a woman much younger, despite having had 3 kids and the guy who tried to chat me up the other day in the street got quite a shock when i said that not only was i very attached but in my 50's. He was in his 30's. Toto, your profile says 45 so make the most of the next 5 years cos then after that you aint allowed to swing.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hagar - Here's to you... Love your expression. Cheers
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RHP User
17 years ago
I have had a fantastic experience with an older 'swinging' female for a few years now, shes gonna be turning 50 in another 4 years an i hope she doesnt stop. Her experience and her body leaves many 20 year old girls for dead. Shes taught me heaps an i know i will still be having sex when im 50 and over (hopefully with her lol) I still rekon she could blow my sox off in another 20 years.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Sorry, not much else to say other than i didn't know it had an expiry date either, just a bit surprised at this thread... lol
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RHP User
17 years ago
You people are funny.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Sorry toto or whatever, I think the comment you think is "funny" is actually SERIOUS, but then if you come out with comments like what you have said regarding us over 50's, then i guess, then i think we can understand why you wrote that tripe
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RHP User
17 years ago
I am 57 and I own a swingers cluband I am married to the most gorgeous lady Leesa. What can i say, I still have heaps more years left in me, if she doesn't wear me out first. Bryan.
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RHP User
17 years ago
For pretty much 99% of the comments on here are fantastic with regards to the age thing .. and why should any type of sex stop just because you get to a certain age... You can tell by certain comments that it is the 'younger ones' who have no idea .. but when they reach the 'older' spectrum they might realise what we are all on about. For our parties .. OMG... the ones who enjoy it the most are the ones who are around the late 40's and early 50's. They know exactly how to appreciate all that is before them... None of this wham, bam thankyou ma'am ... they also realise that you dont have to keep going and going all night to be appreciated... its also touching, feeling, fondling as well as all the other stuff ... and know where certain 'spots' are... The 'older' generation appreciate others more... but we find the younger ones .. are more .. if its not good on the eye its not worth anything except maybe to empty themselves... There is NO sexual retirement PertHedonist ... only if you want it to be... just enjoy life .. enjoy swinging if you can ... let nothing stop you ... And for the younger ones ... only time will tell .. and you will end up 'our age' one day and then you will understand the nature of sexuallness... its appreciating others ... for the whole package ... not just on how taught a bod can be....
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RHP User
17 years ago
if you are with the right partner. Before I left my 20+ year marriage I thought it was all over. Sex twice a week <15 minutes time allowance> by appointment with my X. Thats not enough! Now six years later its the best sex I have ever had. Sex every day and sometimes all day playing and just having fun. With experience one appreciates things more. I look back on past experiences and if I knew then what I know now maybe it would be a different tune. 20/20 hindsite is easy but not realistic. I now wonder where I go from here. Can it get better? I think yes. Mars
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RHP User
17 years ago
I'm gonna be 47 in a couple of months and I gotta tell you, it just gets better all the time. The planning, time, experience, maturity and desire are all far more refined than years ago and its what you put in it, isn't it? The quick one in the parking lot at the bar was ok but now we both (3,4,5,6,people etc) all have fun and sit back afterwards and say "Damn that was good!" I expect to continue for many many years yet.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Despite your elevating and inspired post "partyinsatiable"... your parties place a limit on the upper age of 55... man I would hate to have a regular party venue where I knew I was going to be tossed off the invitation list just because I've turned 56. Business is business though I guess.
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RHP User
17 years ago
gazpacho trust you mate to read the fine print that points out party insatiable limits his age group to 35-55 and then throws in the line quoting off the top of my head why should any type sex be limited by age....my own profile limits are 38 -99 and out of all my contacts from RhP only one visitor was up in the older year bracket so is really necsessary to make a big deal out of the higher age bracket when that age group appears not to message me at all....but 50- 60 age bracket would be perfect for me
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RHP User
17 years ago
you just have to look at one of the sexiest women ever, and hear her say 'that don't worry girls...it just gets better with age!!! This woman is of coz, the age defying sex symbol of the times...Barberella Ms Jane Fonda..... Can't you remember the pioneer of the home workout video. Go those butt crunches...
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RHP User
17 years ago
Yep its just like last week :D
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hey Damo have you had the mobility cart out for a spin round the block? Thought it was you i saw as i drove through town, chasing them lil ole ladies with the lil stability trollies Happy Birthday and welcome to the NIFTY FIFTY club
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RHP User
17 years ago
I'll be there soon, the nifty fifty... I'm mature enough now though to know in advance it won't make an ounce of difference. Except maybe there may be a few more girls my age bracket available lol. oh hell... Here i am approaching the fifty, i still think sex pretty nifty, leave the young to thier play, they'll learn some day, not required that the fun become thrifty. This site has brought out a monster in me...
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RHP User
17 years ago
In reply to gazpacho41 who wrote: gazpacho41 Date: Jan 01, 2009 Despite your elevating and inspired post "partyinsatiable"... your parties place a limit on the upper age of 55... man I would hate to have a regular party venue where I knew I was going to be tossed off the invitation list just because I've turned 56. Business is business though I guess. The reason we have this age .. is because it is 10 years either side of the age of people who run the parties.... (we do have a few who are just slightly over ... but we dont go younger)... but at least we have these parties and cater for that age range .. as a lot of parties either go to 40 or the max 50 in age ... But that is just the parties ... nothing about our private lives on what we do ... (big difference)....
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RHP User
17 years ago
I've never heard such rubbish before! You're never too old to have a good sex session, why my 95-year-old grandfather, with 1 eye, 1 leg & lots of fingers missing was still ogling women till the day he died! I'm 52 & just coming into my prime. The more the better. It keeps you feeling young & you know the saying: "It's not who you're feeling, it's the person you're feeling!" Kazbug Believe me people in retirement homes still do it too!
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RHP User
17 years ago
This is starting to sound a bit like a chinese whisper. PH
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RHP User
17 years ago
Iam 57 now. I met someone 9 months ago and we have had sex a least once a day for most of the 9 months.
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RHP User
17 years ago
The young should appreciate this news, the message here not obtuse, sex as you grow older, not less but bolder, longer lived, happier future can be mused.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I'de like to think i will still be wanting & having good sex for as long as im capable. For some reason, i feel 80ish would be about the age when physical problems start to hamper the sex life...what do others think? xx iama xx
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RHP User
17 years ago
If you search for women above 60, what a surprise, almost none! Where have they gone? Does menopause really send them totally off sex?
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RHP User
17 years ago
Not the one i met at Cluboz, she was cute as and put many younger girls to shame. Though its only later that i found out she was over 60 it makes no difference to me, she was a lovely, and hot lady.
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RHP User
17 years ago
my gf is 49,I'm 51 and I'm seriously thinking about getting some chemical help so I can keep up. Your as old as you feel. My body is over 50 but as you all know your mind thinks otherwise.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I'm not sure how menopause will affect me but if it takes away some of my sex drive then give me all the bloody HRT I can get!!! I've heard differing reports from different people. Some say their drive died off and others say that once it was over they were back on track again. I guess all I can do is cross my fingers and keep on shagging!!!
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RHP User
17 years ago
Totonrosana, lets see what your opinion is in a few years time, your partner has about 3 years to go and from memory you are a few behind him. Bet you change your tune! I haven't quite figured out whether you are naive or just a stirrer. Anyhow it all makes good reading.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Meh,, dun matter,,, I'm not going to get old :D :D Mr G ;)
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RHP User
17 years ago
I remember thinking like that young guy in his 20's when I was around that age...now I wonder why anyone would even want to stop having sex if it makes them feel good and they're up to it ;-) I read an RHP article on the subject called 'We're Having Sex Longer!' which might interest other readers of this topic...there is a link to the article on the community page under Latest Article: MrsP :-)
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RHP User
17 years ago
when they prise my dick from my cold dead fingers i might have a go at giving it away
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RHP User
14 years ago
This is an interesting subject. Recently I was asked what my five year sex plan is. That is, what do I see my sex life being like in five years.... what do I want to achieve... what are my ambitions? I've been going day to day... but just like anything else, I suppose it can be planned. If I'm going to be swinging from chandeliers then I'll need to be able to do chin ups for instance ( or at least a very good set of portable steps). Without one, there cannot be the other. What is important to me, about sex in five years time... apart from planning to be still doing it, who do I want to be doing it with... and so on. Does anyone have a sex plan? Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't have a sex plan, does anybody really? As you say Stalky, the plan is more and more. But I am one of those people that don't have a 5 year plan in anything. I suppose that is bad and some will say that I won't achieve anything this way. But that's me I guess.
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RHP User
14 years ago
The more I think about that the more ridiculous that seems. A 5 year sex plan? A specific sex plan? So I assume you would need SMART goals and KPI's to assess how you are going? LOLZS - Sex as often as possible M - Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, .... well you get the ideaA - Anal of course, Please R - Rooting, rooting and more rootingT- Tonight, tomorrow, today, titillating,tongue twisting, titties, terrific, tantalising, tempting,talented, torment, tribbing, thrusting, thumping, tempestuous, teasing, taunting, tender, trailblazer, take charge, tweek, two-ball, tools, tears, tear,tiara, taser (?). teacher........ What would my KPI's be??? xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
5year sex plan? I have to ask Stalky - was this from someone you were shagging? And if you shagged them, was it any good? I just think that someone who has a 5 year sex plan is probably really boring and mechanical.In 5 years I hope I'm still alive and fucking.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have no plan. I live in the now, and that is after three back operations in three years, and thought I would not even walk let alone sex. I had planned to trudge along in my shit jobs, but things changed I got better, I opted for poor ( starving artist) and said stuff you to my hideous work life. You can talk to just so many, drug addicts,sex offenders and paedophiles. People with trauma so bad you want to scream yourself. So my plan for good sex is this. Try to stay healthy get of those few kilo, its not bloody easy Try new things, this was a pretty new thing especially when I found out that a camera lens is an aphrodisiac. That I found out that I actually did have a libido and it had just been sleeping for three years not totally dead. To take sex with a grain of salt, and love with sprinkles of herbs and spices and savour it. My plan is in the now. Tomorrow my be a whole new ballgame, especially as we age and get frail. Then dinner becomes far more exciting than sex, especially if you still have your teeth
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't think that far in advance.....sometimes next week is to far away.I would just hope that I continue to meet the wonderful people of Rhp land and have amazing sex on a regular basis. Who knows where we will be in a years time let alone 5 yrs.Just as long as I still have a healthy sex life in the future then I will be happy.My motto is "Never Say Never".......cause you never know what's or who's around the corner.
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RHP User
14 years ago
a five year plan? lordie...i cant make a 5 day plan that i can stick to....let alone 5 years......my impulsiveness just won allow it...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Five year plan... I did sort of shuffle papers on my desk when the question was asked of me. I've never considered that I need a sex plan.... but then, I consider that I have used sex as a means of reproduction, fantasy, escape, and recreation. Maybe my 5 year sex plan ought to be to learn to use sex for recreation purposes only. Not chasing skirt so much could free up some time to diversify my activities... and sex is exhausting, let's face it, I could easily be wasting away here in a puddle of sweat and jizz and other sticky unmentionable elements. The question has to be, what's good for me? And make a plan to make it so. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Or the Sunnyside, at least. It is juat a few minutes drive from my grandparents' retirement villa. Perhaps I should introduce them to it? No? Aaw c'mon, they're only 87.
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