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Same Room vs Seperate Room
November 10 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
For much the same reasons as you've stated, we're happy with either. By the time we get back to the bedroom, we'd be pretty sure we're all pretty comfortable.EXCLUSIVELY? Not sure if that would interest us, it'd be more a case of mixing things up. Do it for something different.I (mr) went away on the weekend to Stockton beach, and Mrs had a guy over.. If that's not separate room enough then what is?!?! And hey, it was pretty cozy in the tent with my mate and his gf...
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RHP User
16 years ago
In years gone by I had swung as a couple with a friend and we met couples only. I personally cant see the point of separate rooms. It is far too intimate. I'm not bi and I know that for sure but in a 4some situation, you may as well make the most of extra hands etc. In my opinion, swinging as a couple should be something extra that what you would do not the same things that you would necessarily do with your usual intimate partner. That probably doesn't make sense and I will probably be lynched by someone on here for not using correct grammar!!!!!!!!LOL Anyway I just think it makes sense to make it an all in one situation.
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RHP User
16 years ago
me and my wife prefer seperate rooms, it's how we started, it works for us. The other reason why is i still have some little jealously issues i am currently working through, nothing major to stop us playing. So i kinda believe outta sight outta mind. We will try same room 1 day but for now it's seperately.. As for the whole "to initimate" problem. Me and my wife love each other dearly and have no intenion of going else where, we both provided the other with the support they need, so that problem has never even arisen for us.. till next time Scott
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RHP User
16 years ago
Same room for me. Sometimes I cringe when the person I'm playing around with says "You want to go into a room?". at times I answer "No thanks. Next!" hehe. Not that I have objections to separate room but haven't you ever had those moments where your body is telling you "yeah... Ok" instead of "phoaarrrrrgh baby". Well, that's when going to a separate room is uncomfortable.... You know... I'll need a group to get me there... You know what that's like? Anyway... no expectations and no disapointments... I generally prefer group sex .. Or sex in the company of others... but there are times Ive met individuals who do everything right for me. Is that making sense? Lolz Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
We prefer to play same room the first time we play with a couple , but as we have no issues with jealousy etc we dont mind seperate rooms , our only thought on this is that in the morning we all wake up in our own beds
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jandv
16 years ago
I have only played in same room BUT I would like to try seperate rooms, once or 200 times LOL
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RHP User
16 years ago
Personaly, i can go either way, but 4 or more is kinda a whole lot more fun, especially if all are bi, but Kerrie doesn't like seperate room or maybe it was just the guy on the night, there have been other guys i am sure she wouldn't mind doing seperate rooms with. Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
We found when we were exploring swinging we were happy with same room and own partners, then we thought seperate rooms for the full swap....that worked OK untill a guy forced his cock down my wives throat........ and by the way his wife had her period while I playing with her.....Nice.....bloody awfull! Without being told beforehand! We then decided after that same room only with 4 way play with heaps of swapping and playing with the opposite sex in a fun way....not one on one love making. So watch out you Bi couples who insist on Bi play.... Your missing heaps. Straight couples dont mean seperate rooms and lack of imagination It just means we prefer the opposite sex! And same sex is a low probabilty not a requirement! Cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
I personally cant see the point of separate rooms. I think in the same room you can get distracted easily. Especially if the other two get very vocal etc. :) Also, when one of the couples finishes earlier ... wouldn't it make the other couple feel a bit uncomfortable? Or, maybe, the OTHER couple will be a bit uncomfortable? We started as separate rooms because that was what the first couple we had experience with were doing. And then somehow we kept meeting couples who were doing separate rooms too ... finally, the last time we had no choice because there was only one room available. And it turned out to be better than we could expect! So, while same room looks more attractive to us at the moment, we can understand that some people may prefer separate rooms ... don't know if it answers the question :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
....as usual :P LOL.... and this is just me personally... but I love same room coz everyone gets to play! I have no real objection to separate rooms for any particular reason but it just doesn't turn me on as much...I like to look and watch my partner and I like to look and watch the other couple too... separate rooms is boring for me... I may as well have stayed home with a book :P LOL This is why I always look to play with bi girls like me, as well.... just guy-girl isn't as much fun for me.
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Ringleader
16 years ago
Try SAME-BALCONY
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RHP User
16 years ago
A book over sex with a guy / the opposite sex...wow What do u read?
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RHP User
16 years ago
he he excellent question :P I just sort of meant that when I swing or have threesomes, it's fun and a game and I like all parties involved...:P One-on-one sex in separate rooms is like my "normal" life... I feel like I can do that anytime... so sometimes I'd rather just be reading :P LOL
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes, Soph.. I think you nailed it. Sex in separate rooms is just like my "normal" life and I feel like I can do that anytime. That's a perfect description of my sentiments towards one on one. Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
4 on a balcony is fairly routine .....Try 4 on the footpath....watching out for traffic on a quiet late night!
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2more4fun
16 years ago
Separate room can be good if you're after a less distracting one-on-one session with the other partner. It did make me wonder why some couples insisted on it but I guess it does make for a different sort of experience. It kinda makes sense if the all interactions are hetero anyway.Where I guess the girls (or guys) are into each other, same room is more ideal.Completely different experiences but all good :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
2more4fun Dissagree Hetro couples ....because we are straight does not mean seperate rooms Hetro couples like Frequent swapping 4 way play....just not with the same sex seeing their partners having fun seeing what their partners enjoy sex in all types of places The only difference we like playing with the opposite sex , we like seeing the same sex ....but we just dont rank same sex play as the primary reason for swinging. Where is this hetro idea coming from....seperate rooms,,,,unsure...etc etc
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2more4fun
16 years ago
I meant that (in one experience of ours, for example): if the couple suggests separate room play, AND the other lady isn't bi, then that would seal the separate room deal for us. If the other lady was bi then we (I) more than likely would have suggested same room in order to get the most of the situation, if you will. Naturally hetero couples may prefer same room play as much as bi couples for all the reasons you gave. To rephrase, if all interactions are hetero then there's one extra reason to consider separate room. If separate room just isn't on the menu regardless of orientation, then it doesn't really matter.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi All Hell we just like to play !! and swap. Either way seperate or same room is good, but our final preference is seperate room, that way there's more room on the bed and floor and elswhere to thrash about and have fun. We have no Jealosy issues, so were both cool about it, Suz
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RHP User
16 years ago
We play together only so that means same room, same car, same piece of grass, same set of stairs. I would wonder why he wanted to go into a seperate room without me.....mmmm is that the typing of jealousy creeping in. K.
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RHP User
16 years ago
We like to be able to watch each other having fun with other couples. Mrs does not feel comfortable with the idea of seperate rooms as it is out of her comfort zone of someone watching over her.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think that same room is sexually stimulating like watching a porno in real lfe!! I know some couples dont like it and have their reasons but it would be a little bit of a concern for me as to whether their relationship was strong enough and they were ready for it if they had to have seperate room play!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Half the pleasure is watching others and the other half is getting it. Bit hard when not in same room. Mars
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