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March 15 2010

I've been with my lovely girl for 4 years, and I must say that I'm very happy. However, she is very conservative when it comes to sex, and I am a little; actually allot more experimental. Thing have started to get very routine, almost becoming boring. I have spoken to her about this and to her credit she did try to spice things up by becoming a little more vocal, but that’s about as far as she is willing to push the envelope. Unfortunately I've started to discretely look elsewhere, I haven't acted on it but I'm really turned on by the thought of being with other Women/Couple - which brought me to this site. So: 1. Have you ever been in this situation, and what was your partners’ response when you recommended "expanding the horizons?" 2. How do I approach this without making her feel insecure? 3. Or do I do this discreetly in a "what she doesn't know won't hurt her" kind of way. Cheers guys, any advice would be appreciated - Chap

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RHP User

16 years ago

you will get heaps more response sass xx

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RHP User

16 years ago

will do.

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14 years ago

A. i've been in this situation with my ex and the result was we broke up. If a girl offer you another chick to bring home let them. B. sex is suposed to be fun if u can't laugh or suggest new things it's not worth it. Vocal in bed? If its good your vocal. You shouldn't be looking elsewhere if she is not fufilling what you what don't break her heart by cheating. If you are truely at one with them you don't hide thing. Hiding is cheating. And there are people out there that are the same and you will find. Ive been with my bf for a year and he is my parner in crime. If you can cheat on her, you DON'T LOVE her.

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