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SO OVER EXCUSSES AND PRETENDERS
May 25 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm sure some people on here think I'm a fake person, a time-waster, a pretender - I don't reply to all emails, and certainly not all flirts.Of those I do reply to some of them make it to MSN/phone contact. Of those even fewer make it to actually meeting.Sometimes I've had to cancel meets, or have forgotten casually arranged meetings (my bad I'm terrible at it). Mostly the guys I've met have been in the right place at the right time when I was in the right mood. So what makes a person a timewaster, a fake, a pretender? Is it because they're not playing at all or is it because they're not playing with you?There have been a couple of people who've contacted me that I'm pretty sure were Russian webcam fembots however the majority of contact has been with real people. Some at different stages of what they're ready to do, or what they're able to do, some we just haven't been abe to swing schedules to meet, some just dirty tarts (yay my favourite!).I think it depends on how you filter and what you look for. I reckon that cos I'm not Miss Universe, and I'm not attracted really to your Mr Universe types, that being average and looking for average helps in weeding out the fakes. Cos who fakes average? :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
1/ i dont think its JUST a SEX site 2/ some people want a bit more or a lot more then just sex 3/ yes i have come across a few men (im saying men because i only chat with men) that have been time wasters some people do play silly games but you know what its all part of life...plenty of people in the real world play games too so why would you think here would be any different to real life good luck all with filtering through the shit to find what your looking for roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi WASandGroper, There have been lots of posts lately about your topic... seems like so many men assume they join RHP and will be fucking away the same day ! It's not that simple for many reasons. My profile states that I'm ONLY here for the Forums and for Friendship. I then explain in my profile that I'm in a relationship and not looking for sex with others. Does that mean that I no longer belong on RHP ? Does that make me a TIME WASTER ? Seriously, the only time I waste is the two seconds or less it takes to read the heading on my profile. I can't be anymore upfront. I think I have LOTS to offer fellow RHPers. I'm not here to have sex with anyone.... I have my one RHP guy and he's enough. In my opinion, a time waster is someone who organises to meet you then doesn't rock up or who changes their mind about wanting to fuck / play with you but is too chicken to let you know so they just avoid you. I know I've spoken to men, exchanged photos, met for coffee and THEN decided I didn't want to have sex with them. Does that make me a time waster ? I think not ! Most women want a connection before having sex.... it takes time to build a connection. Women are more complicated than simply looking at a picture and thinking "yes, lets fuck". There's fun to be had on RHP on many levels. If you're not having fun then perhaps you should go to a brothel or try another site. Happy hunting, Miss Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
We agree with the responses above, I think a lot of people think we're time wasters. So lets take this out of cyber-world, so you're out at a bar and spend time chatting up people you're attracted to. Now if after a conversation and a few drinks do you commit to swapping numbers, going back to their place or finding the nearest nook to have nookie? And if you don't are you a time waster or is it a prick-teaser in the real world?We think not. Just as we were selective in the dating game and didn't fuck every tom, dick and harriet then we're sure not going to do the same here. There's nothing that turns us off more than people who expect after one or two messages to meet and that sex is a given, geez do they ever not like anyone?Our time wasting efforts have resulted in meeting a very small number of really great people who we've had some amazing fun with so we're damn happy to be labeled a time waster by anyone as they are the ones we wouldn't like to meet anyway!Now if we can only get Polar, Rox, Saturn and sweet Custard in the same room naked with us then we'll retire from RHP very happy campers
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RHP User
16 years ago
These sort of threads are boring. WASANDGROPER, to be honest, by starting a thread like this, it makes you appear to be fishing for sympathy in the hope that girls / guys will flood you with messages. It's an internet sex site - it would be ignorant to sign up thinking that whenever you feel like some action, you can just log on and an hour later, your getting into it. Of course there are fake profiles and people that misrepresent themselves! Whining in this forum isn't going to fix it.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wow, with that attitude and the way that you posed your question...I would be too scared to meet with you WASandgroper...I don't think that you would even understand the word "no". Is it if girls meet you and they say no that you call them fakers? Is it the ones that see your cheesiness or desperation on MSN or alike that they say no to meeting you...therefore you class them as fake? Do you class them as fake if they change their mind about you? I'm with the others ... define FAKE!! As for you thinking this is just a Sex Site...hmm I looked at the front page and nowhere does it say Sex Site...It is an Adult Site and I am also with the others in that it is none of your business what they are here for. If you really are that impatient...I don't think this is the place for you!! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Christ all farken mighty, the only time this place is referred to as a "SEX SITE" is when some poor bugger isn't getting any! I keep on looking at the main page, even the log in page, and I actually can't see anywhere where it states that to be on this site you must be willing to bump bones with anyone who asks. In fact, the correct definition of the site is on the log in page - Australia’s hottest adult dating and social networking siteNope, still doesn't mention sex does it!Seriously, Mr OP, just because you have received the odd rejection, it doesn't make the people who rejected you fake, time wasters or pretenders. Maybe (and this is of course just a wild arse guess), they didn't like what they read in your profile or the way you communicated with them, hell they maybe even got a better offer. It happens, it is called life, no one owes anyone anything, specially here.I have found that since I stopped looking for someone, I made a lot of friends here, some I have met, some I would like to met and well, some I haven't met and don't particularly mind not meeting. What I enjoy here is the diversity of personalities, the right to be yourself and bugger what anyone else thinks.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Interesting...and I would hope that this is not the only venue that you employ to encounter attractive and very sensual women as possible companions? In your day to day life, I am sure you would find an abundance of these. If this is your sole venue for such encounters, you are perhaps already in trouble.|This site does offer you the opportunity to meet a number of very lovely and yes, very sensual and sexual women...but may I suggest that it is not just a "sex site"? You will find that the ladies are also intelligent and quite charming. You may even find that, whilst not every one will be interested in having sex with you...some may, god forbid, even become your friends? Yes, you may eventually find them to be companions that will rock your world...but if you think there is a drive-up window here where you can simply order a Ms Saturn, Puppy or Roxy..."take away with nothing on it"...you will indeed be quite frustrated in your efforts. And if you do find that magical drive-up window...your secret would be worth a fortune. I can show you how to establish a franchise network for distribution. |If you do continue to be so frustrated, do a simple cost/benefit analysis? If the cost of your time and membership here is not producing the desired results and in excess per month of say, $300...here is a suggestion? Take $200 and head for the nearest bordello. They will always say yes and you will not need any time consuming interaction to remediate your more primal needs. Use the remaining $100 to enroll in your nearest TAFE offering classes in social graces.|Just as an aside, sarcasm is not a TAFE course. I come by it naturally.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Like any friendship/relationship, what you get out of RHP is improved by the quality of what you put into it. If you waltz in here, acting like you're entitled/owed something (eg: "Hellooo laydeez") then people aren't going to think very highly of you. I as a bloke here, I've come to expect that I'll get only the occasional response from women I send a message/flirt to. Sure, you could slag-off the women you were _so_ interested in only moments earlier by calling them names or assuming they're here simply to waste _your_ time -- but it's more likely that they're overwhelmed with messages/flirts from other prospects. Yes, I'd appreciate it if women on RHP took a minute to respond by saying "Thanks but no thanks" (ow, my bruised ego!), but either way, the reality is the same: she's not into you. Move on. If your initial contact gets nowhere, then forget about it. Practically everyone on RHP wants to make some sort of personal/emotional connection online before proceeding to meet-up. Even then, you're hoping there's a "click" between the two of you, or some sort of chemical "zing". But, if you set the scene by assuming that people here are fake or wasting your time -- well, you've shot yourself in the foot before you've even started. So, instead of coming-across all passive-aggressive, try sparking-up a friendship. Play nice, and good luck. :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
quote "hi im looking for sex sex sex im very well hung i can visit im straight hot hot women id love to fuck (phone number inserted) " Then when we wouldn't give him phone number and asked for proof of his 9+ inches he wrote back..."you ask for two much you want but dont give"Damn we wasted some time there!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I wonder if we would also be classed as time wasters. We are new to the site, and have lots of people message us, but we are still trying to figure out what we want...so dont always get to answer all emails, and flirts, and it would be impossible to actually meet every single person or couple that messages us. It is normal to not have to meet everyone isnt it? We are new to the site, but certainly not new to life and try to imitate life on here as it is in real life. We are happy with who we are and are not looking to just find people to have sex with. Im addicted to the forums now though. Mrs Shy xxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Like any friendship/relationship, what you get out of RHP is improved by the quality of what you put into it. If you waltz in here, acting like you're entitled/owed something (eg: "Hellooo laydeez") then people aren't going to think very highly of you. I as a bloke here, I've come to expect that I'll get only the occasional response from women I send a message/flirt to. Sure, you could slag-off the women you were _so_ interested in only moments earlier by calling them names or assuming they're here simply to waste _your_ time -- but it's more likely that they're overwhelmed with messages/flirts from other prospects. Yes, I'd appreciate it if women on RHP took a minute to respond by saying "Thanks but no thanks" (ow, my bruised ego!), but either way, the reality is the same: she's not into you. Move on. If your initial contact gets nowhere, then forget about it. Practically everyone on RHP wants to make some sort of personal/emotional connection online before proceeding to meet-up. Even then, you're hoping there's a "click" between the two of you, or some sort of chemical "zing". But, if you set the scene by assuming that people here are fake or wasting your time -- well, you've shot yourself in the foot before you've even started. So, instead of coming-across all passive-aggressive, try sparking-up a friendship. Play nice, and good luck. :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'mooka'Christ all farken mighty, the only time this place is referred to as a "SEX SITE" is when some poor bugger isn't getting any! I keep on looking at the main page, even the log in page, and I actually can't see anywhere where it states that to be on this site you must be willing to bump bones with anyone who asks. In fact, the correct definition of the site is on the log in page - Australia’s hottest adult dating and social networking siteNope, still doesn't mention sex does it!Seriously, Mr OP, just because you have received the odd rejection, it doesn't make the people who rejected you fake, time wasters or pretenders. Maybe (and this is of course just a wild arse guess), they didn't like what they read in your profile or the way you communicated with them, hell they maybe even got a better offer. It happens, it is called life, no one owes anyone anything, specially here.I have found that since I stopped looking for someone, I made a lot of friends here, some I have met, some I would like to met and well, some I haven't met and don't particularly mind not meeting. What I enjoy here is the diversity of personalities, the right to be yourself and bugger what anyone else thinks. Mooka - I totally agree with your comment - stop looking and participate in the community - the forums, the chat... whatever takes your fancy - by participating you get to know the people and you get to enjoy this site far more than just trying to find a quick fcuk. I've met many ladies from this site socially, and been lucky to play with one or two of them. I'm personally NOT looking to fcuk anything that moves, but to be able to have some decent adult company that is on a similar wavelength as mine and where I don't have to hold my freaking tongue for fear of offending someone.... Thats what I like bout it anyway. Wayne
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RHP User
16 years ago
There are lots of fakes on any internet site. That is what the internet lends itself to. Even sites like Facebook, My Space, or anything. Anyone can be anyone they like!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Our reply was basically the same .. but I got in first so ner ner in ner ner!! Lol... Also to Midnight for saying that women who work in "Bordellos" will always say yes is very false indeed. Even working girls have the right to say no to someone and they cannot be forced to see a client if they don't want to. xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'shycouple11' I wonder if we would also be classed as time wasters. We are new to the site, and have lots of people message us, but we are still trying to figure out what we want...so dont always get to answer all emails, and flirts, and it would be impossible to actually meet every single person or couple that messages us. It is normal to not have to meet everyone isnt it? We are new to the site, but certainly not new to life and try to imitate life on here as it is in real life. We are happy with who we are and are not looking to just find people to have sex with. Im addicted to the forums now though. Mrs Shy xxxx Mrs Shy... Noticed you're new here... welcome to the forums. Thanks for having the guts to post and give it a go. I'd not call you time wasters... specially given you are new here. It is normal not to have to meet everyone - sure.. just like when you go to a party.. you don't always meet everyone there. Don't try to imitate or interpret life here as real life. It's not. People here tend (with some exceptions) to be more rude than they would in real life. It's not the people, its more the way thinsg are these days with society and the Internet. People believe they can get away with treating others like crap over the internet when in the real world they would not... sorry - ranting... To help you deal with the flood of emails you must be getting, I'd suggest you setup a few templates and use those to respond to the emails that yo are not interested in... a polite "thanks but no thanks... " is all thats needed to be nice. Enjoy the forums - watch the addiction it can be bad :-) Oh and make sure to get out with Mr Shy and meet real people if you desire. hugs Wayne x
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi all,there are so many good postings here,,,,,,,,:)Yes this is an Adult site, to each that will mean something different.There are many peopl on this any other sites that apear to be fakes, and I suppose that many are, I too have been very frustrated in trying to make contact, as I am sure many of you all have.I see part of the problem is that when people post a profile here, they dont include a great deal of specif information there, and when you look at the profile, you make a decission as to whether to contact that person or not based on what you have read.Time and time again I have been berrated by a person saying "I am not what they are looking for", well, thats fine, but always nice to know why, especially since you may have matched 100% with their criteria!Also, tollerance to others is so lacking. I know many women here get many many emails, and they are or should be flattered at most, but in reallity, they do not read, nor reply, so the sender is left without a word and is wondering why!Of cause each person has the right to reply or not, but if someone has taken the time to write to them, and is genuine, then I think it is only reasonable to receive a genuine reply, albeit a short one, but one may hope a genuine one.I think a reply is a reasonable expectation, behond that, no expectations apply, but,,lets all be open and honest , say what we are really looking for, pull no punches, and that way I hope people are not frustrated in getting inapproperiate replies.Tollerance, non judgemental outlooks and a genuine approach to all !Cheers, Greg
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RHP User
16 years ago
WASANDGROPER, women are inundated with men trying to get a little attention. I have heard tales that there are ten guys to every female on here. This is a problem, because we like to be able to see if there is something worth pursuing in a guy before we meet him...does this mean we should meet every guy on here? Or have sex with ten, just because the statistics are geared that way? NO!!! If, by chatting with a guy for a while first, I can rule him onto my list of those I chat with and those I choose not to chat with further, then that is my prerogative. I don't consider myself a time waster for being cautious. Grow up and realise that we only have so many hours in a day, and can't possibly use them all on guys who whine about what cannot be changed! ILTS
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Bubbaj
16 years ago
if i want sex, i just go out and get it. who needs the internet to set me up when you can just go out and pay for it? heheso stop being cheap wasandgroper, go pay for it if u want instant satisfaction :P
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RHP User
16 years ago
Poor Mr Groper looks to me you’ve copped a Forum Bashing.. And I think I will have to agree with several others on here like Mooka, Niceguy 00 & Deserts on this one. You simply can’t expect just to get online and be rewarded with a Fuck from some laid back women waiting to blow your mind and abuse your tool. If you want to waste time more properly do what we all do and dribble shit on the forums ..More action here and heaps of fun to.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Think he may have been gettting too many of the webcam girls sending him mail and thinking they were for real. Seriously the attitude comes through poorly. Are there fakes...yes, are there timewasters...welll yes but my definition of a timewaster would be different to what some others have posed. I would say it was someone that led the other person on with the belief that something was going to happen then kept putting it off or not showing up, not because they change their mind, because they are playing with the guy. Not a lot of it out there but is some.New question is WASANDGROPER going to get anything having blurted all this out...my vote is no. Would he have got anything had he not blurted it out....probably not so he still on an even playing field.Iluvtosmile - I think the ratio is a lot higher these days as over half the women are actually attached already plus have to figure in all the ones that aren't looking for guys in the first place.
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RHP User
16 years ago
What is the definition of a time waster? did you read my profile and then flirt me with a "when can we meet?" oops wasted your own time there as It clearly says ...no meets well that just wasted your own time..... or just message me with a "wanna #UC% " just because I said I liked to talk dirty? well again you just wasted your time..... Maybe that TAFE course is a good idea.... try basic communication skills it might get you an pleasant answer back
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well... The exhibitionist in me has sometimes prompted images in my head of fucking on a persion carpet behind a busking tin. :p And I can just imagine bubbaj rushing around and borrowing my credit card so she can try to swipe it down some handsome young man's crack!! hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
As pointed out in the posts on this thread.....references have been deleted about swinging couples. Now we wonder if this is the right site for us Appears more suited to singles looking for that perfect match.....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'niceguy0068' Quoting 'shycouple11' I wonder if we would also be classed as time wasters. We are new to the site, and have lots of people message us, but we are still trying to figure out what we want...so dont always get to answer all emails, and flirts, and it would be impossible to actually meet every single person or couple that messages us. It is normal to not have to meet everyone isnt it? We are new to the site, but certainly not new to life and try to imitate life on here as it is in real life. We are happy with who we are and are not looking to just find people to have sex with. Im addicted to the forums now though. Mrs Shy xxxx Mrs Shy... Noticed you're new here... welcome to the forums. Thanks for having the guts to post and give it a go. I'd not call you time wasters... specially given you are new here. It is normal not to have to meet everyone - sure.. just like when you go to a party.. you don't always meet everyone there. Don't try to imitate or interpret life here as real life. It's not. People here tend (with some exceptions) to be more rude than they would in real life. It's not the people, its more the way thinsg are these days with society and the Internet. People believe they can get away with treating others like crap over the internet when in the real world they would not... sorry - ranting... To help you deal with the flood of emails you must be getting, I'd suggest you setup a few templates and use those to respond to the emails that yo are not interested in... a polite "thanks but no thanks... " is all thats needed to be nice. Enjoy the forums - watch the addiction it can be bad :-) Oh and make sure to get out with Mr Shy and meet real people if you desire. hugs Wayne x Thank you Mr Nice Guy Yes, forums are addictive but i love my addictions...and i have a few. Yes, perhaps i am a little naive and do forget the rudeness of some on this internet thing...but i will bear that in mind from now on...and yes Mr Shy and I really do go out and meet some very nice people... Thanks for all your advice... Mrs Shy - (not a time waster...but somewhat naive)
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RHP User
16 years ago
would you like a hankie to cry into...???jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Groppy bebe your on to something ! I in fact agree, it is full of time wasters and fakes. I think if you look at the ratio your probably correct ! Sorry Mooka , I agree with dear old Groppy ! Yes this is in fact a sex site ..... NO NO NO it doesn't say it .... but lets face it it's heavily alluded to and by far the vast majority of people who jump on here are not seeking new "friends" they are initially attrached to the site with the thought of a little bit of nooky ! mmmmm yum Nooky! If you think this is a social site your freakin kiddin yourself ! Tis true lots of folk become addicted to the forums ..... I started a "addicted forum" at the beginning of the year. Its a social little space where a regular group of folk joke , muck about and have fun - people come go , there are an in crowd and a few newbies etc. Youve been welcomed by some harrassed for your opinion by others. It is its own little cyber world. ! So it is to them a social site! or should I say it's become one. Now Groppy ( I can call you Groppy cant I) all you need to do start playing hockey with the team ! Get a big dick, a cyber personality and pucker up champ ! Welcome enjoy keep looking ! Brae
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RHP User
16 years ago
...to present another view from the one we posted earlier....sometimes one can get momentarily pissed off with the fakes, the pretenders and the little boys looking for pics to wank over...maybe sandy just had a momentary flip out, we can all get cranky sometimes can't we?
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RHP User
16 years ago
In actual fact if you look at the front page it shows you the start of a letter to RHP about someone meeting their "soul mate" on here....so while most know it was intended as a sex site in the beginning (and isn't that why so many men and couples joined?), from the outside to me anyway, it looks more and more like a dating site as time goes on! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey WASG, I'm new here too, don't get replies to all the messages I send, but don't get all cut up over it. Maybe you just haven't messaged the right person yet. They may well be there waiting for you now. And maybe try to make some friends first. Then let nature take its course. That what happens in the real world. RHP should be no different. Good luck. Cheers, thebassman
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RHP User
16 years ago
geturrroxyoff i think thats half the problem in here...so many people dont think its real so they be what they are not and then when it comes time to meet they cant coz they are going to get found outif everyone would just be them selves i would be so much better and easier for everyone including themslevesio far i have only had 2 women that turned into time wasters in nearly 6 years to those that have been real and genuine i thnk you for the wonderful times we have had be it socially or sexually, and look forward to many more of both
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RHP User
16 years ago
Funloving 100% for sure its definately branded to some degree as a dating site ........ I too read the I found my life partner on RHP or RHP thankyou for showing me the light I love my new man his ferrari and his whole 9 inches (ok so the Ferrari part may be made up !) I think thou its fair to say a majority ...... no not those that are social little beavers on the forums..... but the other overwhelming majority of players (and payers) are here for some Nooky! LORD I AM ! and delightfully with varying degrees of success........( Dances around the room with his undies on his head cheering out loud!) I would also say that the thousands of blokes that actually pay to keep this site going would withdraw thier membership and head off in droves if they specifically put rules to restrict content that implies the sexual nature of this site. Simply saying that Groppy (or Sandy ....like it pups, nice ) is allowed to get a little grouchy from time to time. Even more so express his little self if he should see fit as well ! So funloving I agree and somewhat disagree BUT isnt that part of the beauty of life, we can all do both and it all keeps on spinning. Kisses in all the right spots Brae
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RHP User
16 years ago
you're the type of man that goes to a swingers club and think that that means that all the chicks there are good to go with anyone and everyone just because they are in a swingers club!Whatever happened to free will????Ever thought that maybe THEY JUST DONT LIKE YOU???If you want no strings no convo no thought sex....go pay for it.This is an ADULT site...sex just happens to be a part of it.Oh...and the reason the "fakes" work..is that you guys actually believe that a hot young thing would want you!Ever wondered why the fakes dont target the single gals??JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
.............................................................. Is any one listening. .................................... Click Beep. Beep. Beep. Huh. Some people just get that alot. Lol. Fab. RFB5. Ah hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
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RHP User
16 years ago
I cant lie anymore i;m coming clean all over everybody. people on here know me as a successful sexy man who drive's a Ferrari and his massive appendage is a certified national treasure.....the truth is ...its a Holden sorry i'm going to stand in the corner ....and whip myself with my dick.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am a self confessed Time Waster... I spend hours of my time watching the RHP chat channels and replying to single guys with massive cocks, wanting a 'quick root'. For some strange reason most of these guys seem to be out of my preferred age range. I try to be honest in my reply and state my reason for the rejection. But most the time if the reason is they are ugly, I endeavour to be polite and say I am a ‘Time Waster’ and wish them luck on their search. As most have pointed out, this may be viewed as a ‘sex site’ but in my experience usually there are at least two participants in the ‘sex’. This is due to a mutual attraction between both parties. May I suggest if you are constantly being rejected, you may be aiming a little too high. Else I do believe there are people who provide a service where mutual attraction is not required. And usually you do have to pay for this!
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KiwiJohn
16 years ago
I have found that people here will meet if the person is right and the connection is good, but I cant recommend getting to know someone in chat before meeting them highly enough. Now I am not a full-on RHP person and have only met a few people as well has having a great time at a meet and great (thanks again for organising that BJ!), but I have chatted to a lot of women (no couples) and the impression I got was people are all here for different things and there is always someone out there after the same. It could be a random hook-up, a couple looking for a woman to expand their experiences, people just wanting to chat, people of both sexes looking for some Hillary Swank material, and even brave souls looking for actual love. But the most common theme I have seen is almost everyone here wants attention - they want to be heard, or someone to talk to, or someone to make them feel sexy (cock-cam guys, stand up - oh you are). Maybe when push comes to shove they just whim out - the aforementioned bbq was a prime example where about 90 guys said they were interested but only about 10 showed up (tho i suspect thats cos BJ said it wasnt going to be an orgy). That doesn't make them fake, it just makes them either sensible for not showing up, a bit wimpy for not saying they werent interested, or too busy / forgetful. I just think the word FAKE is bandied around too much here. Fuck labels I say, we're all just a diverse range of people that deliberately or not do shitty things that piss other people off - as has been said, it's just life.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I believe I have been labelled a timewaster, simply because i play by my rules, i dont meet unless all of my boxes are ticked, and THEN, if i have time available, which as a single mum until recently, was v sparse indeed. I have met a few ppl on here so i guess i havent wasted everyones time!! tend to agree that this type of thread is usually sent in by guys who aren't getting any, and reading the original post would probably a little scared in answering after I read that
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RHP User
16 years ago
Makes no difference even if you do drive a Ferrari.
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RHP User
16 years ago
As a couple we are here for all the reasons, I guess for the same reason you are here? just one difference! We don't offer free meat to lions, yes males are lions, ones looking for sex. It's not a "We looking" and you "Lay her down". So I guess although it's all on the table, you have to hunt like the next man and hope with your tracking skills, working up wind, walking on your heels, that you can sight your pray?. But always remember, like you, we have hunted and are hunters and a fox does not have 9 lives, one wolf whisle and it's over. I grew up hunting, skinned many a pray (Skinned them and used them as puppets to, in my youth) So walk and hunt like you want but we of old school. I mean this as a hunter and as a "swinger???". Husbands don't, as much as our wifes! just offer it up because you are horny and want a free cheap root. You want cheap, go to the pros! You have no money but have the skill? Cum to us and others looking. I mean this in a good way and take every man at face value but we all err on caution and although you call it "time wasting" Male/female call it investigating. So take your time into looking in females/couples, take them at face value, remember time/chat/cam is required to satisfy safety/respect and work with us! You just might find the best time of your life, taking your time!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'MissBJ' you're the type of man that goes to a swingers club and think that that means that all the chicks there are good to go with anyone and everyone just because they are in a swingers club!Whatever happened to free will????Ever thought that maybe THEY JUST DONT LIKE YOU???If you want no strings no convo no thought sex....go pay for it. Miss BJ i love it, i often go to parties on my own due to the other half being busy etc etc and if that alot of single guys have this idea in their head that just because im there means i'll be into anyone thats interested.I've even had guys forcefully grab me and try to pash me/ touch me etc (the verbal tirade thay recieved made everyone stop and look lol)Honestly guys just because we like sex just makes us more fussy.WASANDGROPER, i had a look at your profile and if i was a single girl looking you wouldnt even get a reply. Why? -you profile is boring-i know you have a cock & the fact that its the only picture of you dosnt say much about you
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RHP User
16 years ago
I totally agree,i get tons and tons of men messaging me for sex only and they never read my profile!!! I TELL THEM TO GO TO A BROTHEL! Because they have the false belief that this is a sex site only.Narrow minded and annoying if ya ask me!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Guess there's all types here. I don't expect too much from RHP and therefore don't get too frustrated as a result. Good luck in your endeavours. (may they be scarce and inhibited by others all too often)
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RHP User
15 years ago
lol...sweetie, I warned you!!!! It's a cliquey group only interested in the beautiful people between themselves. You can't possibly fit in!!! Oh and just for the record, I have known Groper for 5 yrs - long before he set foot on RHP and spent an entire day for wining and dining..... He was a perfect gentleman all day and evening and said 'good night' at the door. Your problem Grope is that you are attached now and therefore not eligible to play outside in the playground. As for Nightmare - you wouldn't know an hionest woman from a clay brick!
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RHP User
15 years ago
besides the typo you have named your self very well.you ar eone of the people that if you dont get your own way you winge and carry on and make up retarded excuses to be nasty to said people that didnt do it your way...i truly feel very sorry for youbuild a bridge girl and get over what didnt happen between us you make out you are such an understanding woman but you are one of the ost narrow minded idiots i have ever had the misfortune to chat with.one thing i do know is you couldnt ever be an honest woman because you live in a dream worldtime you woke up to reality
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