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SAFE SEX IN THREESOMES
January 06 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
the thing i've had issue with is the guy that wants to swap back and forth between girls using the same condom. i.e. It's been IN me then he wants it to go IN her then back IN me. NoNoNo.
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RHP User
15 years ago
.....but what if the guy wants to put his tongue in her...and then in you? Is that different, and if so, why? I think if you're in for a 3sum then you have to expect a bit of swapping and I would think there will be times when a condom stays on and is used between the girls. Of course, if you were swapping between anal and vaginal sex, then health reasons would mean the condom would get discarded. OR is it me being naive??? Mr O
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love how the safe sex thread is going crazy with people sprouting wikipedia and googled statistics, but when it comes down to a practical question everyone is mute. . I was quite interested in seeing what people had to say about it... My only ever threesome involved a rabbit, so there wasn't exactly much risk so I can't contribute much.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MRSSWEETIEPIE'I never, ever allow someone to use the same condom on me as he has another woman, not in group situation, not in couple situations and not in 3sum situations. So is there a massive pile of discarded condoms next to the pile of discarded clothes... Or are you lazy and just don't swap much :-D
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just troll back through the forums... But basically unless your sex is a straight swap with no kissing, fingering or licking then its not actually safe. A dental dam ( for licking ladies) you take a latex glove. chop the fingers off but not the thumb. Cut a slit up the non thumb side. Should leave you with a rectangular piece with the thumb hole for tounge penetration. Its also reccomended that you put a little dot on your lick side so you know which side is which if you drop it. 6 monthly testing, know your parners, new hole/person new condom. Its impossible to have safe threesomes. You just have to judge the risk & decide whether its worth warts, herpies, aids and more....lol I suggest googling safe lesbian sex. There are some really good sites out there. State run ones I think..was it NSW?? any way you will find the info all out there. We decided it was worth the risk but we pick our partners VERY carefully. Some of the older swingers dont use condoms either because they have a vetting system too...and figure if you catch it from kissing & fingering anyway why bother with condoms. For us....the % of catching something through regular penetration is higher than kissing ect so we will always use condoms. But never really got into the gloves & dental dam side of things. I guess if we ever start properly sleeping around we will though. Hope this helps Mrs H xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm rather curious to know if/when anyone is gonna mention the good 'ol dam. These safe sex threads always manage to amuse and horrify me all at once! Where are the dams kiddies??? And JG, I think you should choose your animals very wisely, those rabbits are notoriously highly sexed!!! On the upside, your penchant for ears would be well catered for with the nice big floppy variety...
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RHP User
15 years ago
My lips are sealed JG - that is how I practice safe female sex. . .BTW - I do have a pair of bunny ears and tail somewhere...... You just need to shift the tail a little and ... xxx M
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RHP User
15 years ago
Exccuse the pun! But your husband goes bareback with his wife and condoms are only used for the new girl.....imagine a 10 pack should last the night? Cheers PS: Orally Addicted to have safe sex and be politically correct he must also use a dental dam with the new girl for oral and a condom for sex, bareback for his wife. Or the three have accessed the risk and all are happy with whatever risk they as three adults wish to take behind closed doors, thats theirs / yours right and no one elses business.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Cans of fruit, pies, rocks and paperbacks are all ingredients for a nourishing threesome. If you all agree of course. Williamstown North is a wild place. There's too much to discuss about the complexities of 3somes here. Hints & Tips: Safety is a personal/group issue and varies. Don't let issues get complicated, helps if someone is the lead. Each participant may have a scenario they want to experience, do those things first. Have at least one successful encounter and enjoy the thoughts and images for the rest of your life. Sometimes does not eventuate for many reasons. Hope that helps?
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RHP User
15 years ago
There's no such thing as safe sex unless you are mongamous. All you can do is do your best and get tested regularly. That means guys should wear condoms for penetrative intercourse. Going down is a risk people usually take without wearing condoms or dental dams. That's the reality. People rarely wear gloves unless for some other purpose.... i.e. they like the feel of latex.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
It's fundamental that you change condoms from partner to partner or from arse to fanny. So fundamental that I forgot to mention it.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' It's fundamental that you change condoms from partner to partner or from arse to fanny. So fundamental that I forgot to mention it.HugsStalkyI hope that rule only applies in threesomes, because I've been using the same condom for the last 6 months! I've lost count of the number or arses and fannies, but can proudly say it has never been used for oral.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Quoting 'stalky' It's fundamental that you change condoms from partner to partner or from arse to fanny. So fundamental that I forgot to mention it.HugsStalkyI hope that rule only applies in threesomes, because I've been using the same condom for the last 6 months! I've lost count of the number or arses and fannies, but can proudly say it has never been used for oral. Ew. You just took the FUN out of fundamental!
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
In the perfect world..3 somes and group sex would flow much easier..but alas it's not a perfect world so yes even in 3 somes...it's a new condom for each lady...even you we swap a dozen times..it's a dozen condoms!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MrandMrsH' 6 monthly testing, know your parners, new hole/person new condom. Queensland Health advised us 3-6 months testing is not required in our case with our risk profile, Change our risk profile to include Bi sex, anal, riming, overseas sex, no condoms and yes then we need regular testing. Qld Health asks that we reccommend our swinging friends to visit them so they get correct advise. We are seeing on the forums other people trying to apply their risk profiles to everyone and thats not right!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ah....but he certainly put the mental in fundamental!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
. Risk profiling says enough ! . Random - Regular Protection . Regular - Risk & History assessment . Enjoy ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'tastietwo' Quoting 'MrandMrsH' 6 monthly testing, know your parners, new hole/person new condom. Queensland Health advised us 3-6 months testing is not required in our case with our risk profile, Change our risk profile to include Bi sex, anal, riming, overseas sex, no condoms and yes then we need regular testing. Qld Health asks that we reccommend our swinging friends to visit them so they get correct advise. We are seeing on the forums other people trying to apply their risk profiles to everyone and thats not right! Yes Yes Flogging that old horse We remember your veiws & we are happy to let you have them! but for a newbie I daresay a more traditional approach to protection is needed. . . For me my check, is money well spent if it gives me piece of mind. Little blood test, little swab. Done! I also like tasietwo choose my partners with care, but unlike them I admit that my partners could be lying about some of their habits. I always wear condoms, I never have anal. Bisexual experience...No of course not! Lol and from the pre swinger days...Of course I love you, Your the only one... . . The only one you can trust entirely is your self when it comes to your sexual protection. You need to decide your risks & what you are prepared to do... Love With Giggles & a bit of anal just for fun! Mrs H xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Go for the anal stuff, got the hep A and B immusination taken care off? Love your words of wisdom below ....agree 100% condoms a must for your fun plus 3-6 monthly testing very wise in our opinion. Quoting 'MrandMrsH' Done! I also like tasietwo choose my partners with care, but unlike them I admit that my partners could be lying about some of their habits. I always wear condoms, I never have anal. Bisexual experience...No of course not! Lol and from the pre swinger days...Of course I love you, Your the only one... . . The only one you can trust entirely is your self when it comes to your sexual protection. You need to decide your risks & what you are prepared to do... Love With Giggles & a bit of anal just for fun! Mrs H xxx
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