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Returning the favour for my partner...

January 27 2009

My partner goes all out to spice things up in the bedroom, lingerie, lap dances, toys and the like. And of course when she isnt showing off for me dancing etc then I join in and we have a great time. But my question to the ladies is what can I do when she is there laying on the bed for her? I just dont know how it would go if I put on a firemans outfit and started dancing for her lol. I know this will change with evergirl but any suggestions? Thanks Marcus

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    17 years ago

    .....shouldn't you be asking her?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    17 years ago

    Who says you can't put on that firemans outfit? It may be red-facing for you, and she might be rolling on the floor laughing until ribs break, but if you keep focused and work through it, she'll stop laughing and appreciate what you're doing. Take it one step further... When she's in bed, set off the smoke alarm, burst in (In uniform of course), carry her out the back then get your hose out and give it to her... Anything that she can do, you cab do in return, just mix it up a bit. Obviously you feel completely comfortable with her, and there's no one else around (presumably), so let it all out!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    17 years ago

    Yeah definitely dress up and do it. Even if she thinks it's funny then that means it's fun and fun is always good. The fact you are doing something for her and showing you want to actually give something back *should* be something that she will appreciate. If she laughs, laugh with her and ham it up. If she thinks it's sexy, then do it and follow through! :) I get up and do some pole dancing at clubs. 95% of it is me just hamming it up and having fun. While I know that not every woman likes it, there are plenty that do and give me compliments. I've even had women encourage me to do it. Have fun!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    17 years ago

    from a guy who likes to play with guys (as well as females) you cant beat a guy in sexy underwear showing off his throbbing cock thru the tight fitting jocks or boxers. Wear a revealing colour such as red,white or light blue ensure they are snug fitting and approach her with a decent boner in your hot undies maybe do a sexy pose or two for her rub your throbbing bulge over her body teasing and enticing her. Thrust it sexilly it near her give her a chance to play with your throbbing bulge hope that works for her m8 Good luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    17 years ago

    Hmm so she the one spicing things up and seems you the one with the single guys profile looking for casual sex... something not quite right here!!!

  • deltoid

    deltoid

    17 years ago

    why is a guy who has a girlfriend who is spicing things like this girl is, on RHP with a single guys profile. Especailly when the same guy is asking for advise on how to keep up with his girlfriend.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    17 years ago

    Spot on the money there to the two asking about my profile.... Its old and I admit needs updating. I haven't been on here actively since I met her and let my membership lapse etc etc. But I know I can always find a good answer or two when I have a question from the people on here. :) I know shock horror im going out of my way for her and not seeing people behind her back!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    17 years ago

    A fireman's outfit .... I think you would look sensational in one, all bear chested and rock hard... However in the bedroom, I suggest you choose anything with a cape ... zorro, batman (not so much the robin outfit.. you know), fantom of the opera.. etc... and a mask.... be someone you are not... and leap out of the closet pick her up in your manly arms and say something from the movies in your deepest husky voice... just saying.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    17 years ago

    doesn't have to be a clinical q .. can be hot, romantic, sexy ... you can find out by sending suggestive texts during the work day and see what she responds to ... also known as foreplay and makes for a hot night ahead ;) Me - I'm not into costumes and role play, I like romance - candles and all that, and / or mild bondage, public sex etc. So it's totally different for everyone - she'll appreciate you asking ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    17 years ago

    I love the idea of the fireman's costume, I have always thought firies a bit special. Ber her special fireman stripogram! Other ideas are good too including the suggestion you ask her sometime. A frank discussion could give you fodder for sexy surprises for a long time to come. ONe thing that I really enjoy is being painted with oil. Massage oil that is, with a brush, while blindfolded, starting with the face. Add tying me up loosely with silk scarves and damn, you've got me excited. Happy seductions Wilds

  • RHP

    RHP User

    17 years ago

    How about a sexy massage? Run her a bubble bath and sit on the side while you clean her body, then wrap her in a towel and lead her to the bedroom with candles and oils set up beside the bed. Get her to lie on the bed and close her eyes/blindfold her and massage her! Then, just when she's getting comfortable, bring out the feather and lightly stroke her with it. Or use your mouth and blow softly on different parts of her body! Because she can't see where you're going next, it keeps her excited and guessing. ;) Josh

  • RHP

    RHP User

    17 years ago

    gotta say...the thing that turns me on the most is knowing that my guy is HOT for ME!! That means sending me naughty texts during the time we're apart...but not crude....telling me what he wants to do WITH me....and when he sees me....pushing me up against a wall.....growling and moaning....kissing and devouring me....pushing himself hard up against me.....telling me the whole time how much he wants me.....mmmmmmm. Winner every time!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    17 years ago

    what miss bj said!! :P