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RHP Evolution

October 20 2014

So this thread is to get an idea and also to share about how you have changed since joining RHP. So - below type how you have changed and how your use of RHP has changed over time. When I first joined - I had recently gotten out of (aka gotten dumped) a long term relationship, I was with this girl for 4 and a half years. My self esteem was quite low, I had one quick but highly unusual relationship in-between. But overall my sexual confidence was quite low. We were young and stupid. And the sex was pretty ordinary - for both of us. I joined RHP with the notion of wanting to try everything and become more sexually educated. I was eager, and immediately began messaging those whom I thought fit my criteria. Sexy, smart, happy & interesting (oh.. and nice ass). To RHP's credit - a lot of couples and singles fit this criteria. I ticked off most the boxes on my fucket list. After a while, I started wanting to learn more about the people within RHP and became less interested in getting laid. I became involved on the forums, went to meet & greets and made effort to make real friends with the people I met. I lost most of these friends, but still have a few I speak to/meet. I am still amazed at the diverse range of people that conjugate to this site, it's something that still engages me - and I have learned so much from all the experiences I have had. Good and bad. Subsequently confidence generated from RHP started to diverge into my regular life - and I started using RHP less. Up until where I am now. I still spend about 5 minutes every couple days reading the odd forum post - or replying to a message or two that drops into my inbox from time to time. Looking into the future, I am definitely looking forward to the next Sydney Meet and Greet. Would love to see some familiar faces. Let me know your journeys,

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RHP User

11 years ago

For me i joined RHP as my marriage ended two years ago and our sex life was zero for many years, i wanted to meet a man that was great in bed and enjoyed sex as much as i do and with the added bonus of company . i found it hard meeting men as all my friends are married and i didn't have anyone to go out with ... this is a great way to chat and if it feels right to eventually meet and see where it goes . But in saying that i'm getting bored of the same old messages ( wanna fuck ) so i'm like Shells and i'm really here for the forums for shits and giggles . i have met some wonderful people on this journey especially one guy that has taught me so much in how to have amazing kinky sex !! vanilla isn't for me now .Erin

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RHP User

11 years ago

I joined after a 15 year relationship ended....he ran off with someone 20 years younger than me. Low self esteem and little sexual confidence, yep, that was me too. I have since met some fantastic people from here, men and women, been to a couple of meet and greets, and am happier and more sexually confident than ever before. To the guys and girls I have met on here, who are now friends, thank you, you are all wonderful. Yes, still get the "wanna fuck" messages, as Erin pointed out, but for every one of them there is a genuine and polite first message. I love the forums (have learned a lot from reading all the posts) and like a bit of banter in the chat room. Enjoy looking at all the sexy and imaginative profiles, (Cuckle, love your new one) and talking to people I would never have met outwith the sight. Also....the people I have talked to and met from interstate. Lilyorchid, such a fabulous girl. My confidence, like Cognescentis, has carried on to my personal life and has been noticed. So, Im glad I got over my initial hesitation and signed up just over a year ago. It has changed me for the better.

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RHP User

11 years ago

as our name suggests we went chasing the elusive unicorn as the wife wanted to experiment with women but initially only in a threesome situation. While this has evolved, the name hasn't (might have to do something about that). Unfortunately RHP isn't the treasure trove of wanton abandon we hoped lol (our strikerate isnt exactly striking), but I've struck up some friendships in the chatroom and find it keeps me busy when I'm away working. We're no longer chasing the unicorn or many others to be perfectly honest, and are here more to chat than anything else. Jaded after only a few months lol.

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6exxy

11 years ago

Kisses and hugs 😘😘😘😘

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RHP User

11 years ago

......was a kid in a candy shop and loved it.

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RHP User

11 years ago

I was the accidental tourist. My hymen had grown over anyway. I came to get models for an exhibition I had on. I wanted guys who would take their kit of without to much complaining. First time ever I had seen a model get a hard on9 thats normally a no no), I was in work mode. and then I realised it was for MOI? I looked around for hidden camera or his mates to come running in and saying, tricked ya. He pinned me to the floor and I was talking in tongues before I knew it. Then one gave me my first oral ever and my gooood , it was goooodddd. Matter of fact he gave it to me yesterday.....and it was still gooooooood. I have been lucky that the men I started with are still around to give me a little bit of pleasure now and again. Love and hate the forums but am addicted. However when my member ship is gone I think I will follow it. For a while, we all need a break from it now and again. Plus my mate and partner in crime here is no longer on and I miss bouncing of her posts. I have made a huge bunch of women friends, and I think this house has become the RHP womens coffee club. Poor hubby , he is always blushing I can tell by the red ears. I have also learnt so much about men and grown to actually like men a lot. The men of RHP have been very kind to me. so that's a thank you from me

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cleopatrababe

11 years ago

The difference it has made to my life cant be measured to be honest,,, i tried the regular dating sites and found them to be full of dick wits ,, have certainly had my share of them on here as well ,, but in all honesty ive never had a bad experience on here , ive found most of the men to be polite and endearing ,, i love the forums and have learnt a lot about myself from them ,,

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RHP User

11 years ago

Thank you, lovely x

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RHP User

11 years ago

looking for a regular FWB. Nothing has changed there although I feel I am craving it more and more because I have had it up to the eyeballs with looking and trying. I was on another forum on another site so just jumped in head first in here because I enjoy the social interaction and I have made some great friends from on the forum. I must say, which I did not expect, was making friends with a few men that I have both met and not met but don't really have a sexual connection with. I have only been here 6 months but after years on dating sites I have become pretty jaded now and I have lost patience with the whole online dating concept. I hang around because I love the forum and the meet and greets (and I just paid for another 6 months!)

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RHP User

11 years ago

I accidentally stumbled on here with the ex just before being single after married/together for 17 years. Iinitially I had pretty much bugger all success in the sea of guys on here and end up starting to enjoy the prunes and social interactions on here way more than the rejection. So sure enough when you least accept it I found ms araps on vanilla dating of all places who was very much accepting of my RHP forum addiction that I do by myself and kinky side that we explore together. Have been to a number of meets and greets in Sydney, melb and brisvegas and met some awesome people in person. I have my moments when I need to step away from he keyboard for a bit or when RL gets way too busy usually isn't for too long. Enjoying reading everyone's stories :-) Cheers, W. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

How does autocorrect get prunes instead of forums ...... ?? - Posted from rhpmobile

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