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Profile MisMatches

December 10 2010

I know we all at times come across a profile MisMatch and the person just has an appeal. So tge question becomes do we message that person or not. Here is my take on this issue. Firstly the profile is about people that that person wants to have sexy with. It is their preferance. It is not about the people they woud be friends with. Lets face we all have friends who we will not want to have sex with but, are good mates none the less. An Important thing to remeber...Some people have a message setting that puts non matching messages in the trash. So some people will never see yur message. They are not being rude, they are not being snobbie, they just know that all they want is as per their profile. So I say send a message in any case but rember you only get one shot at this. Firstly prove you have read their profile and acknowledge you don't match up. At the very least it proves you can read. Now make the message interesting don't try telling them they are wrong in what they want. If the profile says they only want certain age range you probably have quite a good chance depending on the variance. If its says no smokers and you smoke then you probably don't have much chance of getting that person into your bed. I will often write to people out side of profile requirements and I almost always get a response. Yes I have managed to to convince people that even though I don't match I can still get them into bed. It is all about having class and and taking an effort. You just need to create an interest, Oh have a decent profile as well put plenty of interesting stuff there. Now it is really important just be your self, don't try to be anything more because you can not keep up a pretence. At the very least you might end up with some new friends or buddies and you can never have too many friends. Don't get snotty if you don't get a response try to figure out your mistake and move on.

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RHP User

15 years ago

I love the % aspect of the profiles - you know the one where that profile matches whatI am looking for by x percentage...one of my worst expeiences on here was with someone I supposedly matched by 90% whereas one of my mosr enjoyable meetings was with someone who I supposedly only match by 50%...hahahahaha...I have even for kicks looked at how well I match myself (just view your own profile) and thats at 75%...oh so funny...apparently I'm not even what I am looking for However, when it comes to reading profiles and responding to messages if there is something there that interests me then I will take the messaging a bit further and yes occassionally when they dont look like they would match what I ma after I ahve found either someone with whom I can be friends (yes I havemet some genuinely lovely people on here I consider to friends - and have met them in person a number of times also) and a couple of realy lovely sexual encounters. Got to say I agree with your point about taking rejection kindly...I recently responded to a couple of profiles who I did not feel matched what I wanted to recieve some lovely thankyou for your response and good luck messgaes - now thats dignity. Always make the messages interesting, targeted to your audience and take No nicely. Kisses Focus

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RHP User

15 years ago

Some of my favourite friends from this site have been mismatched profiles that I have contacted or they have contacted me. I like to read the profile and see what interestes me. After a few emails or chats things usually sort themselves out anyway.

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