Pleasure and Pain...

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Most of the time I live in my controlled head which is an extremely busy place.In the past I've done extreme martial arts where I've taken kicks to the head, been bashed and bruised more than most. I once had a karate instructor who would try and break me by striking me bone on bone time and time again. He winced before I did. Also I had another karate instructor who would go to punch me in the face and pull a smidgen from my face. I never blinked or flinched. He thought it would strange. I like pain because it makes me feel my body and gives my head a rest. When did I realise I liked this 19 years of age. Sooooo

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  hi 2B..... well for me.... it really does feel like my sexy relationship with pain has been lifelong. and it was brought out once my eyes were opened to BDSM.... before that it was a feeling that i tried my hardest to suppress.... like many kinky people that dont understand the way they feel. although i didnt learn through experimentation, i learned more from the guidance and training in the BDSM area... mmmm! lol. such wonderful times...the TYPES of pain that i like more than others though... i learned via experimentation.... such as.... piercings... tatts.... and various flogging implements (GOTTA LOVE THAT BELT AND PINK RUBBER WHIP OMFG).... violet wand....  tiger balm and ginger on those soft sensitive places..... all kindsa things.... was i suprised by what i discovered??? NAH!!! not really..... i havnt looked back and just CANT GET EMOUGH!!! lollove jemma

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  My experience has been in the realm of the "simply kinky" and role play more than true D/s or BDSM relationships which I do find fascinating but maybe not for me... so, for me, to feel pain isn't always an essential part of my enjoyment of sex. So it started slow for me, spanking etc and has occasionally turned into more and only with the right partner who must be extremely skilled at what he does. No, I wasn't really surprised that pain could be pleasurable but I was a little surprised that I liked it. I was 27.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hmmmm only about 3 years ago when I met an experienced Dom online.  It wasnt for me..well so I thought, but he was persistent with an amazing power of pursaussion. I relented finally (he chased for a good 6 months) and I agreed to meet ..hoping to make him go away and actually to have a bit of a laugh at the bdsm thing. Um nup failed, he had me bare butt smacked in about 5 mins and stripped naked in about 20, and I didn't see who he was until 3 hours later (blindfolded).   Now as much as I was a confident assertive lassy I was pretty much shy sexually not even some of my previous partners had seen me fully nakey, and it was prob ya run of the mill nilla sex stuff. It was an amazing instant transformation, like finding a new religion or something hehe. It was the very day Miss Honey was born and haven't looked back since. It has been extremely hard to find some one as good as this guy was, but I will keep searching *sighs*.   xxMiss Honeyxx  <

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Fact is that I'm mentally scarred from sex and pain (I won't go into it) and whilst I like to flirt with pain, real pain cuts me open too deeply so I avoid it... It would be nice to flirt on the edge. Where's the edge? I only know when things go too far.     Hugs Gazza

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I'm sorry Gaz, that's awful that that happened to you.   You're spot on Gaz, as always... you (the receiver) can't always tell when things are going too far... endorphins are released during strenuous exercise, excitement, pain and orgasm... and the rush from that can mask exactly how far over the edge you've gone until it's too late....and that's when not even your safe word can save you... you likely won't remember you've got one.    Which is why I mentioned that my partner (the giver) must be extremely skilled at what he does... he's the one in control at that moment and he's the one who MUST know when to stop... otherwise don't do it, I think.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Interesting question this.   I started out as a sub and found initially the attraction was the erotic nature of the whole "encounter" until I found an experienced DOMME who blew my mind in a controlled session of pain and delayed orgasm. The trouble is that truly skilled people like this are hard to find and in the main only work professionally.   Since then I have moved on and I am now attracted more to DOM style.    Just love to train "Pony Girls" soooooo erotic !!!!!

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  Mr_Invisible

  16 years ago

  Personally... I'm not much into painHowever I have a lady friend who loves to recieve itAnd in doing so she gets very excited sexually and emotionallyHer pleasure pleases meSo I'm happy to push her closer and closer to her edge and reap the benefits of her pleasure with my ownBut for me... if she didn't get a kick out of it...I wouldn't so muchBut I do love bondage , forced orgasms , magic wand etcJust a kinky sod sometimes.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  What is a forced orgasm?

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