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Playing home or away ....
July 08 2014
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
We have heard some horror stories of people being stalked and harassed, after meeting with others at their home. For that reason we will never bring anyone to our home to play. Much safer to meet on neutral ground until such time as one knows them well. But even then there is no guarantee that they won't become weirdos should something go wrong and or they feel rejected - Posted from rhpmobile
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JohnAnn2227
11 years ago
We used to be happy playing at home as well as away but now that they kids are at an age where they can get out of bed and there are no more baby gates we can't entertain at home like we used to. For us it is mostly softswing (blowjobs etc) if the kids are upstairs. Last thing I want the kids to see if they walk dowstairs is mummy having a horsie ride on Uncle Stephen while daddy is wrestling Auntie Jenny with no clothes on! Lol!
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RHP User
11 years ago
just our discussion tonight......hotels get pricey...swing clubs are often too expensive for single men, and sometimes a little grubby and time restricted to play.......yet even though we can have a an empty house if required ( free from kids...youngest is 12 can go to his older sisters for the night) ...we still feel weird about playing here due to our friendship with our neighbours and our very open house. More so my hubby than me .....I would much prefer it as It is less expensive, and there are no noise or time restraints ........dilemma for us tonight !
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RHP User
11 years ago
I forgot to add...I often don't want to go to someone else's home in a one on one situation as it feels too much like I would have to play ...I like the option not to if things don't gel. If it is a small party that is different ........or if we know them then of course that is ok.....but for first time meets.....I'd rather a club, my house ( if empty and if hubby agrees) or a bar first.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's always easier to escape an awkward date if you are "away", much more comfortable leaving a pub or club if things dont go to plan, than asking someone to leave your house.. And then they know where you live :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I only play away, not out of fear from stalkers etc but because I live in a small minded town where everyone knows everyone. Basically instead of a 7 step process to connect everyone in this town it is one step. I can't play here without rumours being started and people talking. I don't want that so my search involves people who live about an hour away.
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RHP User
11 years ago
At home, if no children are about, I like that I've got hubby here as well..... Otherwise I have my friends and we meet up at their place...... If it's someone new, hubby and I prefer to meet them at the couples club.
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QLDtwo4fun
11 years ago
We have teenage girls so they come and go without notice, so we prefer clubs or parties for playing. If you plan to meet there and you don't want to play with that couple, hopefully the night is not lost for either couple. Clubs and parties offer a venue where there is a sexy atmosphere with no pressure to play, and safety.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I frequently do not have free time or a free house so I would prefer to visit friends or go to parties rather than meets here. It also helps avoid those few idiots who think it is ok to show up uninvited. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
rather than at home due to a little human around and my father living with me. Its extremely rare to get the house to myself and much easier to get someone to look after my child if something is organised in advance. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I always meet first in a public place, never play on first date. Then... A hotel- I'm happy to pay half and isn't wotif a fantastic thing! Never at my place.
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RHP User
11 years ago
because I have everything at my fingertips, however, I haven't done that for some time as I have teenage kids that come and go and work weird hours and then there is my family who just drop in unannounced and don't even knock. It is largely why I am looking for a FWB instead of one nighters all the time.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Our only option is to play away at clubs or parties as we have family that live with us. We are also not comfortable playing at others homes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
we play away when we can....and almost exclusively when it comes to play with single males..its their place, or not at all....sorts out the singles from the attached to a fairly large degree....
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RHP User
11 years ago
We have only with a couple we trust.. single male never. Be interesting to hear more stories. We have the opportunity to host at home due to my daughter sometimes staying else were. Afraid people might get stalkish. Hotel rooms xan become expensive espeacially in Perth. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Have never had any of the problems discussed. Have had plenty of people over for play dates and all has gone well.
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RHP User
11 years ago
We would never play at home,just would feel so wrong. Hotel room is so much more private.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You pay the hotel bill for them to clean it all up for you all, as I understand it..You do it at home, lot of adventure and the privacy to do so..There's limited privacy to be had in Hotel Elevators around 3a.m..But being sprung in a ThuyssenKrup Lift ...is just plain awkward to say the least...Public Area Activities ~ I'm sure security camera personnel appreciate the display.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think most teams perform better at home but sometimes the atmosphere of playing at a neutral venue can see both teams rise to the occasion. At this time of the year, everyone would like a run of home fixtures heading into the finals Oh .. you didn't mean that ..
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