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Plan B!

April 12 2010

We have busy lives and lots of work and family commitments so can't afford to waist our play time when we finally get the planets aligned to meet people. Unfortunately, some people who appear genuine simply arent and stand us up for a meet. No reasons or even a simple text to say changed our mind. They simply dont show. We generally try and meet 1st and play another day but that's not always possible and so find that meet and play on same date if all click option still gets used! As a result we have had to make sure that there is always a plan B! That is, if they dont show then off to a swingers club we go to salvage our night out for play! We see that being stood up is not a uncommon experience so was wondering if others use a plan B option as a way of not waisting play time? And if so what do you have as a plan B? P.S. To the people who have stood us up the last 2 times we would have blown your minds so your loss not ours as we had a great time with wonderfully real people! Thank you plan B! srfun

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RHP User

16 years ago

We have never been stood up by another couple once concrete plans have been made. Like a rented apartment to play in on a split cost basis. Meeting 1st is not nessary if you like each others profile, talked on the phone. Swapped photos etc. We have had a couple No thanks ....but thats with the coffee club type contacts. and those that want hide their identity And we hadnt committed to play with them anyway. Suppose it goes with that famous....no pressure ....go with flow types...and wait for the click.expect them to cancell, They are telling you that with those comments. We never have a plan B.....No Need Cheers

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RHP User

16 years ago

Seriously it's sooo rude ! If Mr Fit and I both agree to meet a couple we would never cancel unless our Leprechaun died ! Co-ordinating to meet takes so much effort that I'd find no-shows punishable by licking. It's happened a lot to me (actually about 4 times in 6 months) when I play alone, one on one. If it happens as a couple then thats two people pissed off. AS for Plan B... I love the idea ! It's a bit like an interchange bench at a footy match !!! I am a little naughty and have done that with single guys... "next !" but I can't imagine running off to a Swngers club... that's not our thing. I think my Plan B would be Mr Fit... afterall he is bloody good so I'm sure we could use our imagination... xx Ms Fit

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RHP User

16 years ago

We've been stood up a few times - mainly by "single women" .... but we are never unhappy to just have the pleasure of our own company, so we never let it bother us. It has however, put us off arranging first meetings with people who are more than say, 20k's away, which is a shame.

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