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People questioning gender
May 28 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well I think first you should realize you are in fact not the one with the problem ! I think some guys just can't deal with a six pack on a girl , there is a girls at my gym who does body building , now while not really the same thing she gets fairly judged based on her appearance alone . I think a toned female and male body looks f}#king hot together . So if I were you I would just ignore it : )
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey Ninja, I am sorry to hear that these accusations hurt your feelings. I think that is important to realise that a lot of people on here get nasty and offensive when they get rejected. There are a lot of people on here that find online sites like this, just another avenue to meet people, but there are also many that use sites like this because they can't meet people in the big scary face to face world. I think that if the people insulting you by calling you a tranny were trying to get in your pants, then you should be a little worried for them rather than worrying about what they say to you. By the way, I think your pics are fantastic. I am not sure I know anyone else personally, but my favourite part of a sexy woman is their stomach and yours quite simply is amasing! Anyway, I hope you have a little more luck with insults, but more importantly dealing with the fact that is should be their issue, not yours.
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RHP User
15 years ago
You said it. You do not have to prove anything.Just block the morons??????????
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi Ninjaxx,look it is really easy to get hooked up on responding to other people and their comments. Guys especially can be twats. (I am the make half of the couple here). Guys hate rejection in general. Their egos can't handle it very well. So they then attack. Ninjaxx you are hot, very attractive and very sexy. Personally you intrigue me and I would love to know more about you as a person. The comments you are talking about don't mean anything. You have nothing to prove. These people before they contacted you meant nothing to you so why should they mean anything to you now that you have contact? It is a state of mind. I can understand that their comments get to you. We have suffered derogatory comments from people we have rejected, so we do understand. These guys are feeling inadequate within themselves, that is why they attack. If they attack then they are not for you. Block and move on.Your profile has evolved and is very good now. I admire you and how you put yourself out there the way you do. You would be an interesting person to get to know. Unfortunately many guys and a lot of girls would find you threatening as they would not know how to handle being in your company. You are a lot more fitter and mentally disciplined than the average person. You don't follow mainstream society for normality, therefore when you reject a person from such social norms they will attack you. There is more than enough historic precedent for such actions.If you would like to talk more either via email or phone or in person please just send a flirt. M
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RHP User
15 years ago
You look like an athlete... and you should buy a lottery ticket! You obviously dodged more than a couple of bullets giving those guys the flick.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just block themn and delete. BTW you have an excellent profile and I love the polka dot outfit!
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RHP User
15 years ago
People are stupid, they suck, and you're ridiculously hot.xx Sarah
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RHP User
15 years ago
I actually do read and in a couple of languages...and sometimes, even when the profile pictures are a study in a very toned female anatomy. So if there was a critique' or something that might help, here are a few lines out of your profile... | I'm particularly interested queers /thespians/misfits |I'm very committed to my bachelor lifestyle...I also do not have/want/like children. |I'm looking for a lover (of either gender) for friendship and sex but nothing too serious. | You MUST be single. Must be queer friendly | Personally, I can see the humour all the way through that and had a laugh at just how well written and articulate that is...but then again, if it's taken only on face value and considering some of what I have heard are the more Bohemian opening lines to a vaudeville show that got the hook before the curtain opened...it could be confusing? | Just a thought...and I enjoyed the read.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Can't go past all the advice above! I for one would like to be half as toned as you are! Enjoy the good people, ignore the bad!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hello, well all I can say, as a woman, is that there is nothing whatsoever masculine about your body. You obviously spend time working on it and the results speak for themselves, your body (and face) is beautiful. D xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
......firstly let me just say how stunning you are!! I would sell my first born for abs like yours!! ( let's face it....it's coz of the first born that I don't have abs like yours!!!)After reading your profile it was obvious these losers are not reading your entire profile, as it clearly states that you're athletic and that you were a long distance runner and ex ballerina.....Just block and delete these tools, and if you feel they have been particularly horrible, report them as well.....or just TELL EM TO GET STUFFED!!!! ( a la Darryl from The Castle!!!)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well I just checked out your pictures and you look 100% woman to me .. Muscles are hot on chicks maybe your guns are bigger than theirs ????
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RHP User
15 years ago
hey, thanks for the kind reponse :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hello y'all, gosh - I feel so flattered and overwhelmed by the kind things you've all said. I really expected that I'd just get further critique of my appearance! Thank you all :) One clarification I'd like to make though - in response to comments made by "ChasingMidnight". ... The reason my profile says "must be queer friendly" is because I find prejudice towards minority groups completely unacceptable. I have no time for homophobes - just as I have no time for sexists or racists. I have dated women in my life and have always been loosely affiliated with the queer community - it was only last March I rode with Dykes on Bikes at Sydney Mardi Gras. Anyway, I don't think warning off homophobes should raise any questions about my gender!! ChasingMidnight also highlighted the fact that my profile says I didn't like or want children. Should he take this as evidence that I'm not female/feminine? ...I certainly hope not...!!! ...even "reading between the lines" (as he states)...I cannot imagine how my attitude towards procreation should have any bearing on readers assumptions about my gender.... ..did I miss the "Women Must Yearn For Babies" memo? :) ..gosh...I must have been too busy with all my other dreams and aspirations ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I wasn't making a personal commentary at all...in fact if anything just the opposite. I think people in general can take the written word only on it's face value and not look to see either the humour, motivation, aspiration or innovation behind it. I enjoyed what you wrote and how you wrote it...the comments were only a reference to what may be an antagonistic view that many may have regardless of the venue towards any number of groups of individuals that do not slot right in to their own pre-determined boxes and a life lived in narrow scope. | Quoting 'ninjaxxx' I must have been too busy with all my other dreams and aspirations ;) | Got it in one...and I do the same almost to excess. Great one liner from a classic redneck song "If you don't like the way I'm livingwell, just leave this long haired country boy alone". I cut my hair out of conformity a long time ago... | ...but I still have my guitar.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Screw em.. (or not in this case) Let them think what they like, dont make a big deal about it and they will be the ones questioning their own actions. Where if you show that it hurts you, they might strangely mistake it for an affirmation that they are correct. at the end of the day there is the block feature for unwanted contactEven Ive been on a Mardi Gras float.. showing support for friends can be fun, dosent mean I want to lay down with a man, but I can respect a friend Ive known for years and support him.
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RHP User
15 years ago
It's good to know you do respond to messages Jaxx, I'm still waiting for my response. I never thought of you as a male until you brought it up, and I still don't. There must be a lot of old bi-focul men on here. It's quite obvious you are a sensationally hot female. Can you please respond to me now??????
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RHP User
15 years ago
You are one serious pice of eye candy! Calling you a tranny because you turned them down, lame. When I get around to sending you a flirt and you turn me down I will respond with only a sigh(maby some tears as well). Does make you wonder what they say when trannies turn them down too?
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