Oral Joy

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Heya Miss SweetiexxxMaybe he never has felt confident in what he was doing and thought best not to" go there" and possibly you'd pick his inexperience/lack of skill.I'd never have dumped a playmate, as it stands I have to feel quite comfortable with somebody before they can go south and make like an explorer discovering a new land!It's an ultra personal thing as far as Im concerned.Wonders does your friend reciprocate the "You go down on me I go down on you"....and if its a "ladies first".."NO i insist you go first" kinda thing lol...As long as you had a great time with this guy I don't think Id be pushing a "WT?" unless you are still seeing him now..xxxx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  It's not something I would worry about initially, as like you said, it can be a bit of a dance...and the first couple of times hooking up can be a little awkward...trying to feel each other out...etc...However, if things progress, it would definitely be something I would be bringing up. And don't get me wrong, I think I'm one of the rare guys around that is honest enough to say receiving head doesn't actually do much for me. It feels fine...good even, but doesn't arouse me nearly as much as actual sex...or even giving head. It's purely a foreplay tool for me. HOWEVER, it is a part of sex that should still be enjoyed for my mind, so I would still pursue it...Dumping someone because they don't participate in a sexual act you enjoy may seem a little extreme, but at the end of the day, sex is a major part of ANY relationship. And you might as well try and find someone who shares your same sexual enjoyments, and blows your mind in all aspects of it.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  There's nothing wrong with oral on the first date not a deal breaker, either giving or receiving. I love making a woman cum with my tongue and great head is fabulous. It HAS to be part of the program

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'Saturn65' Heya Miss SweetiexxxMaybe he never has felt confident in what he was doing and thought best not to" go there" and possibly you'd pick his inexperience/lack of skill.I'd never have dumped a playmate, as it stands I have to feel quite comfortable with somebody before they can go south and make like an explorer discovering a new land!It's an ultra personal thing as far as Im concerned.Wonders does your friend reciprocate the "You go down on me I go down on you"....and if its a "ladies first".."NO i insist you go first" kinda thing lol...As long as you had a great time with this guy I don't think Id be pushing a "WT?" unless you are still seeing him now..xxxx We agree with you Saturn65, the guys allways give the ladies oral first, plus no oral no sex. One on one may be different we are refering two couples. Too often guys have recieved oral moved onto sex and the lady misses out! Its one of our rules ...LOL Dont come to our bedroom if you think too yuckie for oral.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Cant understand not wanting too myself.Especially if the guy likes or expects it to be reciprocated.I thinks it just the most natural thing and an essential part of foreplay or in some case to end play for a lot of women.Having said that at least one woman I know doesn't like it.....Anyway happy to turn my talented tongue your way Saturn it's what tickles your fancy (pardon the pun) lol

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  15 years ago

  I wouldnt dump him. I love oral sex both giving and recieving but it is only part of the package. There are other aspects that are just as, if not more important and many many more ways of acheiving orgasm anyway.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Well I wouldn't dump him. If I were you I would ask him about it. Maybe he's not confident, or maybe he has a hangup giving oral, or maybe many reasons. Best to ask what he thinks, maybe all he needs to know is its okay to go down on you.I know the 1st time I did it I asked if it was okay first and then after getting the green light went for it. A bit of fumbling later and eventually finding the right bits to stimulate got her going.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Stop giving him head!

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  15 years ago

  for me it is very simple....if he didn't find me delectable enough to want to explore, tease and pleasure me with his tongue, his lips.....he's history..... we are realtively selective about who we share our bodies with (not being stuck up, just honest)...so if someone got thru our front door and into our bedroom, it's because i (we) do find that person sexy, alluring, and desirable....for oral as well as intercourse... so if a man didnt feel the same way about me....what is he doing there at the first place?

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  15 years ago

  Thanks for your comments. . The response to my text to him asking why he never did it was simply, "that's a good question" ! To which I replied, "I'm looking forward to the answer" !! So far there's been no answer, even in direct conversation and while I'm curious I also think I should just forget about it, leave him alone as it's not an ongoing relationship. . Re my friend. The funny thing is that she will ONLY recieve... she refuses to give oral !!! She believes it's "unhealthy" blah blah. That woman has some weird ideas !!! . I'm a big believer in... Do unto others what you want done unto yourself !! . Hugs, Saturn

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  15 years ago

  I like analogies and this topic reminded me of watching a comedienne hit the stage...the best ones seem to be those that just walk out there with no script and interact with the audience or run with whatever hits them at the time. | I don't think I would ever meet a playmate for the first time with a script in hand or a pre-printed checklist....in fact had to laugh thinking about sitting there naked next to someone at the end of the evening watching them fill in scorecard for the game and ask how we did? Damn, only a 65% overall so can I take the test again or did I just flunk out permanently? Hey I did get five gold stars next to oral and paid attention to you and what you wanted...are there any bonus points for that? Wait, you gave yourself extra points for screaming so damn loud I won't be able to hear for a few days...let's deduct those even though you really liked it, deal? | Just rambling and being a bit cheeky...but if I am experiencing anyone for the first time I would prefer not to go in with an agenda and delighted to find and explore the unknown that comes with each person uniquely as an individual. Already noted, the differences in the comments from the women here...and think we all may have our preferences as to how or when things are introduced and what fires the rockets one time might not be the exact same the next. Too there are those "special treats" that we may reserve for those that are a bit more special than others for later on. | I really couldn't imagine not wanting or actually including oral with a playmate...I simply like that feeling I get when something makes her feel that good, but always at a time when we are both ready and within that comfort zone that we can only learn about as we share the experience and communicate. | Okay so short form Ms S...if this guy had a shot at playing in your ballpark and never quite got around to going down on you, dump him. There are some things... | ...for which there is no forgiveness. | | If filet mignon and Veuve Clicquot are on offer and you don't go there...go home!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Miss_Saturn Send her my way. I love giving women oral and can't get enough of it. she and you can if you would sit on my face all night.

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