M40
Open marriage
January 05 2020
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FredAndGinger2
6 years ago
This is a joke right? Your profile is empty and will get zero attention for anybody.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Maybe a meet and greet run by RHP social a Redheaven event or a Monthly mingle at OSS.Once people see you are real together they will be more understandable and approachable.You also have no picture up either.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Maybe fill out your profile fully too.Too many Ask me blanks for me to even consider looking at your profile.Make sure you are verified and sometimes getting your other half to talk to the lady to say its ok might help too.
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Lacklustre is an understatement. Use your profile to explain your situation up front would be the best start.
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rick181au
6 years ago
Women hold all the Ace's in that situation.That's why swinging as a couple is the way to go.My 2 cents worth.
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RHP User
6 years ago
It's a gender issues. Generally, women don't like attached men and despise men cheating on their wife and that's how they will potentially feel even if you explain your open relationship (because they will always wonder if it's true and if your partner is OK with that). Also the market favours the women wanting sex as there are way more men available than women. These 2 things means the competition is really harsh. I haven't seen any photo of you but be sure that you'll have better chances with women if you go to the gym and build up your body. Also you'll have to consider if you want to be upfront with your situation or not. In the end your potential sexual partner don't have to know you're with someone else if you mention you're strictly after casual fun and nothing serious. Or you know, you could become a bit adventurous and try it with other men. That will solve all your issues. Good luck and have fun!
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RHP User
6 years ago
Yes i know anniewhichway i used to have a full profile on explaining everything didnt do much good. Just made this one to basically to ask the question on this forum tis all.
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
Hope you fishing skills are better than you pick up skills ,try adding some sort of bait ,can’t catch anything with an empty hook except at the trout farm or brothel Mr b
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Verypicky
6 years ago
Lol Go as a couple and play as a couple. Naturally you as a married man isn't going to get a lady, as they dont want to be home wreckers. Well thats most women. But on the other side your wife will get banged over and over , because guys just want to have sex with married women its like a trophy for them. To say I fuck the dude's wife and i sent her home satisfied. Also in a open relationship women know they are going To get more action then a guy, but they let the guy think it's there idea ,🤣😏
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RHP User
6 years ago
Ok.... So you’re upfront and honest....kudos. But you’re feeling frustrated clearly as to why that when you’re open and honest about it it still doesn’t get you anywhere.. Your expectations I think require adjustment.... Being open and honest is within your control....other people’s acceptance of it is not...Don’t sweat it....their unwillingness to engage is about them not you... But.... I have no idea why you’d feel a need to make a profile separate to your couples profile or other singular profile just to pose a question in here...it’s weird as fuck and doesn’t really align in my view with someone who is open and honest....you don’t owe me or anyone else a justification for it, I’m merely making an observation.... Mr dragon
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Sawadee
6 years ago
Last year ' either through my business or the local shopping centres ' l meet 4 separate women who all showed interest yet all amounted to zilch. 2 of those women came out and told me they would like to get to know me better.. Of the 4 , 2 were married , 1 got married, and the other was single , but the daughter of one of my best clients.. Long story short.. I'm always up front and never hide the fact that I'm attached but in a open relationship.. But that means bugga all .. If a man says he's attached , that instantly makes him damaged goods to be avoided.. But l know for a fact ' if i were a woman in the same senario no such problem... Life definately aint fair when it comes to gender and open marriages.. And you wonder why some men get tempted to bend the truth...
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wildcrazyloving
6 years ago
I have met one guy from here in a similar situation. I was intially hestitant about passion being restricted, as part of their understandable loyalty to their commitment. This person put alot of effort into their profile and stood out above the majority. He made feel special and to this day we are still friends.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Sawadee.... I think you’ve highlighted a moral strength difference not a gender one. Mr dragon...
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