RHP

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Older Women

November 24 2013

I'm a young guy who is very inexperienced and new to this whole scene so I'm sure you can understand that I might get nervous around females my age when it comes to the bedroom. That is why I'm on this site, to meet an older woman and learn a thing or two. My question is, are there actually any older women here (or anywhere) who are actually interested in men as young as myself? or have i just bought into the Hollywood idea that all older women are after that "young athletic body".

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    sits n watches

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Here is a lovely young guy asking a genuine question, and surprise surprise, we get the ole "Popcorn" comment again. OP, personally I am not interested in men as young as yourself, but I'm sure there are some older women out there who would be very happy to spend some time with you. Best of luck and have fun on your journey! L

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Of "woman" are you looking for James, and what is it you seek from her? I'm certain there will be older females here somewhere (*eyeroll*) who are prepared to use you in the ways that (it seems) you're hoping for. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Oh James James James. There are plenty. The question is how much older are you thinking and what sort of woman are you after? Put a little more info in your profile and I'm sure plenty will be keen to show you the ropes! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It is not a myth exactly,but you are VERY young...a woman in her mid twenties to early thirties maybe interested...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My fwb is 14 years younger than me and for me it all comes down to the level of maturity of the person. Age for us doesn't come into it, as long as the person is open, honest and respectful. Good luck with your search. Ms NC2147 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Not sure how easy they are to find but there are definitely women who enjoy teaching a young man. Absolutely. My advice is to contribute to the forums and hang out in the chat rooms and get known... And one day an older woman may contact you. :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    By the way I am very pleased you haven't used the term cougar or milf, and you do come across (so far) as respectful. A big plus.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' sits n watches The old adage hey...I wish I was your age and could do this shit all over again n again n again n again n.......... it just might happen young bloke...good luck!

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    I thought DG had the young feller under his wing mado

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    I think you did very well with the post and yes as Meeka said; didn't refer to us as Cougars or MILF's. Your profile could use a little "fleshing out" with a bit more about yourself and what you're seeking, maybe cut and paste this topic into it. Remove the NSA bit I think as most read that as No Satisfaction Assured and maybe add that your are seeking that classy, elusive older Woman who'll take the time to show you how to appreciate and be appreciated. Maybe a nice face pic too? Your body in profile picture is fine but it's always nicer to see a cheeky genuine smile so you can see the person not the body. Good luck on your journey of discovery. Kindest regards, Indagine - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    woopsie! to meeks and ingadine: now i feel bad, excuse my lack of better understanding but sure didnt mean to come accross as disrespectful to the older women! i hear it over and over radio the term cougar and even milf (i was told by the aussie people when i first came to aus that it just means a hot older woman! wow! haha now i know not to use them ( maybe jut behind your backs) lol kidding :P my apologies - Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Is ok Lil Miss, yes the words do basically mean that BUT they get bandied around too much as a generalisation that some Ladies find ...... disrespectful. As for the age statement it must be nice to still have youth, enthusiasm and a good set of norks. Would I trade what I am for that, nope. My age is but a number; much like my weight, dress and shoe size which as you grow up will learn to appreciate. As for the comment about biting Mes back.... Lol you're either very brave or just very unwittingly enthusiastic (like a puppy)? And DON'T take on Meeka's Dildo, that thing has a mind and personality all it's own!! I prefer you didn't say anything behind anyone's back and just say it upfront. You'll find life alot easier. The kiddies table awaits you in Sydney, with a jug of raspberry lemonade and a bowl of cheezels. Xie xie for the attempted platitude young Lady. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • precious142

    precious142

    12 years ago

    I'm 'specting that DG and knots will be eating all the popcorn.......and waiting, waiting, waiting..... James - good luck!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Popcorn And a free troll toy - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You are the troll DG.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I don't like either term, but would get particularly annoyed if someone called me a MILF, as I am not and don't have any intention of being anyone's mother (well, not to human babies anyway.....furry / scaly ones I hope to have many of one day )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi James... I'm an older female. 43 years to be exact. I love every minute of that age. For me, 18 is way too young. I would hesitate at a 30 year old guy. I did meet a guy online once when I was 35 and thought he was of a similar age. After we did 'the deed' I found out he was 24. That was even too young for me. I never went back for seconds even though he was damn good 'at it'. I prefer my men older. That's just me. My BF says he thinks that is unusual. I like them in the 40 plus category. You sound like a really sweet guy James. Good luck. xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    With a young youthful body!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    for the responses :) As for updating my profile, its really hard for me and I'm a little tentative because if someone I knew were to see this and recognise me, all of a sudden its on every social network and every man and his dog knows about it which for someone as young as myself, can be a very uncomfortable experience.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Yes James damn FB to HELL!! I hope you find some who'll take you under their wing. You do seem a little wiser than your tender years. ~ Indy - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have a friend who is your age and all he does is ask and so far not many older women say no unless they are married. Times have changed for at one time it was the guys who dropped there pants for a younger girl.LOL

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Just wondering whether you are worried about other people finding out you have a profile in a sex orientated site, or that you are fond of the..... old ducks. (bite me you beautiful ladies) Not having experience with the ladies your age is normal and they are not going to know much more than you. To be honest with you, the most important thing with (in the bedroom) is to spend as much time as those moments allow, to treat the lady like a friend, laugh, tell jokes, tell them that you want to talk openly about some questions to sex. Maybe have a bit of a look at some massage videos/tubes, enough to know you can confidently take control at giving a relaxing and trusting atmosphere. The Hollywood thing, is more towards the idea that a bloke needs to bang the girl for hours, in every position then blow on their face and fuck off. Though I would bet my left nut, that if you take the time to concentrate on becoming a friend to the lady and let the rooting part happen way later, then the sex will be fantastic as you both will be making it happen. Spend enough time looking into each others eyes as you befriend each other and fumble around, You will be the stud with the sex bit, as your friend will be there right with you while you work out how to fit into each other. Nothing wrong with trying for a shot with the older ladies, though without some self confidence as to meet their mind (soul, spirit) in the first place, there is probably not much they would teach you. But hey I am just another bloke and not speaking for all the ladies, Just one Mado, Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Well well well... Hello there James - how are you doing (wink wink) You may want to check out my profile ; P - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    A 19 year old intellect and life experience is best associated with other 19 year olds so common ground can be established. Otherwise it's patience or silence to keep the young on topic and un-distracted.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    He's quite special that Mado of yours isn't he. Well said!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Why give a damn what others think? It's not their sexuality..... It's yours. If you're worried your friends will mock your liking for older women..... get new and more enlightened friends! There is one caveat to that comment though...... don't live a life if experiences that you're not proud of. IE..... You meet an older lady in a bar, and one of your friends happens to see you..... if you're embarrassed to be seen with that lady, you need to ask yourself.... is this really how I want to live my life? Doing things I'm ashamed of other people seeing and knowing... because they don't agree, accept or understand??! The 'sleep at night' or integrity factor should guide your decisions, not your dick. And its no surprise that integrity makes us more attractive to others. 2c DG - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    2c? I make it $1.45 on that spiel

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Touchy subject. No one wants to comment. ......ohhhhh, babe just message the ladies that interest you, see what happens. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    What can I say..... I'm awesome value lol ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Having sex with older women will not teach you anything in terms of having sex with younger women. Unless you are completely in the dark. Two very different species. Some would argue otherwise, but I talk from experience. None the less, probability-wise, I doubt that matters much to you anyway ;).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The butterfly can fly, and is free. The caterpillar is still stuck on the ground.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Dear sweet young thing… for this older woman sex begins in the mind and if someone is just a body (no matter how young and fit) I am definitely not interested.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    i enjoyed reading this forum good luck in your search james I'm sure you will find someone right for you that you bond with well older or same age