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Now For Something Completely Different... Penis...

June 14 2014

LOL... I do have a serious question or opinions to ask for, despite the slightly comical heading... Private Albums... It took me a little while to find out the vastly different things that people (female from my point of view, as they're the only type I get access to). Obviously they're for the images that you don't want, or can't put into the public shots. Some use them for facial photos, as I assume they don't want to be recognized by friends, co-workers, family etc. Others use them for more 'risque' images that reveal certain naughty bits that they'll show to people they're interested in. In the case of men, (apart from those who have their face hidden there for the reasons above), the only real part of a man that can't be seen in public is, of course, the penis, Schlong, old fella, dick, cock, Johnson, Percy and so on. I never give access to my private Album unless I ask the lady first and advise her that it does contain 'Mini Me' (and also some 'Action Ejaculatory shots'). I know a number of ladies don't want to be confronted by a screen full of erect penis, without warning... (and rightly so). At least not until they get to know a bloke... and are impressed by the other relevant factors involved. I have been met with mixed answers when asking if they wish access or advising the content of the Album. Some are VERY keen to say YES YES YES... show me!!! Others... "We'll leave that for now and I'll let you know if I want to take a look. Thank God, I have the presence of mind (and I hope the respect to ask first)... Can I ask the Ladies what they expect or would like to see and at what point are they 'generally' willing to ask for a peek...? You obviously know that men will have a peek at whatever they can manage to convince a lady to show... How different we are, about wanting the same basic thing... (Just an 'aside'.. Is it that you don't want to appear to be too keen and be labeled 'Slutty' or 'Easy'? Or is there a principal involved?). I do know the answer to that after so many years, but some men may not... Thanks. I appreciate your honesty and input...

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You've seen one dick you've seen 'em all, they are all basically the same. I place more importance on being attracted to the face and personality of a man. Even an ugly dick can get the job done yeah?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Prefer to leave it to my imagination and the anticipation of expectation, and yes I don't like showing naughty bit photos of me.....catholic upbringing lol...errrr I mean I don't want to appear to slutty :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Face and personality, first and foremost. There has to be some attraction there. Besides, I can't see the cock shots anyway but if a guy INSISTS on sending me one, I wouldn't say no :P - Posted from rhpmobile

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    12 years ago

    I can't see cock shots because I'm a guest. If you're going to post one though, you should at least get some assistance to work it so you don't end up with the inevitable selfie. Hugs Gazp - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    12 years ago

    It's all about choice for me.... If I want to see a cock pic I will ask! Don't sent me one, without my permission - it's a major turn off. What it does say to me is that you don't know how to treat a woman with the respect and dignity she deserves. And that you are using the wrong head. For me keep it tucked away until I am ready. There is nothing more special than seeing a proud, elegant cock with substance in the flesh. OHHHHHHHHHH and I have seen quite a few of those. *twat tingles* I love a surprise package....Don't worry my eyes will tell you everything you need to know. Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    12 years ago

    Ohhhhh I've seen quite a few of those...Selfies are the worst. Come on guys, if you are going to show it off, women want to see a beautiful, elegant cock in it's full glory! Maybe add a little spice/texture or some accessories like a little bling bling. Cocks with spots, ciggy lighters, cans of coke, deodorant cans, tv remotes, hot dog rolls *the list is endless*, cocks up someones arss and vaginas are boring they are everywhere on here!! Guys use your imagination!! Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I don't like cock shots, and I say so in my profile. I assume that anyone who sends them anyway either hasn't read it or just doesn't care, and it's an instant "no." Good on you for asking first, I'd certainly appreciate the chance to politely decline. As for the selfies: Gents, please Google "Critique my dick pic Tumblr", to see how it is (and isn't!) done.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Cocks with spots, ciggy lighters, cans of coke, deodorant cans, tv remotes, hot dog rolls *the list is endless*, cocks up someones arss and vaginas are boring they are everywhere on here!! And let's not forget the terrible lighting that makes cocks look green, purple, even neapolitan!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Thanks Meander... As I said, I'd never just give access to my 'bits' without asking permission first. I think it's just common courtesy. Maybe that's MY Catholic upbringing... LOL . As for the 'Selfies' comments... Maybe it's an art, or possibly again, that thing called luck... But I did have to do it myself, but fortunately, at least IMO, they turned out pretty well. (Not having anyone to do the honours, I had no choice. When I joined here, I assumed, given the type of site and my not having experienced what's expected or needed, I figured I'd need a shot because I'd be asked for one... Silly me!!! Although I've been asked, on the main, I've found most ladies don't ask and when I ask them if they wish to see, it's about half, half...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'tulips4u' Face and personality, first and foremost. There has to be some attraction there. Besides, I can't see the cock shots anyway but if a guy INSISTS on sending me one, I wouldn't say no :P - Posted from rhpmobile Oh well, it's there if YOU INSIST... LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I never thought about it Openly until I kept reading all the opinions in the forums. I assumed me n he had joined a sex site, not a vanilla site, where I could expect to see R rated pics (ahem and we do have to pay for the privilege of viewing R rated pics). It turned out to be a site where a regular can be wonderfully encouraged and supported by forumites in her desire to be able to post pics of the bruises from her kink, something a lot of people don't want to see either (doesn't bother me, mind you). But God forbid a bloke should post a dick pic. I dunno, I have a fondness for pricks and pussies. Feet you can keep... most of the time. Sukki's profile pic though is haunting. . But like any pic, it's the details that count. . NO dick cheese (shudder). NO dropping the jocks down just far enough so you can take a pic of your old fella backed by skid marks (urk). Gettem orff! :-P NO sitting on the toilet for the shot, I mean really? (ewww). Maybe some people's kink, but not mine. NO faces of random women chawing on that cock, unless if it's your wife and you're on here as a couple... (mmm :-D) NO using stunt cocks! You'll be busted. YES, clean and healthy, good background, looking edible... . A warning that pics are in your pg Openly is considerate. To think, I used to wonder why guy would bother warning me LOL! (There's that upbringing again.) . I haven't read the thread, so I don't know if anyone has asked you how you feel if a woman sends pussy pics. I used to have some in my/our pgs that I would send without a second thought. Hmmm...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I did mention that men most would probably be keen to look at whatever they could convince a lady to show... Given you have a liking and are willing to share... LOL, I know that you're one lady that I wouldn't need to ask if we were in contact.

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    12 years ago

    I agree with you and I don't "warn" people about my pg's. But then I have lots of publicly available pics. I like cock shots and I love cum shots....I don't find unsafe sex shots that cool though. An a cock dripping with pre cum is totally delish! The only thing hotter is two cocks together. I also don't have a problem with pussy shots. It's the individual's choice after all. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Guys, it'd be cool to see a picture of your hard cock... inside a condom, LOL! . Alongside a tape measure is cool too, *giggles*. . YES to safe sex & precum Missb, with the head all bright and shiny, looking like it's about to explode! Mmm... I'm going to have to renew my 'member'ship.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Openly1' I did mention that men most would probably be keen to look at whatever they could convince a lady to show... Given you have a liking and are willing to share... LOL, I know that you're one lady that I wouldn't need to ask if we were in contact. I might have skipped over that bit, hehe, and, . Good one!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MrsPeachySwitch' Guys, it'd be cool to see a picture of your hard cock... inside a condom, LOL! . Alongside a tape measure is cool too, *giggles*. . YES to safe sex & precum Missb, with the head all bright and shiny, looking like it's about to explode! Mmm... I'm going to have to renew my 'member'ship. And alongside a toilet roll so we all know how BIG it is too

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's funny to hear tales of how guys get 'caught up' in that, literally lol. . A bit of trivia... even toilet roll manufacturers cheat these days... making smaller toilet rolls than they used to. Length and width.