M56
No reply from winks
July 04 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Some/most of the girls get so many flirts that they can't keep up. If you're flirting with one of the many girls who is in that category, you probably are wasting your time.
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RHP User
16 years ago
You are obviously very new here or you wouldn't be making this comment. Here's an indicator for you. With the new format it tells me that the reply rate I get from winks is 9%. In other words 1 out of every 11 bothers to reply. What that doesn't tell you is that the reply is normally not favourable anyway but at least they made the effort.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I dont bother to reply to winks if the person dosnt fit my profile, if he cant read then stuff him
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RHP User
16 years ago
while I understand where you are coming from, i now wont reply to winks i recieve, I have got hundreds of winks and at first would reply too all of them, but i found that if i said i wasnt interested a lot of the time would get messages asking why not and some abuse as well, it just took way too much time to deal with so now i just answer the ones i am interested in !
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RHP User
16 years ago
The wink reply rate is fairly meaningless. Mine says my wink reply is 180%... Now, from that it seems I dont reply as often as I should.... but if someone winks at me... and I reply with "Im not a member and can't message you, please send me a message" ... and then they send another flirt.... I might reply again.. or I might not... you can see that the flirt game can go on for ages with limited reward. Maybe sometimes people just think flirts are a waste of time... Personally, I like sending them... not always because Im thinking of hooking up with the recipient.. sometimes I just like what they have to say, or I like the effort they've put into their profile and want to express it... so flirts are useful to a limited extent and really, you shouldn't get all hung up about how people react or fail to react.... think of it like you are fishing.
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RHP User
16 years ago
You have a better chance of a reply if you send her an actual email. Flirts make you appear lazy and uncreative. Even then, dont expect a huge amount to reply to your emails.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am just back on here after about a year away, and to be honest, I don't sometimes find a reply that fits what I really want to say
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with helenishot, I used to reply to everything, but found if they can't be bothered actually reading what we're looking for then why waste time replying ? I've also had guys who I've replied "sorry, don't see our plants colliding" constantly wink at me or message me "why not ?" - same with married guys or guys in a relationship contacting me - not interested
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RHP User
16 years ago
I get heaps of winks from guys I would not even consider talking to if I met them at a club or out shopping, so why would I bother replying here. When I have taken the time to reply and say I'm not interested they take that as a green light to keep messaging. I don't want to block guys from reading my profile so I just ignore the ones that don't interest me and find they generally give up. If you would like some advice on improving your chances then start with writing a decent profile, I never respond to guys who use the auto profile writer like you. And put up a decent photo, I've stated in my profile that I wont respond to guys who don't put up a good photo. And don't waste your time with flirts, they don't mean anything to most of us girls, write a message and at least show that you read our profile. Wish you luck :-)SF
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RHP User
16 years ago
im sorry, i have fallen into that category of not replying to all the winks too, but i get so many that i really try to keep up with the emails more so and winks come 2nd. And i get alot of emails so i try to respond foremost to those who have written quite a bit or actually strike up a convo on what is written on my profile. After you have read a million times omg your hot, it isnt unique. Altho i do try to respond back with a quick thankyou, but the guys who stand out...ones who write a bit and grab my mind and my attention. oh unless ya smoking hot then im gonna contact you back even if you wrote something stupid lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
I definitely fall into the category of not replying to winks, but I have stated clearly in my profile that I have not been able to get through them all and that I will respond to all emails. That still hasn't stopped people sending winks that I'm not going to be able to get round to looking at... *shrug*
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RHP User
16 years ago
Even though you do get 400 flirts a day.... How hard is it to do a batch "No thanks ~ I'll take a raincheck"?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Loverboy. All depends on who sends the wink. If its someone that we clearly are not interested in then not only is there no response.... its a possible BLOCK. This is on our couples profile. The single profile is different but be warned. Its more strict and if we could get hold of transgressers they would be handcuffed to the rack and smaked on the bottom with the wooden spoon. Mostly naughty boys mind you. In the meantime more blocks are applied. That way we never hear from people who cant read ever again. Mars
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