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No Kissing
January 23 2008
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RHP User
18 years ago
kissing is very sensual and its also a very good indicator as to how the other person is reacting towards you. Each to their own I suppose but personally I love it.
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RHP User
18 years ago
I have to agree, if one is going to be intimate with another person, then kissing definately plays an important role. Its all part of the lead up and very erotic. shy
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RHP User
18 years ago
I love kissing as it is an instrumental and integral part of sensual foreplay.....On the other hand, if the other person were a smoker, had bad breath, or looked like Dame Edna Everage it would be a total turn-off for me to even think about putting my tongue in their mouth. From your picture though, I wouldn't mind venturing above, (or below) your bra line. Good topic! Rock xx
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RHP User
18 years ago
Well it's a very personal thing for everyone isn't it. (Speaking personally for a moment) some women I have been with go straight for the kiss and I aint complainin :P I love kissing. A few however are hot for it but will not kiss. I take it might be because they have feelings for someone else and just want "fun" with me. That's fine too. I'll admit, I have turned my head on the odd occassion, for some instinctual reason. I guess at times, the lips and the kiss are connected to the heart only and at other times they seem to be connected directly to my...dick. It changes. But I can safely generalise that kissing is half the fun (for me).
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playfulminx
18 years ago
The odd thing I have noticed is that many guys are OK with kissing during sex but once the deed is done, it's a no go zone. Kinda weird to go from an all-out tonsil hockey session to a peck on the cheek more befitting for Aunty Rose post-sex...
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RHP User
18 years ago
Who says kissing is a part of foreplay?? Are there rules? Is there an instruction manual somewhere I wasn't aware of? And who wrote it anyway?? Why does kissing = intimacy? When, say, a blow job doesn't? And whats wrong with a lack of intimacy anyway? And does it strike anyone else as strange to suggest that a man should pay money for NOT getting something? Lol. I have no problem having sex without kissing at all - I often prefer it that way, depending on the mood. I find it most interesting that so many people seem to have a "formula" for sex in mind. And no, I don't mean that as a criticism of anyone in particular here, before someone gets offended and goes nasty on me... nadi xx
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RHP User
18 years ago
if i am just having a causal or 1 nighter i don't normally kiss, dont want to get intimate with them, just root. I save kissing for pple i care about.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Kissing is not just great during sex... It keeps me going... Nothing seems to get me hornier than kissing. I find that if we keep kissing after, then it brings everything back to life and the rest of the fun continues. If nothing else... it is very nice on its own
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RHP User
18 years ago
kissing is such a turn on---mmm the taste of a woman is so exhilirating:)
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RHP User
18 years ago
WELL ME !! Being a rather sensual and emotionally enlightened individual who is very relaxed within the inner depths of ones self, Kissing to me is extremely important , kissing will magnify your passion , it is kissing when the two energies unite and form a sensual bliss. BUT having said THAT ,,!! There are times when i like to nibble on cookies when having a root , WHICH makes kissing a hassle,,,,or if im smokin a cigar at the time it pissis me ALSO,,!!! "OR" could be during lunch half hour,,!! "ROOT AN RUN " ,,NO TIME ,,"BYE"....... ~~~Hagar the lovely ~~~ Theres corn in them there hills.....................
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RHP User
18 years ago
maybe you should have suggested they buy a RealDoll or something. Kissing, great kissing, is often better than sex!
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RHP User
18 years ago
How else would you start if not with kissing, Its a good lead in. What do you do just throw them on the bed and start. How much fun would that be NOT. C
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RHP User
18 years ago
I can take it either way ... have been with guys who dont even think to kiss, they just want to get straight into it - usually the younger ones and I have been with guys who spend a good deal of time kissing and caressing before going to second base, it doesnt really bother me i have my very kissable man either with me at the time or waiting at home for me to give me all the kissing i desire. I do enjoy it most with some one i care about ...
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RHP User
18 years ago
Hi Viking just out of interest, did you ask why he doesnt kiss? Maybe he's been told he's a lousy kisser and doesnt want to disappoint.... just a thought.....
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RHP User
18 years ago
I'm with you Viking, sex without kissing is just not only not desirable but plain ordinary......if that was on offer, I would not be going back for seconds (and, in fact, would struggle with finishing firsts) There is for many of us no pleasure without intimacy and no intimacy without kissing......
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RHP User
18 years ago
Kissing is the ultimate form of intimacy i reckon. When 2 ppl r face 2 face with lips locked, that is connectedness! Screwing without kissing is probably an indicator of the lack of real connection between the two ppl. Probably happens in affair situations and some unhappy marriages (like mine). If u wanna chat about it further i'll c u online
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RHP User
18 years ago
there seems to be some confusion with this kissing thing. so here's a list of times when kissing is and is not acceptable. NOT acceptable. politicians should not pash babies within 7 months of an election. League, AFL or Rugby players should only kiss when you have had a come from behind victory (minimal tongue). lesbians should not kiss each other with out the presence of a web cam. if a web cam is present, any tongue is acceptable. IS acceptable; mums and dads should pash with moans and nail scratches (110% tongue and shared drool) once all teenagers in the house hold are old enough to be freaked out by it. you have a size 12-14 mud wrestler over for dinner on a thursday and it is after 2 pm. when W903 has just hauled a 255 tone consist past in early morning mist (for this to work, you need to have an understanding friend of the opposite sex available). when mum visits. (only cheek, less than no tongue).. soccer players may always kiss (bum patting is unacceptable though).. hope this helps
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RHP User
18 years ago
Now, you see Nadi, that's why I like you. You really DO have an open mind. It's one thing to have observed that one has preferences but then to formulate a hard and fast rule from that, in order to feel secure, is a step too far in my mind. After all, preferences change. Mind you, my opinion on that could change at any stage so don't take me too seriously.
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RHP User
18 years ago
the real reason you like nadi is because of her tummy, hipps and boob.. actualy no.. i'm proably wrong about that ... :-P LRE
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RHP User
18 years ago
Nobby. whats with you!?!?!?! I'd go as far as to say that i KNOW you pretty well, in fact prob' BETTER than most people do on here. AND, I just have to say... WHY the HELL do you put your body on the line alla-the-time, esp' to these people that just want to use you and fukk orf, even (apparently) without feeling the need/desire to want to kiss you. FUKKIN HELL, tell the knut to fukk off and NEVER talk to him again...you've been had for just another FUKK (again), why do it to yourself. I KNOW what you want and aspire to in life, and it SURE AS SHIT, isnt that!?!!??! If it was a mood/role play thing then a-ok, but in guessin it wasnt. Get a grip nobbz Oh, this WASNT addresses to alla you other peeps, but I'm SURE you'll all have your comments...bring em on, I wont reply ~~F~~ **It prob WONT get posted, either...BUT it OUGHT to**
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RHP User
18 years ago
Maybe it is a mutitasking issue... can't do two things at once?
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RHP User
18 years ago
Just a thought . . . For some reason kissing does seem to equate to intimacy for many people even though it does strike me as rather odd that a person might be quite content to put their mouth on a persons genitals but finds the mouth too personal. Go figure....
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RHP User
18 years ago
Weve been swinging for 25 years now, initially our rule was no kissing when with other partners, that was a sacred thing with our marriage. Well one day I couldn't help myself, I was getting it off with this guy so much I grabbed his head, pulled him to my mouth and wacked my tongue down his throat. We went for it for hours and boy was it great. Hubby loved the sight and the sex with this guy was so intense I was sore for days lol. Since then all rules went out the window and we realized how much something as simple as a kiss can turn a good night into a great one XXX
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RHP User
18 years ago
"What do you do just throw them on the bed and start. " Well, yes, discfun, that is one option. And a pretty hot one if its done properly, too. Other options include: 1. Talking about something that gets you both hot 2. A strip tease 3. Body language designed to build the erotic tension until you want to jump each other 4. Stroking a leg, neck or other body part 5. A tongue bath 6. A spanking 7. A well-placed vibrating device (on the outside of the clothing first) 8. Taking an ice cube out of your drink and sucking it, then rubbing it on your lovers body 9. Taking some hot photos 10. Watching porn 11. Sexy smsing or phone sex before you meet 12. A horny dare 13. A well-timed compliment with strong eye contact 14. Playing with food or drink 15. Spontaneous (or planned) role play 16. Sharing fantasies 17. Telling someone what you are about to do to them 18. Telling someone what to do to you 19. **zzzzzzip** 20. Nudity or lingerie This could go on for a while.... (And without even getting into the stuff I think is REALLY hot, lol....) Seriously, who wants to have sex that always follows the same formula? The extreme religious, maybe?? Mammalian - thank you :) Glad somebody thinks I'm not insane! Still hope we meet one day... x x (extra kisses for you, lol). nadi xx
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RHP User
18 years ago
There's just not enough love. We eat to satisfy an appetite. Full tummy, happy tummy. But some guys are like salmonella, you just want to run from them. Wouldn't it be nice if the bar of chocolate was everlasting, and not just a packet of Laxettes. Kissing is like consuming each other heart and soul. Not kissing is one step removed from a paper bag over our heads, and I'm sure some guys would prefer their sex that way.
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RHP User
18 years ago
I'm waiting for the sequel now like sub guy!! Viking, did you find out why your partner didn't want to kiss? Depends on the mood I guess, but yes, I'm a subscriber to a passionate kiss being part of foreplay - but I think the reason give would really fire this thread up! Don't leave us in suspense Viking!!! :-)
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RHP User
18 years ago
Sub_guy, Yes I did ask, and though all I got was a head shake, my interpretation was that he either didn't want anything associated with closeness/feelings, or I was seen as just a convienence. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Muriel, Thank you for caring enough to get out your soapbox. As it happens, I didn't get had for another fukk, quite the contrary. He was, in fact, told politely that he should look elsewhere. I know what you are saying, and I appreciate it. Don't worry, some of these grey hairs are starting to impart a little bit of common sense. xxxx Thank you to everyone for having your say, it has been interesting to read what you all think on the subject. Viking
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RHP User
18 years ago
At times, with the women who genuinely love being used as a sex object (not unlike being liberated of ones clothing I imagine) I love to just FUCK FUCK FUCK. And at other times I just love touch, time, building heat slowly, love and kissing like nothing else matters and you're communicating something between you with your softness and alternating speeds and softness and levels of excitement/love/lust. It might lead to more but it's not an issue because kissing this woman is frigging amazing and wet and luscious and she feels so damn good in your arms. And just to confuse things, I did visit a prostitute recently and her passion and kiss were among the most satisfying I have ever experienced. What I'm saying is, you just can't put things in a box because life will always decontstruct the box. And prostitutes are not lesser people. Nor is a moment with a prostitute a lesser experience. In my experience (certainly the women I choose when in the mood) they are among the most liberal, amazing, exciting thinkers I have ever met. For me, visiting a prostitute is not always just because I can't get none elsewhere. It's another choice of experience that is available to me. But I digress. Sorry. :P
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