Nice guys getting a break

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Here we go. Every guy thinks they're a nice guy.. that's the problem right there. I'm no expert in what women think... but you could do with mroe photos than that sexy butt shot.... Can I suggest that you load up some extra pics.... shuffle your profile sttement around a bit so it doesn tlook so pro-forma and then you get on the "What's Hot and What's not" section and rate everyone "hot" and tick the box that says send a flirt to those you rate hot... Now I did that about 15 minutes ago and I must have about 30 flirts back.. people all over my profile like a heat rash... not that it'll do me any good when they rea dhtta t Im married.. but still... it seems to work so far as standing out is concerned! Let's make it our little secret! Hugs Gaz

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Here we go. Every guy thinks they're a nice guy.. that's the problem right there. I'm no expert in what women think... but you could do with mroe photos than that sexy butt shot.... Can I suggest that you load up some extra pics.... shuffle your profile sttement around a bit so it doesn tlook so pro-forma and then you get on the "What's Hot and What's not" section and rate everyone "hot" and tick the box that says send a flirt to those you rate hot... Now I did that about 15 minutes ago and I must have about 30 flirts back.. people all over my profile like a heat rash... not that it'll do me any good when they rea dhtta t Im married.. but still... it seems to work so far as standing out is concerned! Let's make it our little secret! Hugs Gaz

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  ...ahhh... what was I gonna say?... oh, that's right... ... verifying your profile probably won't hurt. ... filling out detail in the 'in my own words' box making a mention of both women and couples is something we like to see. If a guy only mentions women tho he has couples in his seeking preferences, we'll usually pass him over, we think it takes a special guy, that knows what he's getting into, to join a couple for play lol. Hugs MrsP :-D

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Mrs here of course.... Yes there are SOOOOOO many jerks on here that are ruining it for the nice guys! I for one ONLY pursue ones that firstly have VERIFIED themselves, filled in their profile completly (why not have it all out there, because it will be all revealed in the end anyway) also that have pics, at least 2 or 3 public and also have a private gallery WITH FACE PICS and maybe a few more if they want to. That for one shows how serious you really are! The other 'ideal' thing would be a paid member but i know its not possible for everyone to do but it can be a plus because it also shows you are serious! Then the next step would be the way you approach the person you're interested in. A personalized (not a template you send everyone) message stating what you like about them/their profile and what you're looking for (in a polite way) and you hope to hear from them soon. I for one try to answer all messages BUT there are some that are just SO pathetic and rude that i just dont bother since they didnt put in the effort to begin with. To me...thats NOT hard... i'd think majority of people on here who are serious would like pretty much the same sort of thing. I hope that helped!! xx MrsFunCpl77 xx BTW I also have a 'single' profile and i can tell you the messages we get on our couples profile dont even come close to the filth i get on my single one!! xx

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  You could start by writing a decent profile, putting up a couple of good photos and put that awful but shot in your private gallery. If your writing nice guy messages then try a different approach, I get a lot of suck up nice guy messages and none of them stand out. Try being confident and funny, all of us girls like a guy with a GSOH. :-)SF

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  feel free to send the nice, sane guys my way please lol. what does it for me, a guy to get to my mind, i love a guy whos smart, intelligent and sweet yet wild and sexual. but then hey im after friends with benefits. if the women just want a 1 night stand doesnt matter if your a nice guy or not, only if your hot lol. Btw i actually respond first to profiles where the face is showing not the body parts .

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I am not a nice person ... I still like to fuck though.

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