RHP

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Newbies be kind

November 13 2018

Hi all we are new to this and are looking for some guidance/advise for finding what we seek (ffm) (appart from upgrading our acc and pic .in time) Righto would a swingers party be a place for us or not realy ? Or stick to one on one meets (threesom) Could someone maybe paint a quik picture of how the night would play out and the kind of atmosphere at a swingers party Sorry if these are silly questions we want to be as prepaired and comfortable as possible - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Swingers parties could go either way What you are seeking is what a lot of people on here are looking for. Add some more detail on your profile and see if you can attend a few meet and greets perhaps. You may need to upgrade to send messages as well. Good luck

  • sensualcple2play

    sensualcple2play

    7 years ago

    Oh we're all looking for ffm, Hence why it's hard to find. Patience is the key .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Haa the more we read and learn the more we see why yous call them unicorns lol Yep the up grade acc will come for sure Andpatience and taking it slow is cool to Thanx guys n gals xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    How do you prep yourself and build ya courage for a swingers meet /party is it actualy like on a porno lol excuse our ignorance

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Not all of us sweetnsensual 😊

  • totally_normal

    totally_normal

    7 years ago

    Clubs and parties are not usually awash with single females looking to join a couple. When they are there they can be looking for anything from a gangbang, a female on female only encounter or just to hang out and socialise in a sexy environment. I have been told more than once that the best thing about attending a club is that no means no. Unlike a porno or even an ordinary night club making sure you have consent before making a move is a priority. Flirting however is encouraged and consensual sexy play times are the ultimate goal. Exploring what it is you want as a couple from an ffm can help you clarify how you wish to continue your search for the illusive unicorn. You may find a woman to woman approach works best and you may need to do the searching rather than waiting for someone to come to you. It can be useful to look at the information about how to make best use of this site, profile writing etc, and the unwritten rules and guidelines of the swing or non monogamy lifestyle. There are more variations and different ways people approach the threesome foursome or moresome than most people would think. A

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Totaly_ normal thanx for your wisdom that all makes sence,we are slowly stumbling around and finding more helpfull information

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Theres a club near belmont called 380 i think Its a swingers club . Ladies get in cheaper than blokes Maybe a good way to explore