M33
New to this whole experience
June 26 2018
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RHP User
7 years ago
Big turn off, woman are attracted to confidence without the arrogance, just be yourself, be honest and have fun...but some things are better left unsaid..
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Your first approach message needs to be on the money. No second chance much around here. You need to engage the reader that you have read the profile. Finish with a question that might prompt the person to answer in a return message which is then officially a conversation Dont fire off friend requests, nor flirts. Few women answer flirts. Friend requests are usually reserved till you have talked for a while or met. And dont reveal dic pics unless asked Good luck
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RHP User
7 years ago
Don't have high expectations. Be respectful and don't take it personally if someone doesn't reply or says no. That's their choice and they don't owe you anything. Beware of fake profiles too. Not all of the female profiles are women and some of the couple's profiles may just be a guy. Have fun and good luck.
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Just be you not something you're not. And then this, don't expect high expectations. Not even sure what to say to that. Plenty of male profiles using stock or other people's photos. Not just women or couples. Best way to meet like minded people is to pop along to a casual Meet and Greet event and chat to people in a relaxed, no threatening atmosphere without the pressure.
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RHP User
7 years ago
What I meant is if you have expectations of hooking up with everyone you talk with you leave yourself open to being disappointed. I've read plenty of comments in the forums from disappointed people. As for male profiles, I don't look at them so I couldn't say because that is not what I'm here for. But plenty of comments on males posing as something they aren't so I guess that goes for male profiles too. Totally agree with your advice though ☺
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Freaky_Fun' Just be you not something you're not. And then this, don't expect high expectations. Not even sure what to say to that. Plenty of male profiles using stock or other people's photos. Not just women or couples. Best way to meet like minded people is to pop along to a casual Meet and Greet event and chat to people in a relaxed, no threatening atmosphere without the pressure. The OP simply asks for advice on how to have success and I politely tell him to be more confident and not so openly nervous and you have an issue. Yes you may not have an issue with nervousness but I bet a majority of females prefer confidence, and no its not a case of trying to be something you're not its a case of maybe taking on board some free advice to enhance ones overall self esteem for future success. Sometimes it pays not to overthink others opinions when yours aren't exactly sht hot either.
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
"Big turn off, woman are attracted to confidence" Not sure who you asked but none of my friends think it's a turn off either. But arrogance certainly is.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Freaky_Fun' "Big turn off, woman are attracted to confidence" Not sure who you asked but none of my friends think it's a turn off either. But arrogance certainly is. Quoting 'Freaky_Fun' "Big turn off, woman are attracted to confidence" Not sure who you asked but none of my friends think it's a turn off either. But arrogance certainly is. ..i would have had more respect if you straight up just called me arrogant...and nothing I have written is arrogant it was a point of view and free advice for someone to consider...there was nothing derogatory or negative in it...but I guess there's all ways one who has to wave her big stick on here.
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Hottie1
7 years ago
Blue steel, you escalated that very quickly into something very negative a none too polite either ...Freaky has a right to say she doesn’t find something an issue and not have another forumite essentially say her ‘opinions are shit and imply that basically she dominates the forums ...’ yeah, not cool! Like Freaky, I actually don’t mind the slightly nervous type myself. OP, being shy isn’t an issue and Annie has nailed it in terms of approaching people. I’d like to add that our profiles are ‘calling cards’ and the first introduction people get , yours does need a little more effort from you, I think. A clearer photo and some other photos that might show you doing things you like for example, to show case you in a number of ways. How do you enjoy getting to know people? What fun activities do you like? OP, I’m part of a couple and I don’t have access to this feature but I believe there used to be a section for single males and single females to ask other singles advice. If that still exists, tap into that source too and see what other advice men can offer there too. Good luck Mary xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Hottie1' Blue steel, you escalated that very quickly into something very negative a none too polite either ...Freaky has a right to say she doesn’t find something an issue and not have another forumite essentially say her ‘opinions are shit and imply that basically she dominates the forums ...’ yeah, not cool! Like Freaky, I actually don’t mind the slightly nervous type myself. OP, being shy isn’t an issue and Annie has nailed it in terms of approaching people. I’d like to add that our profiles are ‘calling cards’ and the first introduction people get , yours does need a little more effort from you, I think. A clearer photo and some other photos that might show you doing things you like for example, to show case you in a number of ways. How do you enjoy getting to know people? What fun activities do you like? OP, I’m part of a couple and I don’t have access to this feature but I believe there used to be a section for single males and single females to ask other singles advice. If that still exists, tap into that source too and see what other advice men can offer there too. Good luck Mary xx I wont apologise for my original point of view but sorry freaky for maybe getting a little defensive...now lets all move on happy campers!
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
He obviously thinks l give a fuck about him throwing his toys out of the cot. I don't particularly care whether he respects me or not 😂😂
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
your comment was negative or derogatory. Oh that's right l didn't. Unlike your last two but whatever floats your boat. I'm sure the next comment will be just as delightful 😃
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RHP User
7 years ago
😬 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Attend a meet and greet and start chatting to peopleits daunting even for couples but most people are on the same page
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think someone’s corn already errr “popped” 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I spy with my little eye a drama queen beginning with .....F?....
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
About someone disagreeing with you. That's quite funny. Obviously your last comment wasn't posted before l posted mine. But all good I'm happy to play I'm just getting warmed up.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I can feel the sexual tension between you two guys! You so gotta hook up!
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madotara69
7 years ago
We've had guys saying the same thing, very nervous, new to this, can't I have the girl alone, not comfortable with another guy there. never tried this before, it's a first and i'm nervous. You can help yourself by letting some of the head miles fizz out as being a figment of your imagination. It'd be fair to say anyone who stops and says 'hi' are interested in you, anyone interested in you, will want you to simply just be yourself, you are at your best being yourself, no one else can be you, so being a little nervous is ok, as long as you don't let anything that is not you effect your decisions. Then you can manage the nerves for understanding what you know of yourself, be confidant by all you are proud of, principles, are you a kind person, open minded person, do you like to laugh, a playful nature, are you an honest person, loyal, respectful person, are you willing to give without expecting anything in return, do you want to share, do you have good stories to tell, are you adventurous, are you a friendly person, what interests you, ect etc. Like minded souls, smile Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
You know popcorn is very high in fibre. You all must be regular shitters :P As for nervousness. Definitely be honest about that, I don’t have any problems with it. It is all about being authentic. Nothing worse than a guy who pretends he is experienced in the scene than chokes when it comes to performing in front of other people. Happens a lot.
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