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Must we always agree?

January 29 2008

What brings 'pleasure' to an individual is not for any one of us to question. However, if a particular behaviour or act is not to taste, why are we not allowed to express our own view as long as it does not defame or insult anyone? Even though this is a sex site, do we have to condone everything that happens behind closed (or not so closed doors). If you choose to play with scat, fornicate with a dog, stub out cigarettes on a pert buttom or indulge in a gang bang with dwarves then so be it. However, if you are going to declare your interests on a public forum, then you must deal with a cross-section of responses both good and bad. Interesting and often controversial threads should be made up of varying points of views and as such are opportuniuties to expand/explore our very own thoughts. This is what makes for fascinating reading don't you think? Just because we or I may not share your particular penchant does not make a person judgemental, narrowminded or frigid, it merely makes them a product of their own socio-economic and cultural background and just as unique as you are. In closing, do what brings you the pleasure or pain that you seek but do not expect all of us to sit back and nod our head in agreement if it just aint our 'thang'.

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RHP User

18 years ago

Hello Kiss. Well said.. :) You know Kiss.. Your name SHOULD BE wendy. "Wendy darling, whos lips are like the apple in the garden" **chuckles** is it just me, or does it seem.. "I ALWAYS have something to say?" ciao never an easy path taken, never an easy live lived kio

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18 years ago

i think variety is the spice of life. i have written and/or read many threads and shaken my head with disappointment because so many others do not seem to be on the same page as myself or agree with my opinion. its made me go away and think about things and reassess my own opinions. or its made me want to research topics a little more to gather more understanding so i can make up my mind better etc. or its cemented my original thoughts on the topic. it invokes thought. however one thing that does jack me off is the moral police or the rules police. on this website, we dont need police. we need spice and lots of it ;)

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RHP User

18 years ago

I agree wif what yer said kiss kiss.. er..what did you say that i agreed to? :P

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RHP User

18 years ago

I tried to reply to this post. obviuosly to controversial

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RHP User

18 years ago

I'll try again to reply to this post. how the hell did you get that through Swan. I have been far less scathing and got cyber arrested.lol The whole idea of a forum is for people to have the freedom to voice their opinion. Whether others aggree with your point of view is solely an individual choice, as is the reason ( more than likely) for the forum in the first place. (sorry kiss) I think its time we all got out of the pool, dried each other off and had a drink or 2. Who's got a towel? Hey btw the 8 girls who rang me about the sat meet.......I'll get back to ya.

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RHP User

18 years ago

I am all for the interesting and controversial topics.. How else do we get to discover the uniqueness of an indivdiual if we all agree? It is the differences we all have in our way of thinking and beliefs that enables one to open their own mind to an alternative option/opinion...But you have to be willing to explore and question your own ideals..I do get antsy that there seems to be too many people willing to 'knock' someones else's honest opinions/thoughts. How boring would we be if we all agreed on things - sounds like though cloning!! Enjoy life! xxx

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RHP User

18 years ago

or as tim minchin said. "but we have not pissed in the hungry hippos yet??!!" LRE

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RHP User

18 years ago

Kiss, though I have been recently struck off your list of "potentials" for my taste for gang bangs, I happen to agree with you on most things. lol And I'm with you on this too. Nature shows us that a monoculture is not a healthy thing. Voltaire wrote "I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it."

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18 years ago

Mam lol @ the list thing.

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18 years ago

Some things are just so wrong that they make the average person's toes curl in anguish at the very thought. Now if they be bizarre acts, which are of a consensual nature, and safe and sound, then they probably be best kept private or shared with like minded and sympathetic people. Others indulge in more risky activities, where once again consent is essential, and the individual bears the consequences. Bringing any matter into discussion presupposes that the topic is in the readers interest, and that no malice is conveyed. Tact is very important, so avoiding emotive comments that one later regrets, is a basis for avoiding defamation and unwarranted insults. Telling the truth is not always a defense against defamation, particularly if it destroys the esteem of another person in the eyes of others, unless it be a matter of great importance that is in the public interest. Most of us have a thirst for information, and the nature of that depends on one's bent. Stimulating or titillating items are always popular, even if that sometime be catering for the lowest common denominator. We all like to gain something from a conversation, though most want to be entertained, and some even seek an education. Occasionally the topics here are eye openers, many tickle the fancy, whilst others are outright horny. So please continue bringing it on.

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RHP User

18 years ago

I think contrasting views are an integral part of life , we will not learn without them, unfortunately some people perceive an opposing view as threatening , and interact accordingly,But also a lot of people need to feel comfortable when they oppose another's opinion , Then they can remain respectful and not be insulting to others. I find if you really listen hard to what somebody is relaying to you , it can be thought provoking and can at times alter your outlook. ~~~Horrible~~~

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18 years ago

but is kisses list shorter than your's?? and is it possible to have an extra parralell lists?? or even a list at 31 degrees to the alpha list.? when a ship leans over, this is called a list. a 31 degree list is a scary thing. please move to the other side and don your flotation device. thank you for your attension.. LRE

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