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Married men....
April 13 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
why are you talking to married men if you dont want there attention im sure you dont need to come to rhp to talk to a married man too talk about normal things ....maybe your the creature of habit and are drawen to these men then in some kinda way it sends them mixed messages hence there advances ....its simple dont talk to married men on sex sites i certainly dont unless im planning to spend time with his partner aswell .
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think it's a bit unfair to generalise in this area. If a guy is a persistent creep, then he would probably be so, whether he was married, or single.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think it is a bit unfair to generalise in this area. If a guy was a persistent dreep, he would probably be so if he was married, or single. Surely it's more about personailty and sense of values, rather than marital ststuas
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RHP User
16 years ago
Miss Saturn,You certainly deserve a medal of some description for tolerance. You let the first guy send over 40 texts and the second one over 20 before you told them to jam the mobile where the sun won't shine? Shit woman, you need to put your foot down way earlier, you are only encouraging them lol Set yourself a limit! Lets say 5 obnoxious texts within a set time period then swing the stiletto knee length patent leather black boot of yours and kick him fair in the nuts lol Of course a nice quick way to get rid of the persistent married guy who doesn't take a hint is to ever so politely tell him that your next call is going to his home phone lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
It could simply be a symptom of your beauty Ms. Saturn and not a disease amongst married men. My question to you would be that of how or why he had direct contact with you and your daughter in the bath? Would not have just turning the phone off stopped this? I have no doubt that men both married and single may find you attractive and I would not categorize either based on behaviour if encouraged in some manner? Many men would make an idiot of themselves to spend an hour with you. Perhaps the rhetorical question could be simply stated as "why do some men make idiots of themselves and others do not"? If you present yourself as a target....no doubt many an archer would take aim in hopes of hitting the mark.
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RHP User
16 years ago
THEIR WIVES DONT SHAG THEM
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RHP User
16 years ago
Miss Saturn, It is with much dismay that I am reading this post penned by yourself. Never thought you would be guilty of such a generalisation. You have had 2 bad experiences and these men happened to be married.Without the opportuinity to meet them I would say that they fall into a certain type of pyschological profile which leads them to this sort of behaviour. It would be raher rash to say married men RHP or not were more likely to exhibit this type of behaviour than single men. Their age would have course be of relevance as this behaviour is more prevalent in the age group that you would generally more likely in our societyto be married. I cannot at 5.56am be more precise but will get back to you with more information. It is rarely their just being married which is a factor in this type of behaviour. It is there perception of all relationships with women that is a far more important factor. Their previous experiences with women and especially rejection by women.
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RHP User
16 years ago
40 "I want sex" messages in 10 minutes.... surely you must have been replying ... and that provokes encouragement. Any half intelligent person, married or not, wouldn't send so many message if you had not replied. I don't see the correlation about persistance and marriage... oh... Wait!! Hehe Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
You must have patiance of a saint.......or your just to nice...I would not put up with it....... it would have left a sour taste in your mouth.....I do no I have had the married man thing messages MSN and I agree they are more persistant.......but never to that extreme .. And to think you did not see it coming WOW read him wrong didnit you. As we all have at some time...me included... my advice would be ditch them if there married as you dont need that again.... coffee x
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' Miss Saturn,You certainly deserve a medal of some description for tolerance. You let the first guy send over 40 texts and the second one over 20 before you told them to jam the mobile where the sun won't shine? Shit woman, you need to put your foot down way earlier, you are only encouraging them lol Set yourself a limit! Lets say 5 obnoxious texts within a set time period then swing the stiletto knee length patent leather black boot of yours and kick him fair in the nuts lol Of course a nice quick way to get rid of the persistent married guy who doesn't take a hint is to ever so politely tell him that your next call is going to his home phone lol thanks for the laugh Mooka :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think the point Miss Saturn is trying to make about the 40 texts is that she was probably off catering to her daughter's needs instead of listening for some prat to text her continuously. so could not tell him earlier to stick his phone where the sun don't shine. The guys an idiot if he won't take no for an answer. This thought that he could get some action by pleading and cajoling won't work. I had some texting going with a single guy. He wanted me to leave two teenagers at home on their own so he could get some action. When I told him I couldn't do anything with him, he whined "but I'm horny"...like it's my problem and I should fix it. He's only interested because I live 5 minutes away, so it's easy access for him. Where do these guys get off thinking we will drop everything to open our legs and let them relieve themselves??? Common courtesy and respect please!!! It's not just the married guys - in fact I haven't had married guys try anything once I explained my positioning with regards to having sex with them! Good luck with getting rid of them Miss Saturn...hope they're not like the 20-second man, who texted me on and off for weeks after expecting me to give up other men for his twice weekly 20 seconds of fun! xxILTS
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RHP User
16 years ago
Huge statement by Customer 69, I feel much safer on here now. Knowing that Trish has declared all the Married women on here unselfish and and giving, GOOD TIME to be had. Also it is good to know that none of the single or defacto people on here have any self interest such as greed to deal with. Wankers are wankers,you do not have to enter into wedlock to become a wanker, quite clearly.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sounds to me these guys were having a big rush of blood to their brains ..Dont open the door baby when the big bad wolf wants to blow in your house !!
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RHP User
16 years ago
text reply you should say "NO!...and don't ask again!!"and joker?...your post makes no sense at all...and i DID read it twice!...jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
It is quiet simply really, dont give out your number and this should stop all the messages.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Beachside_Joker'Wankers are wankers,you do not have to enter into wedlock to become a wanker, quite clearly. Making a generalisation like this is a little short-sighted in my opinion. Block him, delete him and if your preferences have changed from sleeping with married men, then this should hopefully be the last of it for you. I've had that kind of annoying crap before too , however more often than not, it actually comes from unmarried men who have no clue as to the responsibilities I have as a wife and mother.Perhaps the focus of choosing our playmates should be resting on seeking out someone with character traits such as empathy, respect, maturity and consideration and not on someone's marital status...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wow... such strong opinions people !!! Now that I've put my boxing gloves on, let me jump into the ring.... I LOVE a good fight. Firstly, iluv2smile is 110% correct... I was too busy with my daughter to respond to the messages. In fact I think I sent a total of 4 messages... that's a 10 to 1 reply ratio. I didn't have the phone in the bathroom ! I use my phone for work and to receive my emails so it's always on (I have my own business). And YES I should have a separate phone for PLAY ! I have met some great married men off RHP. As long as I make myself clear that I will not have sex with them I don't believe it's wrong to chat with them on an irregular basis. I chat to LOTS of people I don't have sex with ! That includes single men, married and single women and couples. I always make myself clear. It's not my responsibility to monitor their horniness ! If they overstep the boundary I restate how I feel. My observation is simply that: As there are approximately 10 men to every woman on here men do not stand a great chance of hooking up. If you consider the number of women who will sleep with married men that ratio (I believe) would be AT LEAST 100 men to one woman (expecting that 1 out of 10 women may sleep with married men... of course this is just my made up stat). So... the fact that I even engage in conversation with married men creates a potential mine field for me. I know that and that's why I"m CLEAR and UPFRONT. By suggesting that I warrant such disrespectful behaviour is sad. I once received some inappropriate male attention at work. When I reported the behaviour I was told, "well if you insist on looking so hot then you should expect the attention you get" ! Some of the comments here sound similar ! Let me finish my rant by stating: 1. I think married men will always find it harder to find women to fuck on RHP and will therefore be more persistent than single men; 2. That as long as I am CLEAR about my intention (NO only ever needs to be said ONCE)... then I never deserve to be disrespected. I respect ALL men on RHP. Sure I"m nice, sweet and kind but I'm not going to change !!! Guys...deal with it... you don't have to be a cold-hearted bitch to have fun and great sex ! xx Miss Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
Live and learn what has happened...Don't touch married men unless the wife is there!. Only leads to problems and the single women would end up insulted..frustrated..angry... Never go near married men in a sexual way!. Hence why I would only give stalky a hug!..lol. ooohhh..iluvtosmile...I got just yesterday from a young man on msn who wanted me to leave my child alone and come to his house for 30 mins! WTF!.. And now I got a message this morning from a single older man who offered his mates for MFM! fffss..... These 2 men are from Bunbury..No suprise why I am real careful knowing a local. They do have to be a friend first..and after,.,The guys I know from this site in Bunbury are that! And never call me for a booty call. They call to see how I am if I got time to go to lunch. Miss Saturn..not all married men are jerks...Plenty of single guys out there who are selfish wankers too! My advice...Take all the married men off your msn..block them..and block on your phone. Because they are only using you! Stay safe..And ladies......take your time to get to know the men huggies sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
A horse is a horse and a fuckwit is a fuckwit whether he's married or single. No person male, female, married, single has the right to try and pressure someone into having sex and as for signals, NO means NO in text, verbal, sign language or frigging smoke signals. I used to dance with alot of gay guys at a particular Sydney nightclub because they were my friends and I have no fear or phobia yet one guy decided come hell or high water he was going to have his way with me. After telling him to pissoff 50 times I said I would write "no" on my knuckles and deliver the reply that way.... he persisted.. Some people don't get it until they "get it". In believe Miss_Saturn has every right to befriend anyone she likes regardless of their marital status and she's done the right thing making clear the parameters she's prepared to have.. These morons have overstepped the mark not her! Stick to your guns Miss S
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RHP User
16 years ago
Which is probably how they ended up married.I'm a single guy because if a girl is playing hard to get I just say 'fuck that' and move on. I don't play games or try to convince someone to do something.I wish everyone was just fkn honest with what they wanted instead of playing bullshit games. (I'm a little bit frustrated with this)If you don't want to do shit with married guys.. don't talk to married guys you met on a sex site. If you do, they are going to assume that you are open to the idea. Even if you're saying you won't.. they're still gonna think there is a chance while you keep chatting to them. Just say NO and block.
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RHP User
16 years ago
About to go off to my Combat class where I can kick the shit out of the air and get rid of all my frustrations...RHP and sexual. I refuse to play what I regard are rude games. I don't block. I don't ignore. Maybe this is a Miss Saturn's battle against the world of rudeness ? Fuck yes this is a sex site !!! But PLEASE Blashpheme lets not start that debate about whether that means I HAVE to have sex with everyone I talk to !!! Sure there's a potential for sex but it's always about good communication. I'm not blaming the guys for asking. It was their persistence !!! And their rudeness NOT their question ! Off to search for Utopia I go... xx Miss Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
It is sooo true, I think u all should back off!!! on your, judgemental opinions, u guys have No Idea!!! Unless u r a woman on here!!! We get Inandated!!! Then have to deal with the head fuk!!! of being harassed by some!!! In order to get to know a guy u need to communicate!!! so at some point we give mobile number!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
well said Jensta....i agree totally roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
So I sat reading this for a while ............. went through the replies ....... then thought oh Now come on ! Now Saturn I too am a fighter (Boxer) so lets both get in our corners and come out swinging (metaphorically of course). Saturn I am very happily married. I have a profile on here as a single boy (not a man yet I am working on it) and as a couple, with my delightful partner ... Wife ! I have permission from Sarah and do see other gals some form this site. I have to say that while its all fun and I enjoy my time its gotta be just that FUN and enjoyable. If it isn't, I am simply not interested. If someone is not replying to a message text or other. I might follow up with another just in case it was eaten by the ether. It may also be several days between message simply as I realise that people get busy and this is not every thing to everyone. Ie they have other part to thier lives. Hell I play scrabble on a tuesday night and head to my favourite support group on a Thursday ( no particular one just anyone who will "support " me)! lol! As a married guy in a great relationship, if a girl isn't interested I simply walk away ! Not the other way around! This is cream, on top of ice cream , on top of chocolate mud cake!!!! If it gets too hard or stops being fun or sadly "hard work" for either me or my play partner I am no longer interested and walk away! AHHHHHHHH but thats probably just ME ! Not due to my marital status! One of my single gal pals tends to find couples and maried men in those couples much easier to deal with and often almost exclusively deals with them because she finds single men needy and desperate! I hear you NOW that can't be true either!Maybe she is generalising a little... Lord knows I love a generalisation........Men think like this ....... Boys do this because ........ All accountants are boring ..... all used car salesman are sleazy ......... all architects are narcists..... Ridiculous............. isn't it! Its about people not titles..... dare I say Thier profession......... Where they live ..... What they wear.............. The car the drive ..... Married or single.................. HAS NOT A THING TO DO WITH IT! Its all about PEOPLE! Anyway I am off to look for a 5ft 5 brunette with curves , who works in retail, who drives and Audi and lives in Bondi in Sydney , who likes leather ......not on her seats ..... has a cat and like Prada clothes ............. They are the only chick I am dealing with from now on all the rest of you gals are just a little nutty! Brae
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RHP User
16 years ago
after reading Jensta's post i changed my mind. fuck man, you babes DO have it tough.off to by some padding to go play with my daughter. (just made yellow belt)lets see if the karate kid can beat the kickboxer.ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarl from Earls Securitydirty deeds done dirt cheap.aint got no gun. aint got no knife....don't you start no fight.two guns for hire here and i work for food.ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
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Letsgetcrazy09
16 years ago
As usual the topic of married men brings out a lot of debate and opinions. I perfer to not offer one, I have my views and will only discuss these in person. Being really picky here but NoGentleman to quote you "Perhaps the rhetorical question could be simply stated as "why do some men make idiots of themselves and others do not"?" Given you are making a rhetorical question you do not want an answer I assume. It appears that Miss_Saturn was not asking a rhetorical question as she was seeking some answers or input into her question. Ok enough of the english lesson. As to Miss S's "NO", take the hint, have her as a friend. If you want more and you have been told no, leave it alone. I'm sure if something develops and the circumstances change you will be told. Don't be a serial pest. I have lots of women friends, married & single and don't have to bonk them. Miss S, I'm sorry that you have had to go through this, but as Ned Kelly once said, "Such is Life". It takes all sorts in this world, unfortunately some are "ugly"! Hugs Lets
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RHP User
16 years ago
I dont think it is just married men who do this, I have had single guys also text me non stop. I just call them and tell them they have just blown it and I aint going to meet. Saturn, it is true that guys shouldn't expect you to have sex with them cos you are on here, but i really think that by continually talking to them that they will always think that there is a chance of it. I have no hesitation in blocking people who I dont think are suitable. I have a huge block list. It just makes life easier
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have read this article a few times now. Are you serious or just shit stirring. When relating our personal experiences it is very hard to remain objective, this is evidenced by several posts in these forums. ( including my own) The more traumatic the harder it is. Whilst acknowledging this, it still seems you have not taken the time, to step back and evaluate these two individuals and the seperate incidents. You have concluded Quote "It seems to me that married men are more persistent than single men and more prone to stalking type behaviour" Rest assured this does not count as "stalking type behaviour". Stalking can be defined as the willful, malicious, and repeated following or harassing of another person that threatens his or her safety (Meloy JR, Gothard S: Demographic and clinical comparison of obsessional followers and offenders with mental disorders. Am J Psychiatry ) If they have indeed been stalking you, I would hope you have taken out restraining orders or at the very least contacted the local police. 65% of stalkers are usually single or seperated, in their early 30s or40s, 66% know their target and 80% suffer from a mental or personality disorder. Most stalkers don't have any relationships outside the one they are trying to re-estabilsh. (Dr Shanaugh Foy: Profiling the stalker) What you experienced with both these men I consider to be disgusting. Their behaviour does show signs of them being obsessional and they could possibly, both be narcissistic personalities. These men were persisitent in both incidents. Two men, two incidents does not to my way of thinking seem worthy of a topic suggesting married men are more likely to exhibit the traits of these two men. (RHP members or not). It is beyond me why men, or women for that matter,would behave in the manner of these two men. Don't put the rest of us, married men on this site, in the same category as these two reprobates.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorry Miss Saturn - I'd had 4 beers and thought I was texting Stalky... Let's just put it down to a misunderstanding...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mate, You remember that time when I said " ring me"? I now realise you needed one more beer. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
to medicate everyone's growing angst with your "special" brand of humour! Classic!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Mate, You remember that time when I said " ring me"? I now realise you needed one more beer. :p Hugs Stalky Haha - I was confused because there wasn't a phone in sight... lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Now_or_never' If they have indeed been stalking you, I would hope you have taken out restraining orders or at the very least contacted the local police. Good Idea N-O-N - Maybe RHP should have both "BLOCK" and "RESTRAINING ORDER" buttons.Saturn - Your stats are probably right? Pity how a few spoil the experience for the rest.RegardsMr. SR
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RHP User
16 years ago
To be able to come over to your place and being married he must have had a free night from the wife and therefore would be trying as hard as he could to take advantage. So the answer would be yes married men are probably more prone to being insistant in this situation. I would hope though that it is a minority as the rest of us try not to overstep the boundries. In general there are probably quite a few rude people on this site (example - people who do not bother responding to say no not intrested thanks, if that is the case). I consider this sort of thing common courtesy as I would also consider pulling your head in and not text stalking a women to be common courtesy. If the said male happens to be reading this forum as he probably would be if he accesses your profile then I have this to say to him.............................. " your a dick mate leave her alone" Saturn, Most phones have call barring on them now. I understand the need to trust people with information and your phone number otherwise no one would get anywhere on this site, so if you get another knob like this then block him.
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RHP User
15 years ago
unfortunantly there are some assholes out there who dont understand that no means NO.good on ya for tellin them to stick it. i agree with seductionrules with the restraining rder button
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RHP User
15 years ago
I realise that I'm very late to this topic, but it seems to be current again.There is a good reason why married men are likely to be the stalker types - for the purposes of staying under the radar with their wife, they need to keep their focus narrow. It's safer for them to concentrate their efforts on one woman than to spread it out over many, as each woman represents a potential leak back to their wife.That said, I think the generalisation is probably wrong in some regards too. If the men that you cited left their wives and suddenly found themselves single, I don't expect that they'd magically become less stalky. (Not you, stalky - "stalkerish" just didn't seem like a real word. In the "you sense", they could stand to become more stalky, from what I gather...)
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RHP User
15 years ago
ok I fess up to being sick of married men too they just hit on a bloke all the time but then again so do the single ones I mean WTF ,,,,,,,,,,, ,so it isnt just the ladies got to complain Andy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Wow, what a surprise to see myself resurrected.... once in cyber space, always in cyber space ! Surely guys we can think of some new topics ? All rather boring this end of the universe. Cheers, Sat
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RHP User
15 years ago
You should get another phone like my friend has!!!! 1, Is for her friends and family... 2, Is for this site where people can contact her... Some men not all can be the stalky type. Hugs & Kisses Kittycat xxxxxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Wow!!!!!!!! Feel better you got that of your chest???? Has it happened to you???? Kitty
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RHP User
15 years ago
ooch buddy that hurts NOT have you ever had someone try and throw sticks and stones at you ????? only you didnt realy care they were throwing them ???? well sort of how I feel right now is that ,,,, Not intended as and attack on your post so please yourself on how you take it
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RHP User
15 years ago
That's the way Whitey, heap crap on the competition! Women really love it when you tell them they are wasting their time and making stupid decisions by dating men from a group you believe are unsuitable. You're such an authority on developing and maintaining healthy adult relationships I can't imagine any woman not taking your advice. It's all over you "canniving lying scumbag dogs who cannot commit to a woman,see women as meat and possesions" because Whitey has pointed you out! May as well cancel your subscriptions and bugger off lol..
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RHP User
15 years ago
It's not that funny Pup so stop laughing *smirk*
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RHP User
15 years ago
numbers if you read all the posts from Miss Saturn you would read she has said "she DOESNT have SEX with these married men she just TALKS to them" which is her right...so who the hell are you to tell her who she can and cant talk too i wish you would find a nice women soon...then she can put up with your opinions and you wont throw them at us roxxy...good to see you Miss Saturn, hope all is good xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I get plenty of offers from chicks that appear to 'not mind' rings on fingers.I don't go out of my way to encourage it either.Nor do I really capitalise on the opportunity.So seems chicks are just as bad as the guys really... not that I care, to each their own.If the offer was enticing enough...
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