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Lovers from Afar

September 04 2014

Currently, I really the idea of having both a friend and a lover but without the pressure of living in each other's pocket,as in a long term relationship. It does not mean I would not be in a relationship, regardless of where I meet him. It's just at the moment, personally this seems to suffice, I have a couple of regular FWBs who are great and do understand my time restrictions and vise versa. We have a great time connecting when we are together and would talk about it for days on end. As I do travel for work, and the last few months have seen me travel almost every forthnight for work around Australia and overseas, I have connected with some great guys interstate via the RHP Dateaway Travel planner which leads to further contact via rhp emails, kik (txt and video), texting and phone chats. Fantastic tool to meet men interstate and overseas. This meant that after work hours in a strange city, I get to spend the night in great conversation and sometimes some intimate company with men who I mentally and physically click with. I am grateful that all the men I met on my Aussie work trips have been wonderful and some I still keep in touch with. However, I find that the connection with a couple of men stronger than what I have expected and wanted. Our time spent intimately has certainly been memorable for both that we do still touch base occasionally to remind each other that it was special. It was maybe the beautiful hotel setting I was in, the tease beforehand like spending some great time getting to know each other in a funky bar having just relaxed funny conversations while sipping cocktails and having tapas, and then of course the sensual and passionate intimacy shared as if it was our last. At the end of the meets, I find that I wish they were closer and we would have something more special and connect again. Greedy I know. Lol. I am under no illusion that it could be just the adrenaline-enducing excitement of meeting somebody new and different with men I meet interstate and there is no expectation from me or them that it will not go further than what will happen that night. So when I meet a man I really connect with in my travels and we stay in touch regularly to talk about all sort of things aside from sex (yes even the boring personal stuff lol), does is mean that the travell FB becomes a long distrance FWB? I have done the long distance relationship thing before and it has worked but never heard of a long distance FWB relationship before. A funny concept for me but since I am most likely to trave to their city again, we keep in touch for a repeat performance, hoping it will be as good as the first time. Now, that could be a whole new thread in itself. Lol.

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madotara69

11 years ago

I find that if you dry out a used tea bag and put it in a jar of turps, over the warmer months there becomes a jar full of very good fire lighters. Mado Mado Tara xx

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Tall74nHard9

11 years ago

So what's the problem.....? Tall

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Seachange73

11 years ago

Haha. I know. All these travel can spoil my mojo. So hard to tea up a meet!!! Thank goodness dor the Rhp travel tool. Like the auto pimp of this little flower from the east (melbourne). Lol. Ah the teabag technique. I was wondering what to do with all these teabags I have pocketed from the hotels. Thank you Mado-san. - Posted from rhpmobile

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MissBishere

11 years ago

I don't travel as much as you do for work but I love the travel and meeting the gorgeous sexy men all over Australia.....

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6exxy

11 years ago

Why not FWB long distance? I have experienced this before and it's all about how each of you enjoy the time. You know where it's at and it's not forever but forever in that moment. Smile, laugh love and live it while it's good!

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RHP User

11 years ago

This is an amusing thread already.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

Lily, you seem to have had a lot of free time on your hands this afternoon by the looks of all these new threads. I don't see anything wrong with maintaining the contact over long distance. If the yearning is still there, the contact will continue, if not, it will slowly fade away. It is the beauty of modern communications that we can stay in touch over such distances and have intimate or mundane conversation with our friends all over the country. There are lots of people here who live in other cities whom I message every few days. It is a good form of social lubrication and whets the appetite for the next visit. And you can always flip open your little black book when you come back to town.

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Seachange73

11 years ago

Quoting 'SimpleNeeds2' Lily, you seem to have had a lot of free time on your hands this afternoon by the looks of all these new threads. I don't see anything wrong with maintaining the contact over long distance. If the yearning is still there, the contact will continue, if not, it will slowly fade away. It is the beauty of modern communications that we can stay in touch over such distances and have intimate or mundane conversation with our friends all over the country. There are lots of people here who live in other cities whom I message every few days. It is a good form of social lubrication and whets the appetite for the next visit. And you can always flip open your little black book when you come back to town. submitted posts in the evening and they were not approved and put up in the forum until the afternoon. I wish I had the power to upload when I want to. Lol. Even if I did,but come to think about it, not a good idea. Yikes. Social lubrication - I like that term.... Mind if I steal it? ciao

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