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Love a bit of info about RHP events

March 19 2015

Hey all, new here and wondering if anyone out there can tell me a bit about the events held in Melbourne from Melbourne Swingers. It seems to me most are not directed towards the single male but seeing another post about shed 16 didn't tell me much, hence my asking. Just a guest here and thinking about the upgrade but wish to have a good look at what this site is about (yeah I know it's bleeding obvious). From what I can gather it is the meet and greets that help with making contacts as I have read a few posts on flirts and friend requests being of little use. So any info would be much appreciated. Cheers

Comments

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    11 years ago

    Melb Swingers do cater for single guys at their clubs on nights that single guys are allowed in. Competition can be stiff (lol) as often the guys outnumber the couples 10 to 1 and you are therefore not guaranteed any action, besides some visual, for the money you pay to get in - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Depends Bert. What are you after exactly? Your profile doesn't say. Swingers events are for socializing and meeting people of course, but they are also to get down and fuck (if you are lucky). Or are you after something a bit more long standing like an ongoing FWB situation. Meet & greet nights or other social nights are to meet other people, they are not sex parties. I have been to numerous Sydney drinks and recently attend the last Brisbane drinks where I think 180 people attended. I think Melbourne will be having a Meet & greet night soon.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thank you for the replies. I'll look out for the Melb. meet and greet. Not sure about the swingers parties but who knows. And cheers Meeka. I will update my profile and add a bit more info on what I am after, also have a good think about what it is I am willing to do and what I am not (and everything in between)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Can u go to a swingers club if ur not sure if u wanna play? My partner and I want to check it out but I don't want to feel pressured.. The websites say there's no pressure to have sex but do regular swingers get shitty when people don't and just watch? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    But I have read a few posts on the forums regarding this topic, sorry cannot remember what they were but some have said yes you can and enjoy a chat over a few drinks. Hope someone qualified answers your query bflyrock. Try starting a thread in couples corner and I am sure you will get some great response. Cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'bflyrock' Can u go to a swingers club if ur not sure if u wanna play? My partner and I want to check it out but I don't want to feel pressured.. The websites say there's no pressure to have sex but do regular swingers get shitty when people don't and just watch? - Posted from rhpmobile Yes. You do what ever you feel comfortable doing. There is no obligation do anything at all, you can stay full dressed and just stay in the social area and chat if you want...... or go around and watch other people playing if you want. People go to clubs for all different reasons. If someone asks you to play and you don't want to, you say "No I am okay thanks" Everyone is totally cool with that. But the way, a lot of those regulars like nothing better than having a big crowd watching them perform. Same way you like a group of men watching you masturbate at a porn cinema. Same same.