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Like complaining about FREE beer!?

February 26 2011

OK, so most that have been on this site for any period of time, will have noticed I've been here a while. Mainly, because I like the forums, they are rather amusing, although I have noticed more and more '' Guests '' whining and bitching over and over again, thread after thread about how they get too many messages, people are too rude, blah blah blah... So I thought, I'd like to point out a few things.... It takes all of 5 seconds if you get an abusive message / reply, to do two things a) either stop reading and block the person b) report abuse and block... Simple.... surely after a few lines you realise the message isn't going to be a nice one... so take either of those two forms of action. :) Second point... How many people on here that are guests... aka, don't pay for anything on the site actually come into forums just to whine... I'd say a good 50% on here are just for ego boosts because they don't get as much attention day to day from the opposite sex, so they join sites like this to make themselves feel better.... Now while I'm sure this will ruffle a few feathers, get over it, seriously. You're getting something for free.... Would be like as I said in the title, complaining that the beer you got for free wasn't as good as one you paid for... It's still free!End of rant,Enjoy your stay,Happy hunting :)

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RHP User

15 years ago

So it is, isn't it? (english pls). You're right enough, and I find mild amusement in the dialogue of the distressed/disgruntled contributer to these forums. We are the core of opinion and most likely the "real-est" characters within the site. I've very, very ,very, very rarely met someone on RHP over 10yrs or so. Whatever all the other stuff is about, that's 'not' the Forum, interest's me little. The Forum is of the people, by the people, for the people who are interested in sexuality beyond stumping and masquerading and ego stroking and masturbating and dabblling.... that goes on in this site day after day after day after day...making tomorrow seem like yesterday. 10/10 till we do it again... I'm all done now!

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RHP User

15 years ago

I have just replied to flirt number 8 from someone that does not read his reply flirts. He obviously didn't read my profile or check my status or even find out if he had sent a previous flirt. Guys do this all the time and then complain that nobody replies to them.Same thing with messages from guys that haven't bothered to read the profile. They are sometimes the same people whinging and whining because nobody has replied to them.I am not whining, merely pointing out the facts. But I could be here for a bit of a bitch - after all I am one!! lol.

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RHP User

15 years ago

While I was writing the above comment, the guy in question sent two more flirts. This is an example of why some people complain. He is now blocked because sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind.

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RHP User

15 years ago

It is nice to see that more and more of the ladies here are becoming card carrying members even if it is the basic membership where they can send whatever it is...5 messages per day and see the galleries. I wouldn't paint all women with the same brush. | That said...why would a paying male member not spend the extra few dollars if you are going to pay anyway and get the next step up to I think 20 messages a day and forget the damn flirts. If I like what I see or read...I will take the time to say so and not send some crap flirt that sounds like it was written by the guys that got sacked by Hallmark. As a male here....I do get flirts from non-members and take the time to look, they don't annoy me and in fact I see them as a compliment. | It is interesting to watch these threads though...women going off about too many messages or flirts (too much attention) and guys popping their corks about women not answering (not enough attention) and both sides throwing up topics to get more attention. Enough to make your head spin....isn't it? I am sure there are some that are here just for that reason alone but who cares really...and a bit like being in a cab. If you don't like the ride just tell the driver to pull over and get another cab. | Personally...I have a bit of fun with it all and for me, that's all that counts. Oh...and the free vintage scotch, great sandwichs and the Cohibas. Sometimes I even get lucky and get... | ....the right amount of attention.

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RHP User

15 years ago

It is absolutely necessary to whine and complain at shite beer, whether it's free or not!!! Ha, I get your other point and there's some validity to it. I would rather pay more for a quality beer than be given a truck load of the shite stuff out there.

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RHP User

15 years ago

All i will say is, people who start forums about certain topics or people, need to not be so darn obvious about who they are talking about. I mean seriously. Paid member or not doesn't give anyone the right to judge another, because the people in question could have well and truly paid their dues in the past. And since when did forums become more for the paid member? RHP has always been great in that they welcome guests to their site. Last time i was on rhp i was a guest for about 2-3 weeks before becoming a member for quite a long time. Now im back and been here 4 weeks i have started off as a guest and may not subscribe asap. So your willing to judge me because i'm not paid up again yet? Everyone should be treated equal, guest or paid member because it is the guests who come to visit and will check the forums, then go wow what a lovely bunch of people the way they taklk about guests. And you may drive them away. Btw next time you wish to talk about me come to me. don't start a forum. Actually, on second thoughts i suggest you don't come to me. Surprised this thread was even started by rhp when it is so obvious who it is about and it is nothing but a 2 faced gossiping thread. And with any luck rhp may actually read this forum and then go to the rudeness and arrogance post and find this forum is so obviously a personal attack its pathetic.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Quoting 'Tonyerotic' So it is, isn't it? (english pls). You're right enough, and I find mild amusement in the dialogue of the distressed/disgruntled contributer to these forums. We are the core of opinion and most likely the "real-est" characters within the site. I've very, very ,very, very rarely met someone on RHP over 10yrs or so. Whatever all the other stuff is about, that's 'not' the Forum, interest's me little. The Forum is of the people, by the people, for the people who are interested in sexuality beyond stumping and masquerading and ego stroking and masturbating and dabblling.... that goes on in this site day after day after day after day...making tomorrow seem like yesterday. 10/10 till we do it again... I'm all done now! I think you might be talking about the chat room???? xxx

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RHP User

15 years ago

I pay for membership. I do this because if I want to contact someone I dont wish to wait another week for my one free message and I understand that guys dont even get that. Yes there are many on here who love to whinge about how many messages and flirts they get and how they cannot answer them all, yada, yada, yada. Even at my advanced age, I tend to get just as many flirts and messages as the younger girls do. I find the time to answer them all.....at least once or twice. I rarely get abused and I do turn up for meetings when arranged. It also amazes me the number of people who post forum topics that are blatantly "look at my profile" questions. Personally I think that if they cannot be bothered to pay, maybe some of thier activities...like posting on the forums should be restricted. Yes let them read them by all means but in life, it is rare that anything comes without strings.....of some kind. Time to pay the piper.

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RHP User

15 years ago

I don't pay for membership as a single girl but I do with my couples profile. Call me old fashion but it is the same in real life, if I meet a guy or couple for the first time I don;t pay for the first round of drinks, I see membership on here the same. But to post in the forum is a whole different kettle of fish - there are millions of forum all over the internet and most in fact almost all don;t ask for paid membership to post in them, this should be the same.

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RHP User

15 years ago

See I was right.....Men do get Pre-Monstral too . . . Hands Insomnian the chocky.....aaawwwww come here and let me give you a hummm......NO HUG....I meant HUG !!! . .seriously

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RHP User

15 years ago

I dont think I am obtuse at all. Any reference to you, by the OP must have gone clean over my head.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Quoting 'fionabee'I dont think I am obtuse at all. Any reference to you, by the OP must have gone clean over my head. Mine too!! xFunlovingx

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RHP User

15 years ago

Only a single male would whinge about the things you mention... Maybe it's because you have never been in the shoes of someone who repeatily receive nuisance messages and flirts.. as we have. At the beginning we were always doing the right thing by replying to everyone who messaged us. But in the end it gradually wore us down to the point of frustration and thats what you get to read when someone finally has had enough and complains... If some of you guys start to string a few decent words together instead of " here I am baby I'm the rooting machine you been waiting for " maybe you might just get somewhere. sadly' thats the truth....

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RHP User

15 years ago

mmmmmmmfree beer

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RHP User

15 years ago

Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'fionabee'I dont think I am obtuse at all. Any reference to you, by the OP must have gone clean over my head. Mine too!! xFunlovingx went over our heads too roxxy and Focus

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