M46
Life partner
June 24 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
Two years and still counting. As with all websites you meet all sorts of people but you just never know where or when the perfect partner for you will turn up. Don't expected it here but wouldn't it be fantastic if you found it here. Sometimes our sexuality, particularly if a little different can be a difficult one to bring into a vanilla relationship - this website allows an open and honest start in that area at least - keep it real. I hope you find what you are looking for.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I hope to one day though not in a rush, and this is the only place I'd consider entering into a long term thing. The relationship would have to be open, the guy would have to appreciate me for who I am and not want to change me, and the sexual part would have to be full on, together, apart, whatever, that would be the first step. But I do hope to give my heart to someone one day. Nice topic
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RHP User
9 years ago
can I just say op, you're still as hot as fuck why aren't you closer
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RHP User
9 years ago
This is a SEX site and all on here are NOT someone you'd take home to meet MUM. Geezes lad, what the hell are you thinking... 😉😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Call it a sex site, and tell you to go to eharmony if you are looking for love. However, what about the people perhaps looking for a long term swinging, open, fetish or kink friendly relationship? Sex and intimacy in all it's forms, is one of the most important factors in a relationship, so considering the openness about it here, it is probably preferrable to find a partner here, rather than "vanilla" sites where adult/sexual interests are rarely mentioned up front (and avoids the potentially awkward conversation after a few dates). Check out a recent similar topic: http://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Has-anyone-met-used-this-site-to-find-long-term-relationship-or-marriage-51793
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RHP User
9 years ago
5 years and counting but neither of us are dead yet so can't say life partner just yet.
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
We have met a few nice people, on here, that we have become good friends with and see on a regular basis.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes - 7 years and still going strong! Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Nicely said Country_touch! 😉 Not everyone is looking to put a ring on their finger or for a baby daddy...does that leave me out of the running to be able to possibly meet someone that is my equal somewhere...even on this "sex site". I think not. I stay open to possibilities, life has shown me that it's not is a never, it maybe just hasn't happened yet. I have tried on conventionality and it doesn't suit me, I either failed at it or was miserable, sometimes both. So I have embraced my unconventional life and believe I can share that same idea with other company. Intimacy is the thing I crave the most, which isn't easy to find on here, given the restraints on it to function well within these walls, but it's also how I will know it when I see it, more so feel it. I'm not religious by any means but I do get a spiritual kick out of the saying "you want to make God laugh....go ahead, tell him your plans...". Sounds like you know what you are seeking OP, this site can be whatever you determine or scone it to be for you, stay open and you may very well be rewarded!
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RHP User
9 years ago
*"scone" it to be??? Try "want" it to be!! 😝
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RHP User
9 years ago
I laugh at those calling this a sex site. Often they're the demanding types who are being frequently rejected as a result of their expectant attitude. Unless you're a sociopath, or woefully selfish, the concept of "no strings" doesn't exist. Why? If the "sex site" sex you had was good enough to want to do again, then that my friends, creates a friendly connection which is a string. And from that, any kind of friendship through to relationship can occur. And good luck to everyone in that respect. DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Inspirit didnt say i was looking for a partner i did however say i was "curious" and gauging the replies to the topic i feel its a personal thing most those replied a open to the idea but not actively looking! Countrytouch and luckypenny7 inspirational words all else thank you kindly for your input I touch myself im thinking a well deserved holiday in the warmer months coming on!! 😉😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
It seems all the hot single older "cougar" ladies live in W.A and i thought i was in the lucky state boy was i wrong lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
ooh I'm excited
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Quoting 'IMYY4U' I touch myself im thinking a well deserved holiday in the warmer months coming on!! 😉😉 Whatever happens, don't let Itouch lead you to her basement. And if trapped, find the closes metal pipe. Tap 2x for SOS.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Neither of us were looking for LTRs at the time but when we met on here, we found a connection and that was it. We're both still on here and looking for other like-minded folks to join us. Like Adelaide3some, not sure if we'll be partners for life but we are still young (😊) and still going strong! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
is what I thought it was but many seem to shorten it to "sex site". It is what you want it to be and you are free to use the site how you want. Any place that you find yourself in the company of like minded people is a good place to find a life partner. Best of luck LG
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RHP User
9 years ago
married them 6 years divorced them Does that count
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'IMYY4U' I touch myself im thinking a well deserved holiday in the warmer months coming on!! 😉😉 Whatever happens, don't let Itouch lead you to her basement. And if trapped, find the closes metal pipe. Tap 2x for SOS. You are naughty, I let them out every so often to eat
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Mooche' married them 6 years divorced them Does that count dunno but your profile pic is smokin' hot
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's a site for lovers of sex or just plain sexy people. In my experience even vanilla sites can be 'a sex site' for some people. I'm with mischievous lad with his assessment of the situation.
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RHP User
9 years ago
.... and the bait was set. Ive read many a debate in here whether RHP is a sex site or an adult dating site. Ive also read comments about how the woman in here are not meet the mummy type...of course all bullshit. I know of several couples who have met on here. Many still together and some not. Mind you these people are all swingers. All I can say, if you're seeking a LTR, don't be closed off to finding such on here. I do however prefer to perceive RHP as predominantly a swingers site, which is what it was intended for some years ago. I do understand it has changed, however it is really marketed as a sexy casual dating site, with apparently, Australia sexiest people on it. Soooo ....... Enjoy and get out of it what you seek. 👄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
But all my selfies come out yellowie, just cant seem to nail lighting and the selfie Not to mention doing my neck/back in.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I found the first paragraph of your post to be very judgemental. Why not just respect peoples choices on how the use/view this site. I don't understand why people get up in arms when some people view this as a sex site. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
have to say I agree with inspirit with how I read your comment DG. For me, this site is predominantly about sex. I have a high sex drive and I'm looking for sex. If anything else strikes me along the way, great, but it's not what I'm here looking for. I desperately want sex. I need it badly and to ridicule people who are here for that reason or view the site/use the site, that way, sounds condescending and narrow minded. I respect other people might do it the other way around to me, I'm happy for them, so why are your feeling so strong about those of us who choose to view it as a sex site? Surely it matters little what tag words are put on the site, it's how it works for all of us that matters, regardless of the way we use it? Just thought your comment sounded a bit agro
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RHP User
9 years ago
For a partner. But here we are. Things happen when we dont expect them to After all the gorgeous guys Ive met....one has blown my mind, Im very very lucky
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LeMerovingien
9 years ago
I can help with the yellow lighting if you're so inclined. I have other uses beyond sending annoying messages :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Perhaps if you take your cover off your phone might help ..
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RHP User
9 years ago
4-0
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've met some awesome people on here. Friends, a lover and a few wankers too 😄 Be open to meeting different people who are looking4 different things and just be honest and up front about what you want. I will say that people do fall in love in the strangest of places.
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'IMYY4U' I touch myself im thinking a well deserved holiday in the warmer months coming on!! 😉😉 Whatever happens, don't let Itouch lead you to her basement. And if trapped, find the closes metal pipe. Tap 2x for SOS. You are naughty, I let them out every so often to eat To eat what, exactly ? Eating pussy, whilst quite enjoyable, doesn't do much for the stomach, and therefore, keeping up the stamina. Tall
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RHP User
9 years ago
Will try this, as its a constant problem that I look like a Coldplay song
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Mooche' married them 6 years ...divorced them Hell I met ex-wife in front of the ice cream section at Coles and still going back... there's just something soooo right about hanging out there in the summer when a beautiful woman walks by in her hot weather gear! I love ...well-packed ice cream cones!
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RHP User
9 years ago
My partner and I met on here 5 years ago purely for some fun. Never met anyone else after him, and now we're recently back on here looking to explore some bi fantasies. Go Red Hot Pie, we love you hahaha
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RHP User
9 years ago
I am naughty, the double meaning was indeed running through my little brain 😇
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' I am naughty, the double meaning was indeed running through my little brain 😇 Sorta thought you might have been thinking along both lines - I've pretty much got a handle on how you think and your sense of humour. Keep it going I Touch - the naughtier, the better. Always up for a good double-entendre. Tall
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's run by each and every individual and the people they actually meet. That is where reality is played out. Most members generally ignore the forums.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Mooche' But all my selfies come out yellowie, just cant seem to nail lighting and the selfie Not to mention doing my neck/back in. i was going to make reference to your 'exposure' now that your picture isn't yellow but your level of exposure is just perfect, not too much, not too little, perfectly sexy and enticing, nice one
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' I am naughty, the double meaning was indeed running through my little brain 😇 Sorta thought you might have been thinking along both lines - I've pretty much got a handle on how you think and your sense of humour. Keep it going I Touch - the naughtier, the better. Always up for a good double-entendre. Tall heads up, think we're being accused of hogging hehe screw it, too bad, just lucky we have an awesome op, he's my favouite original poster, today at least, until a new topic starts tomorrow You're a lot of fun too. Makes it so much nicer in the forum without the, no I won't say that, well it's just nicer
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Softglove' It's run by each and every individual and the people they actually meet. That is where reality is played out. Most members generally ignore the forums. I did respond to this. I have a bad signal here, maybe that was what went wrong. But I was wondering why it bothers you. Your comment seems agro. Any thoughts on that? Due respect of course
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hi, not sure if this will work or not any way, plus I,v not been here long enough to know how things work, so just saying Hi and reading whats being written, ...noeleena...
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
Quoting 'noeleena' Hi, not sure if this will work or not any way, plus I,v not been here long enough to know how things work, so just saying Hi and reading whats being written, ...noeleena... You've made it here, so you're potentially off to a good start.Good luck ! Tall
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RHP User
9 years ago
of photographers willing to take erotic shots of your sexy body! And I wouldn't want sex until after we had a few decent photos.And just to stay on topic, rhp actually doesn't promote itself as a sex site although it definitely attracts people with an acknowledged interest in sex. This can range from mild vouyerism to a desire to participate in wild no holes barred orgies. Also personlities range from dirty old sleazes like me to highly intelligent decent people like........um well I won't embarass anyone. And there is no earthly reason why you are any less likely to find a long term partner than to find someone who wants a quick fuck.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'noeleena' Hi, not sure if this will work or not any way, plus I,v not been here long enough to know how things work, so just saying Hi and reading whats being written, ...noeleena... At the risk of hogging this topic more, I had to jump in and hi back. Your post worked. Welcome. Nice to see a new face
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On_Safari
9 years ago
Quoting 'Softglove' It's run by each and every individual and the people they actually meet. That is where reality is played out. Most members generally ignore the forums.
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On_Safari
9 years ago
Quoting 'noeleena' Hi, not sure if this will work or not any way, plus I,v not been here long enough to know how things work, so just saying Hi and reading whats being written, ...noeleena... Nice segway......don't mind the forum folk, most are all bark and no bite....in my experience - Indy
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RHP User
9 years ago
RHP give us a really good platform and i meet really nice people here,i was in 3way relationship with a couple 2 years ago was good fun,i enjoying it ,swingers lifestyle is not about just sex it's more about happiness, friendship, and fun. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Mr & I met on on RHP over 4.5 years ago and we are still together and going strong. Honestly before I met him I thought I would be single for the rest of my life because it seemed almost impossible to find anyone who was open to the idea of swinging and was able to do it without having a jealous meltdown. Plus finding a guy who will let you go off and play with other women without him is also a hard thing to find. Unfortunately due to him having some health issues lately we have been unable to play as a couple on the RHP for about 6 months, but before that we were actively playing with other couples and girls. We hope to get back into the swing of things by the end of the year :) Taby x
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RHP User
9 years ago
Miss_Taby, hope your mister recovers well. x
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RHP User
9 years ago
But in saying that one must note that those that come to this site are here justto hook up and have fun.Like with a normal date site both parties must be seeking LTR but as profile suggestthis is not the case.If you do find a partner then it is just good luck.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hi, I was a unicorn and enjoying it very much, then we met and we found we were perfect for each other...that was 5 years ago:))) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
... for flavouring desserts. :-P I was previously on eHarmony and RSVP. I was frustrated when I realised that you could only do the personality questionnaire once and then your results were set in stone because we all change and our goals and preferences for now may not necessarily remain staid! I did meet my ex bf on RSVP, but he came with a weird avoidant attitude about sex and was always doing the "not tonight dear, I have a headache" routine, and he had several other Sexual issues. I won't hold Sexual dysfunction nor illness against any guy, but there has to be open and honest communication about these things. He was very withdrawn and reticent and shutting me out killed the relationship. (Plus, he was below average in endowment so... That's how I discovered that anything below average just isn't going to work for me. :-P) This isn't "just a sex site" for me. Rather, after that experience with the ex bf, being here is an open acknowledgement that sex IS very important to me, I do not want to be constrained to vanilla sex, and I would like an adventurous man who is experienced and open-minded and yet gentle, understanding and patient enough to walk with me on a fascinating journey of Sexual exploration. :-) Open minds, open loins! Oops! Did I just say that?! LOL! :-P
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