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LOOKS v BODY v PERSONALITY
May 01 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
..... Years of research including the occasional lapse into health and fitness neglect tells me that you've lined them up in the order if you're thinking about being attractive for a root. People are shallow when they're sharking for a shag.You can have the attractive personality and women will want to hang around you for your company... but I expect that they won't want you to stick your dick in 'em, despite what they say to keep you sniffing around. However, if you can get the sex is out of the way... personality is king, and familiarity provides opportunity.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
If I interpret your question properly and you are asking what I look for here, in order of importance, then I am more than happy to say: 1) Personality 2) Body 3) Looks As for their importance INITIALLY, then I would say: Looks = 7, Body = 8, Personality = 10 Im not sure how my Blackberry will make the formatting of this post look, but let me just say my rankings may need a disclaimer. I am not on RHP for a "quick shag". If i were, I would still expect my victim to have a personality but I would probably hope he had a body that was even better. If you were after a better result, I'd have thrown in a couple of other factors, like intelligence, sense of humour, mental stability LOL.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Which one is more important depends on the individual, I need to be attracted to the person first, then personality and the body is always last on my list. If someone has a great body and good looks thats part of it however if there is no personality then there is no reason to hang around. I like to be stimulated both cerebally and physically. Hope that helps your quest.
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RHP User
15 years ago
A quick survey of Mrs Pup and I really need not have as I knew what she'd say.Personality 10Looks 8Body 7If I was to answer for myself I'd be a tad different - I'm taking here looks are more to do with how attractive you find someone's face? If so I'm Personality and Looks a big 10 and body a 7.Mind you there are many "looks" that turn me on but really if I don't find someone lovely to look at when we're face to face then no matter how hot everything else is I'm not really going to get that excitedMrs Pup is a sweety as you all know (much more than me). A killer personality will win her over way more than the best of looks and body - damn lucky for me I say hahaFlirty's other suggestions rate a mention also, especially mental stabitily lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
but if i had sex with people i didn't like, i probably wouldn't like myself.I've been with people all sizes and looks, from one i was worried I'd break to one that has to choose his chairs carefully. personality makes or breaks the deal every time.xx Sarah
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RHP User
15 years ago
well im sure we all look at the pretty pictures to start with - hmmm and the package it comes in.....then finally find out the personality - but sometimes peeps are better on paper than in the flesh too...so looks - 8 body 7 - and on the borderline with the personality so 5 - just remember we all have our reasons for the way we are - so no right or wrong answers here....kitty
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RHP User
15 years ago
You can usually find something sexy or attractive about someone no matter what they look like. Asshole behaviour always ranks a zero.For a quick, once only encounter? Pass the asshole test and looks will win every time.(Scoring is immature and you will fail the test)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am initialy attracted to looks and then personality will kick in. Here on the internet I chat first so the personality comes across before the looks. If I am chosing someone for a fuckbuddy...quick shag...I am more than likely gonna choose looks and body over personality. l I dont mind if a man is carrying a little extra weight after all I would be a bit hypocritical if I did however, not really interested at all in someone who cannot be bothered to look after themselves, who just sits around drinking, eating poor quality food and gets fatter and fatter. If they can not be bothered with themselves then they will not be bothered to put the effort into a reltionship. Besides that, if a relationship does develop, I have no intention of looking after someone who is always ill because they dont take care of thier health and weight is a part of health. As we grow older, we become more aware of the damage we actually did to our bodies in our youth. All those years of hard yakka. If the body is consistently overweight then things like knee joints start to wear out and I aint pushing your wheel chair buddy. l Looks...in a long term partner these would not matter so much as looks do tend to grow on ya. However, the initial attraction would not be there if you had a face like you had been chasing parked buses and caught a few. Friendship would develop over time and the looks would then cease to be an issue anyway. Personality. Now that has to be a winner. l Another one of my sayings...you know the ones...I always gave them to my kids as advice when they were growing up. "When you are eighty, you are both gonna be ugly...go for personality as it will still be there at the end." l Over all I would say when choosing a permanent partner, personality is the main factor. Body can be improved over time and looks, well, there is a nut for every shell and even an axylottyl (spell check needed) has its own peculiar charm
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RHP User
15 years ago
My man Gomez was a personality choice and I wouldn't change that for the world. Our play friend, from time to time is chosen based on looks....mainly because we don't need him to speak...much.
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RHP User
15 years ago
If it's primarily sex I want then it's : . Body (I aim for at least a guy who is an 8) Looks (at least a 7) Personality (irrelevant if he keeps his mouth shut) ! . But... since I'm trying hard to find a relationship and not simply a shag. I would want : . Personality (at least an 8) Looks (at least a 7) Body (a least a 5) . Guess I compromise on the body part for a relationship with an intelligent fun man. . One thing you forgot was sex.... the others are irrelevant if the guy is a total dud in bed ! . Sat
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RHP User
15 years ago
i find a good personality and average looks attract myself rather than the hot atractive look, have a thing for size ten to twelve body, but loved the mental attraction over looks, and a little curve isn't to bad either,
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' My question to the female gender is to rate from 1 - 10, 10 being the highest ranking, the following: Batchy LOOKS Not applicable (no profile face picture) BODY 10/10 PERSONALITY Further information required (watching response carefully) Chilli xx Looks - Unable to provide further comment based on comic strips Body - ""As above"" Personality - Not watching carefully.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Miss_Saturn' If it's primarily sex I want then it's : . Body (I aim for at least a guy who is an 8) Looks (at least a 7) Personality (irrelevant if he keeps his mouth shut) ! HOW DID YOU GET TO BED IF HE KEPT HIS MOUTH SHUT . But... since I'm trying hard to find a relationship and not simply a shag. I would want : . Personality (at least an 8) Looks (at least a 7) Body (a least a 5) . Guess I compromise on the body part for a relationship with an intelligent fun man. . One thing you forgot was sex.... the others are irrelevant if the guy is a total dud in bed ! . Sat
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MistressT'You can usually find something sexy or attractive about someone no matter what they look like. Asshole behaviour always ranks a zero. For a quick, once only encounter? Pass the asshole test and looks will win every time. (Scoring is immature and you will fail the test) NO ONE IS OUT SCORING PEOPLE OUT OF 10, NOR IS IT IMMATURE. DONT BOTHER REPLYING TO A FORUM AS IT SEEMS YOU HAVE GONBE OUT OF YR WAY TO RESPOND. MISTRESS T PERSONALITY SCORE 2/10
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RHP User
15 years ago
Looks first... 7 / 10 got to have a attraction... otherwise no point in going any further..Personality .. 8/10 if there is a attraction, its nice to have some favorable banter going on.Body.. 6/10 if he's going to love himself more than me... forget it.Watched a program the other night where they took 3 guys to the streets and asked random women which one they were most attracted to. All except 1 avoided the best looking guy with the muscles, saying they felt'.. as good as he looked he would only be a short term thing because of his need to be the centre of attention... So it was the other 2 guys who got the nod ahead of mr muscles... interesting observation.. Mrs JJ
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RHP User
15 years ago
and say that the body is an important part of a hook up, casual sex or one nighter. I mean come on.... a one nighter or just a hook up is to scratch an itch. But if I was with an extremely hot man who treated me like crap, it wouldn't matter how buff he was, I'd kick his arse to the curb. I just don't roll like that. I say it would be the same with men... if there isn't an inital physical "ssssswhinggggggg" in the nether regions, it just aint happening. Problem is that today's society has lost the mystic of indiscriminate sex v's courtship and the relationship. We base so much on the intial sexual attraction that we forget that the person might be a complete bitch, but s/he looks good.... I'll just close my ears and go la la la la la lala la lalalalalalalal! I often find that my male friends are so much more attractive that the hot men I see out... because my mates treat me with respect and know me. Men who only see my lumps and bumps tend to be arseholes to me. It's the way it is. so I'll stay single and ready to mingle until a real man shows up. As for rating.... looks... are important, I don't want to be looking at a blank face... Body, I hope he's got one with the right equipment attached, otherwise I'm gonna be using a lot of batteries... personality... the most important.... Ryan Reynold's is my ultimate man.... funny as hell, a good job, happy with himself and he looks awesome... i.e. he's handsome and I like looking at his face. The body is a big arse bonus....
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RHP User
15 years ago
LOOKS = 9 (got to love a sexy smile)PERSONALITY = 9 (if this includes someone who can make me laugh)BODY = 6 (I am into kissing so if he looks like a smashed crab then the body ain't going to make me want to fuck him;-)Batchy = cant see ya face so its a 7
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy'A quick survey of Mrs Pup and I really need not have as I knew what she'd say.Personality 10Looks 8Body 7If I was to answer for myself I'd be a tad different - I'm taking here looks are more to do with how attractive you find someone's face? If so I'm Personality and Looks a big 10 and body a 7.Mind you there are many "looks" that turn me on but really if I don't find someone lovely to look at when we're face to face then no matter how hot everything else is I'm not really going to get that excitedMrs Pup is a sweety as you all know (much more than me). A killer personality will win her over way more than the best of looks and body - damn lucky for me I say hahaFlirty's other suggestions rate a mention also, especially mental stabitily lolYou're awfully agreeable this week! I need not have wondered how alike Mrs Pup and I were LOL ... smart women, etc etc
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey Batchy, . Don't turn this into another forum post of insults. Seriously if you ask a question and you don't like the answers, it doesn't warrant harsh criticism or insults. I recommend you engage in discussion. . It seems pointless to ask for honesty then criticise it when it's given ! . Oh btw.... a pity you didn't keep your mouth shut as I was thinking how hot you are ! . Hugs, Saturn
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Morticiaaa' My man Gomez was a personality choice and I wouldn't change that for the world. Our play friend, from time to time is chosen based on looks....mainly because we don't need him to speak...much. And it's a three thumbs up from me.
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RHP User
15 years ago
How any 3 of those posts warranted the cranky pants to be put on, and now Im a little scared to have a go at the rating system aww ok , I'll touch the snake....... . Looks - 9 (for both a fwb and a relationship these rate high) it could be shallow but I guess it's all down to personal taste, and what I consider good looking might not be everyone elses cup of tea anyway Personality- 9 Ive found in the past he needs to have a very strong personality and a very good sense of humour I can be a handful Body - 8 basically I tend to put this in with looks as a package thing, but hey if Im picking the perfect man why not shoot for the sky Im ever the optimist. . Please dont growl at me Batchy
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RHP User
15 years ago
I find men without a personality boring in bed and out. I really need to have to have that elusive chemistry or personality click for good sex. If that isn't there then the sex is usually ho-hum when is this going to be over. Personality 10/10Body 6/10 (as per my personal preferences)Looks 8/10 (as above)xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am always fascinated when people post these types of posers.I did think you were a little harsh in your replies Batchy, the girls were only answeringyour question truthfully ( I assume ), Isn't that what you wanted.You did get an insight into how they operate, and you got to see why some women fail at relationships.I think the simple truths are that people are mostly driven initially by physical attraction.The people with the best personalities are mostly the average to less than physically attractive people.Hence they are usually overlooked. i.e: It doesnt matter a Tinkers cuss how great a person you are if youdon't light her fire in the first two seconds she lays eyes on you, she will have you pegged as a looser.Males who an rate as an 8 or above in looks/body, mostly know it, and know how to play the game for as long as it suits before they move on to the next great conquest. At least the ones I know do....lolWomen want what women want!......regardless......Cheers Nev.......It really is a battle of the sexes......roll the dice.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Krissy_G' Scenario One Meeting Someone Online - Online Personality = 10 - Personality = Hopefully what online personality portrays - Looks = 7 - Body = 5 Scenario Two Clubbing - Looks = 10 - Body = 8 - Personality = 5 A "F*ck Your Ass is Tight" Doesnt count as a D&M after a nite of sweaty dancing in some semi secluded...... no nor does it constitute foreplay
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Miss_Saturn' Hey Batchy, . Don't turn this into another forum post of insults. Seriously if you ask a question and you don't like the answers, it doesn't warrant harsh criticism or insults. I recommend you engage in discussion. . It seems pointless to ask for honesty then criticise it when it's given ! . Oh btw.... a pity you didn't keep your mouth shut as I was thinking how hot you are ! . Hugs, Saturn Thank you Miss Saturn, you took the words out of my head. I hope you find the relationship you are looking for no matter what the score is.I didn't go out of my way to respond batchy, I was just passing and thought I would leave an opinion.Now what was I saying about a test??
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RHP User
15 years ago
Gee Chilli I wasn't offering to touch Batchy's snake, just the one I knew was going to bite me LOL . . At least you won't need your old asshole anymore Batchy, cos Chilli just ripped you a brand new one Wear it happily hey?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Two out of three ain't bad at all.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Feel free to revisit my profile and rate me as honestly as you'd like... I always welcome honest feedback and I frequently tweak my profile based on user feedback Chilli xx Go on Batchy, you know you want to.... I guess you were watching closely after all... Firstly At the tender age of 36 i did not believe that i would need a colonoscopy. Chilli you have certainly made your point very clear and would like to take this opportunity to apologise to all genders if i have offended anyone. Secondly Your rating Body---- 8/10 Looks ---- Based on current images available 7/10 Personality ---- 9/10 Batchy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'batchy'At the tender age of 36 i did not believe that i would need a colonoscopy. ........ Whilst not entirely for medicinal purposes... but I do happen to have some rubber gloves around here somewhere... :) HUgsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
and I believe an assistant was asked to come along - someone has to hand him the gloves (or garden hose) after all..... . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love getting stuck into the garden BUt if we're talking about Stalky here, Im probably gonna have to go with a nice big bit of Ag pipe, the garden variety hoes aren't going to cut that mustard . Oh and you didnt growl at me Batchy, but can I have a kiss as well you know, if you were planning on handing them out.
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RHP User
15 years ago
ok - if we are talking just shopping around (ie on a night out, here on rhp) then its Looks, Body & Personality (hard to guage personality from a mere look or a profile)If you are considering going further than a quick fling, Personality begins to become more important, maybe even the most important as things go on.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Combination of all, makes everyone unique! There needs to be a physical attraction, body landuage & personality,We all should know very quickly, on the first date if you could go there! xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' But that's more towards Mistress T's line of work (and she, incidentally Batchy, is one of the most down to earth and wise online personalities that you will encounter, it pays to listen when she graces you with a line or two... pearls to swine....)Thank you for those very kind compliments Chilli. I think the same about you lovely lady.xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ya lost the bitchy , great stuff , alot of people just carry on even when a bunch of straight-shooters tell them how it really is , but you apologized , big ups , as they say. Just hope it's not a ploy or an attention seek , seen that before in RL. Picking fights and then conveniently donig the make up. Anyway good luck dude , truth is nice guys finish first , so carry on being a nice guy. That's my 2 cents. Loz
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'alldanite' Just hope it's not a ploy or an attention seek , seen that before in RL. Picking fights and then conveniently donig the make up. Fuck, i really am naive....xx Sarah
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'CarlosSpicyWienr'You did get an insight into how they operate, and you got to see why some women fail at relationships.Oh and why is that? Because they are rating looks over personality?? I think the simple truths are that people are mostly driven initially by physical attraction.The people with the best personalities are mostly the average to less than physically attractive people.Hence they are usually overlooked. i.e: It doesnt matter a Tinkers cuss how great a person you are if youdon't light her fire in the first two seconds she lays eyes on you, she will have you pegged as a looser.Who says that people with the best personalities are average? So on the reverse side people who are considered good looking don't have a good personality? Huge generalisation there Nev. What constitutes a good personality anyway. It is all subjective. The people I find good looking or attractive will not be the same as other girls. Yes I can appreciate a good body and nice muscles but if there is no chemistry there between us the sex is still boring. For me it is anyway. And yes I have been known to chase these guys and sleep with one or two of them but I am often disappointed. I much rather Mr Average if he makes me laugh and I have a good time with him to Mr Good looking who bores me to death. I agree that initially it is the physical side that you are attracted to ... but for me it is mainly a persons face that that I am attracted too and definitely what I see in their eyes. Funnily enough I prefer a average to athletic body over a hugely muscley guy. But that is a personal preference. xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' Oh and you didnt growl at me Batchy, but can I have a kiss as well you know, if you were planning on handing them out.DTG never though you would ask..........well here it is
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think at first we all judge by how the other person looks. We all love things that are visualy appealing . However no matter how attractive you may be on the outside, A horrible peronality can make you look very ugly. I find its the inner personality and sex apeal of a person that you have a connection with that is the key. So no matter the outer apearance , the person you are is what is attractive or not. Blond_art x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Looks 8/10 will get your attention ! Body 7/10 will trigger your sexual desire! Personality 10/10 will keep you wanting more !! I love that everybody has imperfections! It could be that imperfection that you are drawn to! Its Personality for me ! Being beautiful on the outside looks and body are healthy... but if your personality sucks and scores 1/10 everything becomes FUCKING UGLY Psychological N Physically
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RHP User
15 years ago
The initial attraction for me is based on how they tickle my senses...I dont need a face pic to start an attachment to someone... however if they dont please my eyes when I do see them then it does make it harder for me. By this I mean I need them to look healthy. I need to see they care for themselves, I dont mind overweight but thats a personal preference and everyone is different. Id feel intimidated if they were superfit gym junkies but if this were a long term partner than thats welcomed as its inspiration to get to the gym more often... well thats sight covered... Hearing; how great is a sexy male (or female) voice. When you are getting sweet/dirty/or even a joke spoken so sexy up close in your ear and feeling the breath on your neck.... mmmm shivers. Smell; our nose is there for a purpose... if it doesnt smell good, dont put it in your mouth!!! But the biggest winner for me is a very nice smelling man in my presence. I dont care who they are or what they look like... I can close my eyes and just be near/on them all night. Taste; well I wont get dirty here... but a kiss can be tainted so easily. Touch; please the others and this ones easy :) Obviously online I cant have all of these pleased... Its easy to see alot of the regulars on here are healthy and clean and goddamn gorgeous too :) and im sure they are the ones who are successful online...no matter what shape size or age and consistant with their personality because they are truthful. I dont have a profile pic up to 'weed out the wallies' :D Luv Bliss
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RHP User
15 years ago
I would like to thank every body for their participation thus far. I have experienced an encounter today that verifies PERSONALITY is king. A sales rep (female) came out to see me today....... and wow she was incredibly hot. As most would say she was the package.....incredible body, outrageoulsy natural gorgeous face. Her presence in reception was overwhelming. My PA felt somewhat...uncomfortable when she informed me that she was waiting in reception. I must admit, if she had kept her mouth closed for the duration of the appointment, I would have purchased and asked her out at the conclusion of our business. DISASTEROUS. She very quickly turned into the ugly duckling. PERSONALITY for me is definetely the winner in 100% of all scenarios. Honestly, who can be bothered shaking up with a twisted mixed bag of fruit to end up wishing you hadnt gone there. My opinion Batchy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Personality everytime wins. Sex would not be the same if you are not having fun. Know matter how good the body if there is nothing happening in there head well you just wasted your time.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yeah Meeks?? .... well you have to admit to yourself that Batchy has an admirable set of pecs. It's gotta be difficult not to be attracted to a chest like that... surely. Be honest now. c'mon... all that rippling muscle ... you wanna take a lil bight don't you... you know.. if it was there.... naked... in front of you.. in the right circumstances... a random nibble.. .a quick snack! It's not always about personality when you're in the right company.HugsStalky Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'CarlosSpicyWienr'I agree that initially it is the physical side that you are attracted to ... but for me it is mainly a persons face that that I am attracted too and definitely what I see in their eyes. Funnily enough I prefer a average to athletic body over a hugely muscley guy. But that is a personal preference. xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'batchy' I would like to thank every body for their participation thus far. I have experienced an encounter today that verifies PERSONALITY is king. A sales rep (female) came out to see me today....... and wow she was incredibly hot. As most would say she was the package.....incredible body, outrageoulsy natural gorgeous face. Her presence in reception was overwhelming. My PA felt somewhat...uncomfortable when she informed me that she was waiting in reception. I must admit, if she had kept her mouth closed for the duration of the appointment, I would have purchased and asked her out at the conclusion of our business. DISASTEROUS. She very quickly turned into the ugly duckling. PERSONALITY for me is definetely the winner in 100% of all scenarios. Honestly, who can be bothered shaking up with a twisted mixed bag of fruit to end up wishing you hadnt gone there. My opinion Batchy At the end of the day Batchy , we all need to be able to sell the package whether its face or body, and the only thing that can seal that deal is the personality. the others are mere artwork without it and nice to see a bit of your personality come out on here too
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RHP User
15 years ago
Did you like the Kiss??????
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey to all.....I must say that,even though I appreciate all contributions,I found it hardly insightful.We all know "what a woman wants".....its kinda common knowledge.Same goes for guys of course.After all there is quite a bit of truth in every stereotype.What I would like to hear is: to what extent the perception of our own qualities,or illusion of it,affects the assessment of others.Also,I have a great respect for the shear scope of female consideration so ladies please feel free to let yourself go and leave out percentage points.I was thinking about adding the affect of substances on the whole process (ie lowering of our standards) of judging of others but that might bring some bad memories,selfloathing etc......so I cant.....possibly lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh My Dearest Darling Batchy, . When are you coming to Melbourne ? I would enjoy a good verbal tussel with you. If that doesn't resolve my frustration, then a good old floor wrestle may do the job. . I'm unsure what occupation you are in however it certainly isn't statistics ! You can't make the statement that ONE woman speaking VERIFIES that personality is king ! (And anyway...in this case it'd technically be Queen.) . All it proves is that YOU did not like what THAT PARTICULAR WOMAN SAID or the tone/pitch of her voice ! . You may in fact find that there are a range of personalities. Some we love, some we tolerate and some we despise. I'd argue that it's only those we DESPISE that affect our attraction. There are MANY personalities that we would TOLERATE for a good fuck but not for a relationship. . Care to discuss ? . Hugs, Saturn
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RHP User
15 years ago
Where did you put it ? LOL cos I seem to get a lot of them on the errmmm bum Best you give me another one right on the smackers . . Siniam Im going to attempt to answer your question in just a moment.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'd like to think in a perfect world that looks and personality compliment each but its not always the case.i've observed some very attractive people have next to nothing to contribute personality wise, and I often think that its just plainlaziness, as someone mentioned earlier int he thread people who rate lower in the looks dept. really do make an effort to showcase their personality.Those who think they are so good looking they dont 'need' to make an effort are going to have a mighty lot of catching up to do when thoselooks fade.As to the point you made about our own illusion of our qualities and thier impact...well most definately. For a simple example, if we have had a shitty lifeor even day it completely affects the way in which we will receive another persons attentions.Its very hard to be totally open and neutrally receptive of anothers demeaner when we are such re-active creatures, very rarely will we start ph neutral LOL.In saying that I don't think it need be a negative thing either, from my personal experiences Im less likely to judge a person oninitial contact without taking into consideration 'why' they behave the way they do, due to due to having needed the same understanding and empathyduring particularly tough times in my life. Even if I do struggle sometimes due to my own crap..Not saying Im an angel, but I do make an effort not to be a bloody demon.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Miss_Saturn' Oh My Dearest Darling Batchy, . When are you coming to Melbourne ? I would enjoy a good verbal tussel with you. If that doesn't resolve my frustration, then a good old floor wrestle may do the job. . Care to discuss ? . Hugs, Saturn Miss Saturn I dont have the faintest idea of what makes you think im not from Melbourne?? I am 8 -10 kms from you. So name the time, place and we can have the verbal tussle you are longing for. If we have that floor wrestle please ensure you bring along the mud and the bikini. On your point of of my encounter today. It wasnt one isolated circumstance that has formed the basis of my desicion regarding personality being King or Queen. I consider many non related encounters with both genders allows me to make an informed opinion. I totally agree with your final point that there are many differing personalities. We only tolerate some from a selfish perspective, or for the benefit of friends and family. I wouldnt go out of my way though to Fuck someone and not have the desire to see them again or avoid them. Anyway Miss Saturn, i look forward to that tussle or mud wrestle...........which ever you prefer Batchy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' Where did you put it ?I know where id like to put it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Stalky, yes in certain company I would definitely take a nibble on that chest. It is a mighty fine chest there Batchy... well gorgeous really. But Stalkers if you are talking about the company I think you are well.... I already have the man I want there so a mighty fine chest like Batchy's would just be a bonus. :)xxMeeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Stalky, yes in certain company I would definitely take a nibble on that chest. It is a mighty fine chest there Batchy... well gorgeous really. But Stalkers if you are talking about the company I think you are well.... I already have the man I want there so a mighty fine chest like Batchy's would just be a bonus. :)xxMeeka Well thank you Meeka. I need a few more nibbles. Currently interviewing for potential candidates. Batchy
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RHP User
15 years ago
You know, I didn't think I felt anything Chilli Awwww c'mon you know I suck at queues . . I'd be shit at a reverse gang bang "JUST HURRY UP YOU BITCHES " standing there with my arms crossed and attitude on full beam
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RHP User
15 years ago
LOOKS 5 - there has to be some attraction after all - but its all about that spark when you kiss BODY 2 - hmm, okay, more like a 5 - has to be sexually capable ;) but in the end - its the PERSONALITY that really matters - especially if there's to be any contact beyond the day/week/month it takes to get through the sexual side of things and realize without someone you can connect with on some level, its not really worth the effort of pretending its anything but what it really is.who wants to shag a barbie doll that you can't put away with when done, and actually try to hold a conversation with instead?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Miss_Saturn' Hey Batchy, . Don't turn this into another forum post of insults. Seriously if you ask a question and you don't like the answers, it doesn't warrant harsh criticism or insults. I recommend you engage in discussion. . It seems pointless to ask for honesty then criticise it when it's given ! . Oh btw.... a pity you didn't keep your mouth shut as I was thinking how hot you are ! . Hugs, Saturn
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RHP User
15 years ago
95% of the women on here are hung up on looks and don't give a toss about anything else and if they say they do there full of crap. Some women need to look in the mirror themselves and relise that they are no better than the person they are judging.
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RHP User
15 years ago
This post could go on forever because all of us see something different from the next girl / guy. Some like tall, some like muscles. Some are attracted to blonde while others to dark and handsome. Some like a big dick, others perfer something not so scary. Big boobs v smaller... and so on and so on.As long as you're happy with who you are and what you have, its bound to have a positive effect on others around you and be far more genuine. Surely thats much more important than concentrating on muscles v average v skinny v looks etc etc..I think we all have something to offer in some way.Fortunately for me, besides looks' my man has a very witty personality. This has always been a big plus cause I love a good laugh. I find that sexy in it's self. Make me laugh, make me happy ' be genuine and Im yours.. haha.
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RHP User
15 years ago
looks like I`m in the wrong queue here.To "dontgothere"...thanks for the nicely written reply....good luck with catfight
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RHP User
15 years ago
im in the wrong queue here.To "dontgothere" thanks for nicely written reply and the way things are going you might consider sharpening up your nails lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'siniam' im in the wrong queue here.To "dontgothere" thanks for nicely written reply and the way things are going you might consider sharpening up your nails lol Chilli is a little bunny really and Id only scratch her if she asked me too
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm home in bed with the flu today. Watching "group Sex" the movie. It's funny because we're all in it!! Hehe Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
15 years ago
Stalky might have a point.Hmmm....let me see.A group-check,assholes being ripped-check,kisses flying-check,scratching-check.Something is missing though
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'I'm home in bed with the flu today. Watching "group Sex" the movie. It's funny because we're all in it!! Hehe Hugs Gazza Damn this shitful flu carry-on *sniiiiffffff* Oh woe is meeee! . I could do with some comedic medicine like that movie, it's supposed to be really funny! And that chick that plays Vanessa is a serious hottie! ... Curious though ... which character are you Stalky?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem'. I could do with some comedic medicine like that movie, it's supposed to be really funny! And that chick that plays Vanessa is a serious hottie! ... Curious though ... which character are you Stalky? It's not that any one character in the movie matches someone from RHp.... it's the clever blend of characters in the movie.... it's as if there's snippets of each of us in them. In that way it was a very clever script and an easy going movie. ..... As one of the reviews I read before I watched it said.... it won't change anyone's life.. but it was a great way to waste an hour and a half of mine.Oh and Siniam don't despair..... it has a happy ending! :pHugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem'. Curious though ... which character are you Stalky? It's not that any one character in the movie matches someone from RHp. it won't change anyone's life.. but it was a great way to waste an hour and a half of mine.Oh and Siniam don't despair..... it has a happy ending! :pHugsStalkyNo perfect matches?Probably right.Common ground?Smart money would be on sex addiction but we all know that condition is endemic to the area of Hollywood.Or is it??And just so not to derail the original topic: kudos to JJ.Well said.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Personality = 8-9/10Looks = 6-7/10Body = 6-7/10Personality is always key when ever interacting with people, if you stand trying to have a conversation with them it isn't going to go anywhere. Looks and Body are not as important since judging on the physical alone can leave you missing out on one of the best experiences of your life.Absolute.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'SKAOK' 95% of the women on here are hung up on looks and don't give a toss about anything else and if they say they do there full of crap. Some women need to look in the mirror themselves and relise that they are no better than the person they are judging. However...are men any different?Nope.The looks will get you in.... no way around it.That goes for hook ups.According to one survey women during ovulation tend to get attracted by rough looking bad boys because of greater sense of protection.I find that nothing short of astonishing.Whats really humbling though?The selection process of "marriage material".We can learn plenty from women.Whats top priority? SECURITY .As opposed to looks this thing can last.Nuff said.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'siniam'attracted by rough looking bad boys because of greater sense of protection oh so that that explains my penchant for badddd boys....?nope... I just did the calculations... computer says Noooooo, not just during ovulation.... damn! lol!
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RHP User
15 years ago
i guess in my opinion they do not have to be perfect but definately suitable to each ones acquired taste. I have been to places with my partner and his idea of a woman is curvy and busty and sometimes damn right BIG... and that is not to my taste but he loves it and doesnt even look at skinny girls. As far as looks, personality there are so many types and you can put 10 of your closet friends in a room that you adore and they will not necessarily like one another. In effect i think it is an even distribution of compatibility, taste that starts with an obvious chemical attraction, without it you are screwed!!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
well Batchy, guess where I just kissed you back ermmmm kinda lovin' the new pic gawd elp me
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' well Batchy, guess where I just kissed you back ermmmm kinda lovin' the new pic gawd elp me Well it is the latest pic with some body hair......Summer is over and need the warmth....lol Im not washing my abs for a week......that is where you plnated the kiss isnt it???? Batchy
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RHP User
15 years ago
I totally agree with flirty here...if the roles were reversed and the question was asked of a male the same weighing would apply.Sure initially the face and physique is what grabs our attention, but in the longer term you can get very bored very quickly with all that and we rely largely on the personality to stimulate us...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' Quoting 'batchy' Well it is the latest pic with some body hair. there won't be much of that left when DGT's finished with you... She knows me well Now Im wishing I 'was' that girl that you gave so much credit to in ummmm just kissing your abs I was a little lower down in the gutter mind LOL like just where your ties end Now you have two things you need to not wash for a bit
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erotictouch4u
15 years ago
Quoting 'Morticiaaa' Our play friend, from time to time is chosen based on looks....mainly because we don't need him to speak...much. Just like Lurch HAHAHA ET xox
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QLDtwo4fun
15 years ago
I think you left out one important selection criteria, 'good personnal hygiene'. Thats probably our number one, followed by equally by 'personality'and 'look' are they dressed/undressed sexy, then 'body'. There are some really sexy people out there who are great fun but are definately not hot bodies, they just know how to use what they have.j
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