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Kudos to the men of RHP...

January 05 2010

As a past member of RHP and a recent returnee I would like to say that I have always been very impressed with the men of RHP. The majority send polite, well written emails that introduce themselves, ask intelligent questions and show a genuine interest in meeting. The crude emails are very far and few between. Those who I have met have turned up and on time. Have been respectable, well dressed and great company - be it for a social drink or a play date. Even those I send a 'no thank you' to always return a polite email in return. Manners DO exist on RHP. In short, I think the men of RHP cop a fair few negative posts and I would like to extend a generic kudos to them, for my experiences over the years have been nothing short of very nice. Gentleman, keep writing your lovely emails, being punctual, having manners and respecting the ladies you meet. The returns your reap are well worth the effort. Joanna

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RHP User

16 years ago

for the bad guys to send you all the not so nice emails... Thanks for the acknowledgement Joanna - I wish that more ladies on this site would follow your lead in at least responding to politely written emails that I've sent... :-) Wayne

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billecart

16 years ago

you need to be given the same kudosits a shame there are both wrong men and womanits a credit to our mothers i think

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RHP User

16 years ago

Hey Joanna ...I concur with you...these guys need positive feed back in the forums as well. maybe others.read and take heed...lol..billy...heard the saying..the hand that rocks the craddle..rules the world...lolbeing a good mother..isnt easy..takes work....1 flown..now 2 to.. fly left...

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RHP User

16 years ago

The good thing about this forum is that it is free for anyone to contribute in any manner they see fit (as long as it conforms with legal & RHP standards) The topic, attitude, feedback etc depends in which direction the pendulum is swinging at the time people excercise their right to publish their stories. I for one enjoy a balanced perspective and experiences & as such am heartened by Joanna's post. However, in saying that, what I enjoy far more than political correctness is the comical almost Seinfeld approach employed by the vast majority of forum contributors to relevant,topical and serious issues alike.

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RHP User

16 years ago

Once again you have raised a good point.Ive had a few of the less than nice messages but mostly more of the polite and well thought out style.Its the second ones that get my replies, whether that is a yes or a no or a tell me more lol.For the less than nice I think deleting and ignoring is acceptable, though there have been a couple that got a Devine lecture.So yes a BIG thank you to those with couth and class Devine xxxx

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RHP User

16 years ago

Good on you J for seeing good intentions and being comfortable praising them where they exist.... After I seperated from My wife about 5 years ago I spent a lot of money and time on sites like this sending messages, flirts, winks etc to women and couples I felt compatible with, liked the look of or found their profiles sexy....I like to think of myself as a gentleman if nothing else, so they were always polite if I recall.... I would send many many emails. And get very few if any replies. I found it frustrating to the point of bitterness (you have all heard the old six-pack complaint)......realising that there were maybe 10 guys to every girl online but also that women very quickly get over the flattery of having so many guys contact them to the point of frustration themslves.....so, I changed tack....180 degrees.... People make assumptions about why I dont have a paid profile. Yes I could afford it. No I'm not hiding anything. I just have a profile that I am comfortable with. I resist the temptation to email lots of couples or women. In fact I dont email ANYONE unless they email me. I send the odd flirt for fun. I have a profile which displays my pics, my situation, my likes and dislikes and gives as much info about me as possible.....THAT way a couple or person can contact ME if they like what they see. I dont hassle anyone by sending emails that go unreturned and I know that if someone contacts me they are genuinely interested in saying hi......I get maybe one a week if I am lucky....and I count many of these as among my online friends.... It amuses me when I sense the frusutration of guys on here and I feel like saying "whoa man....just back off...if it's meant to be it will happen, if it's not meant to happen....it's never going to anyway....why push so hard ?!"....sorrily too many guys are all about the conquest wanting three, four five girls on the go.....I put up a post a month or so back asking how many lovers people have had and so many guys are all about the conquest, some men have had hundreds of lovers !......(some ladies too !! lol).....well, I'm about the conquest too.....but it's so much nicer when the Mountain comes to Mohammed....wanting to be conquested ! Dogism.

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RHP User

16 years ago

good on you fellas ,,,just goes to show that not all the men on this sight are jerks ,,,,just a fair percentage of them,,,,,its a pitty that the ladies on this sight cant be the same,,,,,,,[a few bad apples spoil it for every one ] and i have met some genuine ladies here,,,,but not many,,,,,,,its no wonder so many guys are bi or gay,,me thinks the ladies should lift there game and stop pumping there own tyres..........and start treating the guys the same way that they expect us to treat them.............

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RHP User

16 years ago

that out of hundreds of messages received during our time on RHP, we have only been abused once and put up with 2 dickheads. We answer all our messages, with a template at the moment but that is written on our profile and have really appreciated the fellas and couples who took the time to say thanks for our reply. Something we have posted in the forums several times in the past Good on you Joanna for making a point of it, I think fellas cop too many negative posts too, usually based on generalisations toward men that women and couples are just as guilty of at times.Cheers... Mrs P'

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RHP User

16 years ago

that new profile pic will surely earn you more adoring followers... lucky for me I'm up the front of the queue ;-) Hugs Wayne

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RHP User

16 years ago

I have been on here for about three years and have had very few bad experiences. I've had some highly amusing emails, met some lovely people and made some awesome lifetime friends.

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RHP User

16 years ago

I have only ever had excellent experiences on RHP and similar sites and I agree with Joanna.... I have also been impressed by emails, messages, manners, turning up, etc.... punctuality on the other hand... meh... could use some work occasionally :P lolz

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RHP User

16 years ago

rhp has been wonderful to me...a place where i can hang out...errr...in the forums i mean...and read up on topics that i have never heard of...and blush...would not contemplate...me points me finger as gazzz...hehe...for some of those...giggles...and have had wonderful experiences and made lots of friends...oh...and sophie?...i'd never be late for ya...grins...cheersjose......sometimes

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RHP User

16 years ago

Gr8 post J After reading some of the messages that MYNAME gets from guys, its nice to see some positives. Cheers +Raven+

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RHP User

16 years ago

I hope you ladies have been replying to these lovely boys...

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Kudos to the men of RHP...

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