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Kinky vanilla?
March 24 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
Loved vanilla custard....he said it was so much sexier than apple pie:-) naughty old Norm xx Auntie
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some people think I am kinky, but I know there are other people out there way more kinkier than I will ever be or want to be.
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RHP User
12 years ago
what flavour they refer to me as.... I like what I like and am still discovering things I never thought I would enjoy but I do.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I couldnt.
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
I'm open minded and not one to judge, label, or pigeon hole anyone or anything. What I like is what I like and I'm still learning and finding my likes and having loads of fun along the way. What others like is not up to me, that's their likes and up to them, what people think of me and my likes, well I don't care to be honest. We are all different, with different needs, different wants, different likes and that's the way it should be......💋
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RHP User
12 years ago
Check me out hanging off my chandelier here! Neapolitan anyone? In all honesty I couldn't give a rats arse if someone considered me vanilla, malt or double ckoc. Just be there.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Isn't it exactly the same ? Flat White anyone ? My vanilla is somebody else's extreme,my extreme is somebody else's vanilla and so forth,isn't that what makes things so intriguing ? Developing a new sexual threshold that you have never visited ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Smilingwithfun
12 years ago
Perhaps as the world gets kinkier, one day being vanilla will be kinky?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Legend has it that shearers cooks used to get drunk on vanilla essence, it actually has a very high alcohol content. Where did that comment come from? Probably all of us have some area's of our sexuality that could be considered vanilla and some that would be considered kinky. So while labels are vanilla and kinky are useful general terms when describing sexual practices, they become less useful when applied individually. Oh and JayJay I'd eat you what ever flavour you are!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was vanilla, still do. I have been called kinky and a dirty bitch, I don't know what other women get up to in the bedroom so I have nothing to compare myself to except porn and I would gladly admit that faking it isn't one of my calling cards.
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madotara69
12 years ago
I actually don't seem to mind getting my face covered in melted cream whilst licking the bowl, Tara even got me one of those big white bowls, nothing changed but I like the bowl Mado Tara xx
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madotara69
12 years ago
It's a loaded question mooks What else are we supposed to bullshit about A bit like being on a being on a model train enthusiast forum and putting up the crafted engine for a go, by who get to the tunnel first. Little Thomas, I think I can Maybe little Thomas can, That is what it is all about, have a go for keeps Still travelling in the same direction.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I must be vanilla, neapolitan is an ice cream isn't it?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just laying their kink cards on the table at some point in the relationship. There is the fear of being judged or rejected by partner of "you want to do what ...." but I haven't heard of someone being rejected in RL for laying their kinks out and then being labelled as not being kinky enough. I think its a lot easier behind a keyboard to get sucked into a contest of mine is better then yours. For me its about discovering yourself on your own time and schedule. You like and what you like, don't like what you don't like and there is some stuff in between that you may want to try. Should never be made to feel guilty or pressured cause you "somehow don't fit some mythical unicorn notion of what's apparently right or kinky being the normal vanilla.
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RHP User
12 years ago
good sensual vanilla. To me nothing beats the feeling of being made love to. (It has been a while so I may be a little melancholic here) I miss the feeling of having sex where someone is really into you, loving you like you are the only person in the world. You want to spoil that person and them spoil you. You know each other and what you each like. A touch that makes you quiver, a kiss that is long and deep, a lustful look, a meaningful moan and creaming your panties at a thought. I find the art of sex is being lost. Everyone is after the next big buzz, the thrill, whatever your pleasure is, and all the emotion and the connection is being left out of it. Kinks or no kinks, sex without the feeling is boring as batshit in my opinion. Whether you want to tie me up and spank me or lay me on a rug in front of a fire and do me long and slowly, just do it passionately, seductively and sensually not just shove your cock in any hole until you cum.
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Beachlover1999
12 years ago
I would never ever have said I was vanilla but in another world I am squeaky clean and green!!!! Lol My biggest issue is the RHP profile asking what fantasies etc but is that watched a porn movie and want to try or competent practising?! ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't consider myself vanilla, like everyone else, Ive done some freaky stuff. But to me it depends on the situation, some times you go for it and really surprise yourself that you can be that kinky. Other times its sensual sex, both delicious in the context. then you get blown away by how extreme others are, and you feel like your on the vanilla side of things again! Just enjoy the connection and the pleasure……...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ok, to my way of thinking "vanilla" is consenting sex between heterosexual couple's in the basic positions, ie missionary. There is no kink, bdsm or fetish. According to the british medical journal it is sex between a couple that doesn't extend beyond affection, oral and anal (no mention of the positions you can do that in :P) I could rattle on and on about what is said about "vanilla" but cut to the point......is it boring? No, it can can be a beautiful sexy earth shattering experience that brings two people closer together in a very intimate way. Looking into each other's eyes, feeling the deep thrusts, heart beats, warm breath on your body, entwined bodies, climaxes together. Is that boring, even vanilla has a place in the ice cream world next to rainbow flavour please lol. X
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madotara69
12 years ago
Would it not be fair to say? Swinging and the kinks is by traditional couples in love (term to marriage/partnership committed) is for the term vanilla was raised. A couple of couples got together, had an idea that fucking could be friendly and sex outside rules of love( emotions, feelings to betrayal) could be something extended from making love by nature of trust care and compassion. A couple pairs of loving couples liked each other and sharing their love by separating lovemaking to just fun fucking each other, then go home with each other in love and eat some ice cream chatting of the experience. So we couples toss the experience to the idea out into the abiss, for the chance some other beings in binding love can toy with the exception to fun fucking determine the meaning as play, then go play with others to the idea for fun fucking each other in all of the no rules kinky naughty fucking game of lovers. Therefore accepted that if couple have sat together eating ice cream chatting of fucking their new friends another couple, while to all the flavour, then eating ice cream alone to without that idea of swinging ice cream would be plain old vanilla. Fair to say a couple by term swingers can fuck couples or singles, vanilla a term used so sitting in a room full of people, the couple can say without so much expression " hey such and such look a bit kinky do you think we should ask them About this thing we have about fucking them?" By way of a simple reference code type of term " hey honey vanilla " Therefore a question to question the topic as to the question.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't know what i am. I enjoy being mentally stimulated, teasing a person mentally before getting physical can be very fun.No need to rush anything , kissing ,cuddling ,stopping and starting is al part of the fun.Taking your time with oral ,working yourself and your lover up with a bit of dirty talk throw in always helps.Connecting with French kisses and being deep in your lover and just have her sitting on top , is what i find bliss!Stroking and poking is always fun ,stopping when you think your about to explodeto regather you self is a must.Its a marathon not a sprint. Then star fishing once you have had all your fluids drained That's right i am a vanilla star fisher
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RHP User
12 years ago
I had a conversation with a friend yesterday, where I made the comment that a threesome is one person's kink and another's Tuesday night. I love Tuesdays. To her I'm pretty out there. Compared to some people I've met here I'm relatively tame. And that's just fine with me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just throwing this out there as food for thought (all puns intended)... so if vanilla is 'the norm' what about when people live a 'lifestyle' of the same sex eg dom/sub. If you are doing the same thing all the time, is that not vanilla? Do they not get bored with having the same style of sex all the time? Let's call it rocky road, lol. Does rocky road become vanilla when you have eaten too much of it?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Seems to me in times gone by there were not too many more descriptively specific words other than "kinky" and these days there appear to be hundreds of fetishes available at a mouseclick. Good on ya society! I like to pretty much put mine right out there and not care what people think. If you are going to judge someone for what they are into, jokes on you for missing out. Trust me...
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RHP User
12 years ago
It occurs to me that "Vanilla" is a derogatory term used by those who don't engage in Intimate sexual encounters . If Vanilla is confined to what two people can get up to in the bedroom , where the sky's the limit , that's all I need . It should also be noted that Vanilla is the second most expensive Spice in the World & is grown in exotic locations . Yes , Vanilla equals Spice ! For those wishing to use Vanilla as a derogatory label , perhaps you should find a new definition because Vanilla can be shit-hot ! GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
is another's exotic orchid,vanilla and other spices....mmm...vanilla can be the basis for exploring all the other permutations of our sensuality xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' good sensual vanilla. To me nothing beats the feeling of being made love to. (It has been a while so I may be a little melancholic here) I miss the feeling of having sex where someone is really into you, loving you like you are the only person in the world. You want to spoil that person and them spoil you. You know each other and what you each like. A touch that makes you quiver, a kiss that is long and deep, a lustful look, a meaningful moan and creaming your panties at a thought. I find the art of sex is being lost. Everyone is after the next big buzz, the thrill, whatever your pleasure is, and all the emotion and the connection is being left out of it. Kinks or no kinks, sex without the feeling is boring as batshit in my opinion. Whether you want to tie me up and spank me or lay me on a rug in front of a fire and do me long and slowly, just do it passionately, seductively and sensually not just shove your cock in any hole until you cum. Thank you for that memory its been a while too....now i shall continue reading and then make my comment....or read this again.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is an interesting topic......I think myself as vanilla not by choice but I suppose I see kink as a dirty word possibly somewhere I havent been. But I dont know where the definition starts or ends. Everyone I think has answered evasively. Is Kink = Anal? Toys? Fisting? MMF FFM etc? Bondage? dom sub? mutual masterbation? exhibitionism? etc etc I know I am not into skat .that to me would be kinky. I need to definition. I do see though one mans kink is anothers vanilla .........too difficult.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen' It should also be noted that Vanilla is the second most expensive Spice in the World & is grown in exotic locations . Yes , Vanilla equals Spice ! For those wishing to use Vanilla as a derogatory label , perhaps you should find a new definition because Vanilla can be shit-hot ! ... the scent of which has an unbelievably powerful intoxicating effect ... second to none
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RHP User
12 years ago
What some shallow person or people think of us or comment on what we like or dislike. We are completely comfortable with ourselves and what we want to achieve in life. Good luck to those who need to brag about their conquests and be better than everyone else. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Too hard to define, if you were brought up as a highly moralistic religious person I think oral would be considered kink. And some cultures practise things as normal sexuality that we westerners would consider as kink. I would define it as something in your 'society' that's considered taboo. But agree about ditching the labels, you like what you like... and we could be uber kinky in some ways but never wish to try the other 3000 kinks available as you consider them a turn off. We're all individuals. *cue Monty Python
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'Cest_la_viebaby' It is an interesting topic......I think myself as vanilla not by choice but I suppose I see kink as a dirty word possibly somewhere I havent been. But I dont know where the definition starts or ends. Everyone I think has answered evasively. Is Kink = Anal? Toys? Fisting? MMF FFM etc? Bondage? dom sub? mutual masterbation? exhibitionism? etc etc I know I am not into skat .that to me would be kinky. I need to definition. I do see though one mans kink is anothers vanilla .........too difficult. Vanilla started as a code word for swingers at parties essentially, back in the day parties were the hit, private homes would fill with the naughty new thing with rooting each other, it took off like wildfire, parties everywhere, throwing the keys into a hat, who picks a key who's key it is was the swing for the night. Every now and then people who were unaware of the goings on would visit during the party. The term vanilla would be passed by from one to another, so they all would behave like nothing naughty was going on. Got to look back, see that then if a couple (married, children, church on Sundays) If word got out they were having these sex parties, the town would turn on them, lose their jobs, blacklisted. Quite a risky thrill then.
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RHP User
12 years ago
This was in a "Jack Thompson" movie called "Sunday too far away". The movie got it's name from the Shearers Wifes Lament, "Friday night too tired, Saturday too pissed, Sunday too far away" It's a great aussie movie. Cheers P.L.
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RHP User
12 years ago
made some absolutely beautiful post, so much so i need a few minutes alone...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Imagine if someone thought I was more vanilla than I already think I am?! I'd be a born again virgin, I reckon. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You just made me cry in public. Damn you! - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
12 years ago
Most might think Vegemite is same old same old, but if you swizzle it with a cup of tea, well.............got too try it I say Turn the bread upside down cos the taste buds are on the top of our tongues. But peanut butter only works with coffee. A drop of vanilla really works best on the old feller and his mates below. So deep throat is vanilla.
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sweetgem
12 years ago
Someone wants to call me vanilla just to make them feel they have done more, or known better than I do and know, then so be it as long as it can put out the fire of potential debating and/or arguing, and save a day of hating :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Vanilla is hard to judge. We are all at different stages of our sexual journeys, different stages of our lives. We have all been with people with different viewpoints regarding sexual kink or bravado. Kink.....is different for everyone. The trick I think is to bump into someone in the same space in time as you.....with the want to push boundaries and explore each other. That's where magic happens. That is why we all desire something different and exciting.....at different stages of our lives or relationships. I always say " You can't eat lobster everyday".....even that would become boring and mundane eventually. Variety is the spice of life....and the only way we can mix things up is to try new things!!, food, clothes, holidays...and partners!!!!.
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