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Jenstas confession!
November 03 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
My eldest child was on this site and I was on another. As I had her very young in life, there would be a cross in mens ages so I joined to keep an eye on her and so we did not end up with the same guy at some stage. LOL. Which has nearly happened a time or two anyway. Just as well we communicate freely. I too have met some trully wonderful people on RHP. Not many of them I would date either but the friendship is more important to me. Yes I would like to one day meet a Mr-Just-for-me and until then I am happy playing and looking and having fun. I am in no hurry and if it happens all well and good. If it doesnt...I can live with that as well as my lifestyle is fairly complicated. I also do not want to sleep with every Tom, Dick or Harry. I agree it would become meaningless. I am careful about who I invite into my home and my body!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am not looking for just any Tom, Cock or Harry either ! ...What i like most about this site forum friends ,is the open nature we can talk about sex.. I say this not in a sleazy way but playful..I too have met some great people and i am sure will continue to do so..Do i want a relationship from here? Well being single i am open to anything that may make my life better..As the people here who know me, i dont meet alot of woman because i can be time poor and while i love great sex , i cant have a turnstile at my front door, that dosent interest me.. I guess i just take out of the site what i need , if more comes along then that is a bonus..And spending more time with the sexy Jenstar when i am next in melb..xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Love your honesty and integrity Jensta, adore how you put things out there. This is a really great post. Like the above, I do not book them in like Flight Centre...my life is wonderful and enjoy juggling all aspects of life...I don't like schedule too much..although a very organised being. Gosh I joined just to communicate with the world and if it be this techo world, then so be it. I had just come out of a 3rd marriage after being wodowed the 2nd round, and was in despair. I wanted to talk to the world although felt worthless. Hence my girlfriend joined me up, been a bit of an addict at times lol. I have learned alot about people and myself most importantly. I would date quite a few of the friends that I have met here, absolutely! Have had the privilege to date and find out more of what I am looking for and what I am not looking for. My profile does say alot, just spills natural I guess but that's who I am. At the end of the day, my time here is serious, kind, considerate, happy and always jolly. I like a little balance of outside rhp and inside rhp..and to get so many many happy birthday wishes today was 2nd to none ...Alot I have met and made the effort to msg me..Made me smile hard. Simple things really. This site is pretty cool. Great company for me in the forums and adore the chatrooms..so unpredictable as to what you walk in on...love it! xxx Care to everyone
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RHP User
15 years ago
I did join rhp in anticipation of meeting with a like minded male who enjoyed sensual fun times together and if we were fortunate enough to really enjoy each other, then look at sharing more than an occassional meeting. I have never been that interested in revolving doors & the rhp catch cry of" Next"! ~ What has happened was very unexpected, as a straight female, I have been lucky to meet a handful of fabulous women ! ~ Alas, in my experience, generally the men are not as forthcoming as the women with their honesty and openess.....and on more than one occassion, spineless. Bowing to the pressure of their "little heads" as their thinking heads were told by certain, not so fabulous, generaly attached women, "you can maybe have one night with me, but that will never happen if you spend anytime with her (me or any other single female)"........which I do happen to find quite funny. These women are actually doing me a wonderful favour, sorting the wheat from the chaffe so to speak on my behalf. ~ So for the time being, I have asked rhp to close my profile.....dont know when that will happen, its been 3 days already, maybe they will get round to it one day soon. ~ I will probably be back again, whether its a week, a month.....the forums, when they are full of fun and nonsense, (especially some of the stirring from the nursery sandpit) make up for the lack of men with backbone and balls. ~ At least the next foray into the crazy world of rhp I will be forwarned, my expectations of finding a partner with similar ideals be virtually non-existant. ~ Believe it or not, I am not having a whinge here, just keeping it real and saying how it has been for me........... ..............and there has been some fun times along the way. ciao.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have had a really bad headfuck! which has made me stronger! maybe thats why I dont deal well with many undisireables! I am a cheeky, playful woman, but have selfworth and pride in myself! I have found that forem friends seem to be the more genuine real deal types! I want to tell yous more! but I cant on here! Taipan you know Jensta would love to catch up with you! Spunky! xxx We need to have christmas drinks! xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well to make a long story short, I joined because I needed to come out of my shell and open up a little. I live such a structured life and I'm on the go so much I have forgotten about what i like. My job has seen 2 marriages come and go and this time I thought I would go the "friends with benefits" on the advice of my therapist. Well I do not have the time nor do I like to meet women in bars. If I'm not shooting, I'm editing, if not that, then I'm planning. So there is little time for a lot of socialising, however I do have friends come in from other countries on a every 2 month basis to visit and stuff, but I do not play with help if you get my drift. I guess I wanted to try this FWB stuff to see if it meets my lifestyle. If there is a woman that can handle what I do then great if not, then the FWB is the best avenue for me.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Intrigued and Jenstar , wow... Let me just say, the first Melb drinks night i came down on my own ,not knowing anyone but a niave village boy ..Then met with Miss B , Saturn you 2 lovely ladies, Scottish ,Trish, Luvtosmile Sassy , seduction and of course Evil and Crazy... My point here is you guys made me comeback to visit again and makes me want to come back again..If this is a success story of rhp then chalk it up..Because i am better off knowing you lovely people. Intrigued we must have a scotch at chrissy !! Slumber party at Miss B 's ??
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh yes Taipan, that is how we have always seen you....not! lol Happy to hear you feel so welcome in Melbourne, such a warm bunch we are. Would love to have a scotch or 2 at Chrissy.....I am sure Missb would love the idea of a slumber party! Lets us know when you are going to be in town, missb knows how to find me.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes jensta you are right. Meaningless casual sex is just that meaningless. Why does it have to just be about sex on this site. Why cant it be about meeting people and maybe......just maybe meeting the perfect partner and being happy together. Sorry but I get so tired of people stating that this is just a SEX site. Bullshit. It's an adult DATING site. What people who meet on rsvp dont have sex???? Guess again Heaps of sexy guys on there and they actually turn up for dates. OK rant over. Hope you find some happiness Jensta xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
We all joined for various reasons ... I have had alot of fun and met some fantastic people. For the last couple of weeks have pondered about staying on here and have come to the conclusion like MS IC that it is time for a break. I have enjoyed immensely the chat room and the characters that actually chat and have good banter. I think for me rhp had become a little like crack and it is time to have the addiction treated! PS. Will miss the forums etc and like MS IC will no doubt return someday just to pop in and say hi... but like phases in life I think the internet providing me part of my entertainment is largely over..... cheers xxxx
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aldus1
15 years ago
Hey Newbs, you cannot leave us, some of us will miss you Like you I have made quite a few friends in chat, some have become more than good friends, some just good chat friends. Don't stay away for too long xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
RHP is full of wonderful men and women (seriously there ARE some great men out there!). I joined because a friend thought this site matched my personality ! I guess he was right on many levels. But it's been a massive growth for me. I have learnt more about myself in the past year than in the first 40 years ! I have allowed myself to be challenged and experience new pleasures and not so nice ones ! The Forums has always been my focus and main enjoyment. I love the small group of RHP friends I have made, nearly all have been non-sexual but have offered so much more in way of support, kindness and education ! I believe RHP can offer many things at different stages of our life. The chatrooms and revolving door can become addictive but if we look beyond that there is so so much more fulfillment and enrichment. I am happy to share a drink with any of my forum friends. I may not sleep with you but I will laugh, I will cry and I will talk as dirty as the next person ! Looking forward to some fun during the festive season. Drinks anyone ? Hugs, Miss Saturn
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't think it matters what your motivation is for joining sites like this, like minded people will somehow find each other and move forward from there. The only person you owe anything to is yourself and you should do the things that fulfill your own needs. If that is a different route to what someone else wants to follow then let them get on a different train.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I joined because the second bottle of champagne i drank on my own late at night, told me it was a gret and clever idea !! All hail the champagne voice of wisdom ! LOL I loves my RHP friends.......your such fun and so accepting.....where else could I play strip poker and feel completely safe ???? Without RHP my life would never have been graced by such wonderful and graceful souls like Miss IC (you cant hide), the adorable miss sassy,Taipan, shoe girl, boots..must share that champgne, that country lad with a tractor, funtobehad, evilboy,jensta, scottish, Lets, newbs, tueday nice guy, tassie, andy, skippy, seduction, saturn........ and all the folk who have wandered off.........each a thread in he rich tapestry of life. and all the forum contributers...always something to learn occassionally more than i really wanted to know..being a shy girl and all. Wonderfully informative tho ! lol But for all of us there comes a time when we seek to find a CARE BEAR not a SHARE BEAR..... HOWEVER .. as i sit here in bed with a nasty flu.....and not a nurse in sight !!...wearing my very seductive pink polka dot flannell jarmies and blue sox......INDEED....... a jarmie party at xmas sounds like a great idea !! Are you sure you are game ??? lol Or should we plan drinks for new years.................somewhere ...i am planning to be in the whitsundays...maybe hire a yatch ??????? OH la la a sick miss b (ligitamately)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Forums. Forums ! lol BadDog. Xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I initially joined because I was in a realtively sexless relationship that neither was quite ready to give up on and wanted some random sex with strangers...hell i was looking for the physical gratification nothing more....that relationship has been over for a number of months now (January infact) and I have stayed for varying reasons...the random sex was what i needed for a while, then I was looking for a regular FWB...now though am here for the forums mainly...sure i am meeting some fabulous people along the way and having an awesome time (especially at the various drinks nights around the country) and being only human (and single) who knows where things will lead.... Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
I just wanted to have some fun for a change - get out there and live a little instead of always taking the safe road. I admit I haven't done very much of that so far. I mainly like the forum. So I am little confused about what I want at the moment..... xx Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
a situation arose yesterday which really upset the evilboy applecart. stories were told by someone without much knowledge of evilboys situation or the facts, and without explaining details, it has hurt some people. the person was not a forum contributer, but i need to dissappear for a while, maybe forever. enjoyed my time here, and the people who i rate highly will know themselves who they are. thanks. evilboy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Evilboy u will be missed here by many of us! Hope to see u at Melb drinks! Why do people have to spoil things? All the best Mike, xxx Hope to see u back here on the forems
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hold the phone Evilboy !!
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RHP User
15 years ago
where is everybody going to ??????? Can I come too????? But Evil.......you dont have my number.........how will we let you know when to turn up in jarmies ??????
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