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Its in the details

August 06 2012

I wonder how many guys actual look at a vagina, or how many women use a hand mirror to look at themselves? Women are all so different , so are guys so I like to have a look at a guy in the light for several reasons. I think there prrrrrrrrrrty things when attached to the right sexy brain. I also like to make sure that the guy is clean. Now I have a female friend she is not bi, but I watch her having sex as we sometimes share. We have it down to a fine art,but we realise that we both have a totality different way to get off. This is because her clit is deeper back in her labia and mine is more to the front so we fire up in a different way. She takes a long run off, where she has lots of smaller orgasms about six or so and then one big one where she often squirts. I on the other hand have one big one first and then ripple down to just short of exhaustion. Now most men do not get it, that were different, and it has never occurred to any to ask. So we tell them right up front, this is how we work, this is what you need to do to get us both off. Its been hit and miss, but I think the issue is that most women do not tell a guy what they want or need. I think most women have never watched another woman have sex so they have nothing to compare themselves to. Many women will not even undress in front of another woman We cannot blame men for not knowing if we do not know ourselves is what I am trying to say here. If a guy is told what he has to do, then you as a woman have to help him not rush in and get his end away then piss off. Women need to take control of things unless they have a very experienced considerate lover, and considerate is not the norm. Many guys talk up a storm on RHP, like you will not be disappointed or I will last all night , yada yada its advertising they are good at. So ladies do you have a problem telling a man what you need. Do you really know what it is that gets you to where you want to go or are you just a passenger on the bus? And men do you really pay attention to a woman, or is your eye on the door and your watch?

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RHP User

13 years ago

I guess I'm guilty of not being up front straight away in telling a guy exactly what works for me, but I suppose I'm not just the one night stand type of person either. I like to see what he has to offer and what kind of talents he has before making suggestions and requests. As for knowing what I want; quite a few years ago I learnt what really works for me through experimenting on myself and, since then, have had some surprises along the way where I've had somone else help me discover what works for me. And yes.....I've used mirror, Tuscan.

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RHP User

13 years ago

I definitely look and pay attention to what the woman likes, she will always give a reaction and then it's up to us men to know what is what from there. I agree some guys talk the talk but let's face it we all get it wrong from time to time but getting it right is the fun journey!!!

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RHP User

13 years ago

Tuscan I would love to watch another woman having sex. Especially a more mature, experienced sex goddess like yourself. I never want to stop learning, exploring and discovering just how much pleasure my body can give and receive . But to answer your question, it depends who I'm with. Sometimes I'm happy to give gentle tips and guidance and other times , especially when I am with a confident,mature lover, I like to see what "he's got, and be surprised". So book me a front row seat please;) Minxy x

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RHP User

13 years ago

I love to explore women's differences bot anatomical and mental. Actually you can throw spiritual and emotional in there too. Also, it is intensely arousing to be told what a woman likes, from the explicit "I want this" to the more subtle "mmmmma little higher". Great stuff! I know from many and varied conversations that this is not easy for many women, but by god it is arousing to have a confident woman who will tell you what she wants!

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RHP User

13 years ago

show themx Hugs H

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Zsuza69

13 years ago

I like to take my time with the women im with exploring their bodies finding out what makes them squirm or what makes them want more. Every woman is different in appearance of their vagina and the way they get to orgasm and the way they orgasm. i can normally tell while im pussy licking what she wants but having a woman tell u or better still hold your head and actually put you in the position she wants is great. love a dominate woman who knows what she wants and knows how to get it. As for wham bam thank you maam its not for me more like the turtle .... you know slow and steady wins the race well in my case slow and steady and make it last course your only here usually once so stay alert and smell the lovely aroma and enjoy the ride.

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RHP User

13 years ago

The pussy is a fascinating creature, with no two the same. With a multi-orgasmic woman it's so easy to get lost in the moment and overly excited that you push all her buttons at once, that's easy and anyone can do that.... but do you have the endeavour and patience to slowly undress one that may take a little more work, or at least learn to listen, observe, take notes, and read the signs... a pussy puzzle can be fun too.So, if you don't get the keys to the boat shed straight away.... be generous and pay attention, the rewards of a satisfied pussy are plentiful. so blondie, what your saying is, when we see your cheeks blushing it's time to back off, we can't have you falling into a heap so early into the experience and not reciprocating. Do you have plenty of beer in your fridge while we wait for round 2?

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RHP User

13 years ago

Of course I like to look of a vagina. Both before and after penetration ...Each one has its own unique personality, some are puffy, some look small and tight , some look big... some have a protruding clit while some are hidden.. But, once penetration takes place and the thrusting starts.. they nearly all look the same.. That open butterfly look is almost identical 'except for size' on every girl' caucasion ' asian' europeon .. So girls' dont worry, show it with pride.. yours is just as good as anyone else's... as long as its clean and neat... just my take on it... Jay

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RHP User

13 years ago

"And men do you really pay attention to a woman, or is your eye on the door and your watch?"Hope you don't expect to many honest answers to that one !I'm much more a fan of spontaneity and discovery than choreography so yep after the instructional speech my eye would be on the door.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Thanx TR I really get to spend lot of time looking at vaginas and penises, the functional parts of these organs vary greatly individually. In my case it for work not pleasure. They really do make things difficult when there are modifications ie; piercings. aboriginal whistle cocks... Try passing a catheter on an old aboriginal man with prostate problems!!!!! Mike

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RHP User

13 years ago

Quoting 'coodi_yowie' The pussy is a fascinating creature, with no two the same. With a multi-orgasmic woman it's so easy to get lost in the moment and overly excited that you push all her buttons at once, that's easy and anyone can do that.... but do you have the endeavour and patience to slowly undress one that may take a little more work, or at least learn to listen, observe, take notes, and read the signs... a pussy puzzle can be fun too.So, if you don't get the keys to the boat shed straight away.... be generous and pay attention, the rewards of a satisfied pussy are plentiful. so blondie, what your saying is, when we see your cheeks blushing it's time to back off, we can't have you falling into a heap so early into the experience and not reciprocating. Do you have plenty of beer in your fridge while we wait for round 2?i have never thought of it that way...but i can see the point...i am multi- orgasmic...but i always thought, that it still took a giving, considerate lover...who knew what he was doing...to actually get me aroused enough, to get into that zone...when i just keep on cumming...over and over...but now you got me wondering.... if i had it wrong all along....and it's really just the case of me "being easy" to get off....it doesn't take someone special at all, to take me to heaven and back...and really anyone can do it....

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razor2000

13 years ago

Ok I'll bite, what's an "aboriginal whistlecock" miketheduc?

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RHP User

13 years ago

what is a neat vagina as opposed to an untidy onex Hugs H

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RHP User

13 years ago

Quoting '50zcool'"And men do you really pay attention to a woman, or is your eye on the door and your watch?" Hope you don't expect to many honest answers to that one ! I'm much more a fan of spontaneity and discovery than choreography so yep after the instructional speech my eye would be on the door. Well some men never read the manual either , I would show you the door before we got started if what I wanted made you uncomfortable. I can tell in a second if a guy is willing to be guided, some guys just know it all so they do not need to learn anything of me I am very spontaneous , this does not mean that I am passive participant. I never plan sex that’s the joy of it for me. Lucky for me most guys do listen to what my needs are, and is not always vocal instructions body language makes up a great part of it. If your too proud to read the manual then do not go to Ikea , you may wonder why things are not quiet right when you put it all together.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Ok so one of the aboriginal initiation rites practised in some parts of traditional areas involve something called whistlecocking young men. Usually aged around 13 to 18 I am not sure of the significance so please don't ask. The parctice is somewhat like circumcision EXCEPT instead of removing the foreskin an incision is made halfway up the urethra about 1-2 cms long. Hence whistlecock. It is one of the rites of passage for young men. I am led to understand by aboriginal friends in the Kinberly it is one of the steps to becoming a lawman. When it is done by an experienced practitioner its is relatively benign but and this is a qualified but it seems to be of late being performed by enthusiastic but less than experienced people. Hence passing a catheter on someone whistlecocked means the catheter can be problematic at the least. Mike Ps the catheter I'm talking about is to assist post operatively in monitoring pt renal function and is inserted into the urethra, (piss hole)

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