Is my BF gay?

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  Sounds like u r abit confused....my suggestion he ask him.....!!! What thing is for sure he is weird....lol

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  Fcuk...2 lines and full of spelling mistake...lol lets try again; Sounds like u r abit confused....my suggestion is ask him.....!!! One thing is for sure he is abit weird....lol

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  Wanting to understand your partners sexuality is completely normal, but it helps to accept that you can never live in your partners head and that to a large degree that is a private space where they may choose to keep part of themselves tucked away. Perhaps in this case however your initial focus should be on what his displays of affection and sexuality mean to you. Are they what you want, all you need? If not, discuss this and give him a chance to learn to express more to please you if possible, or ask yourself the hard question - can I get by without something more? The question of his gender preferences are less relevant if he just isn’t right for you. If you make sure you’re happy you’ll be in a better place to make sure he’s happy. There could be a bunch of reasons for his reservations. Maybe he is insecure about doing it right and needs guidance and reassurance from you there? Maybe he heard and believed some weird schoolyard tale about the nasty teeth you girls keep hidden away in there, hehe... or maybe he is gay! Perhaps arrange a 3some with a gorgeous stud and see if you’re left twiddling your thumbs,... (joke!!)

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  Doesnt sound like you have much to go on - alot of guys just arent into the sexual touching - they more just poke it in and wiggle around types - I think alot of RHP girls spoilt by some on here that are awesome lovers!!! hehehehe.... have you tried just talking to him????? He may be bi - or just confused...

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  Doesnt kiss... Doesnt do oral... Doesnt touch vaginas Bugga meeeeeeeeeeeeee is there anything he does do... I be kicking his ass to the kerb ... but gee thats just my "all about me attitude" This man surely must realise that sex isnt about him???? Its about fulfilling your needs as well as his own. If you have only been with him 3 months and its this bad... get yourself a new improved unselfish model. niki xxx

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  1redhotmale

  19 years ago

  I know there are people with different sex drives, but not touching, no kissing no oral, what!!! come on. kissing is just one beautiful part of the whole sexual experience between 2 love birds, no matter sex preferences. about the anus fingered im not sure biguys maybe hmmm this is a tough one Kiss_chasey, all the best baby Oh well that’s me

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  Honey, I know others have said it, but have you talked to him about it, and asked him why he doesn’t do those things? Is it possible he doesn’t have much experience and he doesn’t like to do those things because he doesn’t want to admit he doesn’t know what he’s doing?? A lot of guys are really scared to admit they don’t know much about sex, the female body and what to do with it, and will go to great lengths to cover it up. Perhaps what’s going on is he just doesn’t know what to do, so he avoids even attempting. Just a thought :)

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